TwinsandMe #2 too important to socially distance, for a bag of sweets my family will dance

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And here she goes thanking everyone for their lovely messages. She’s useless at parenting she fobs the children off at her connivence. She obviously has similar followers as fbg as all they do is blow her ego up. See she’s relaxed now her Mam has collected the kids and there gone to Creche so off she heads to her dads for her boiled egg
 
PandoraRose said:
Yeah but you don't get to film your poor distressed children for 'content' or show your filthy house if you do that😠
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Exactly. Everyone giving julie advice on how to manage are missing the point. She wants it to look hard as that's her 'brand'. Struggling single mother doing it on her own. Julie just doesn't realise that her idea of a struggle is in fact not one bit of a struggle and she's sacrificing her children's wellbeing for a few likes and a bit of attention for other dummies like her
 
I understand it must be hard for single parents to sit at home every night doing bedtime and clean up on their own but the fact she doesn't have the kids all day means she could get her jobs done then. I've 3 kids with additional needs and a husband that works crazy hours, I dont get a break except once a month to get my nails done and I rush back after to them. Even when the kids are in school I only get 3 hours without them, hers are gone all day.
 
if she got off the phone she could clean the house and stop complainin about it.
if she stopped crying into a camera she could give those poor kids a bed time routine.
sorry now but if she can find time to get her hair nails make up tan done and socialise she could find the time to tidy the toys and clean up.
my fella is rarely home with work but i still keep the place clean and have my child in a routine. i do all of it myself i dont have help and some days i fall into bed but im still grateful weve a roof over our heads you dont do it for yourself you do it so your child feels safe and happy.
it must be really hard for single mams to watch her shes not relatable atall
 
She should be on fair city with the rest of the shite actors. An absolute crazy witch who has no respect for anyone least of all her kids. Out playing with the traffic in the sun but dumped to bed in the rain so she can sit in her dirty mess crying into her phone looking for attention. If only she knew the struggles of a single parent who works with no social welfare entitlement or maintenance. I Just don’t understand how she is not investigated by social welfare and also social workers. This has to stop.
 
I’ve got 3 kids under 5. Including a unruly toddler the same age as julies twins and a newborn. My husband works full time so I’m basically doing it all on my own most days. I find the only way to do it is clean as you go. Clean up after breakfast, lunch and dinner as soon as it’s done. Of course my kids can play with their toys but I won’t allow them to pull out every single toy they own. It’s no wonder bed time is chaos for Julie when the house itself is in such chaos.

The twins are at an age where they can be seriously testing and ruthless. Trust me I know! I just think she needs to get off the phone and concentrate on them a bit more and being a mom instead of chasing the insta fame which she is so clearly craving!
 
Sav1977 said:
I’ve got 3 kids under 5. Including a unruly toddler the same age as julies twins and a newborn. My husband works full time so I’m basically doing it all on my own most days. I find the only way to do it is clean as you go. Clean up after breakfast, lunch and dinner as soon as it’s done. Of course my kids can play with their toys but I won’t allow them to pull out every single toy they own. It’s no wonder bed time is chaos for Julie when the house itself is in such chaos.

The twins are at an age where they can be seriously testing and ruthless. Trust me I know! I just think she needs to get off the phone and concentrate on them a bit more and being a mom instead of chasing the insta fame which she is so clearly craving!
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Do you not have a brother that is available 24/7 to provide both financial support and a free babysitting service whenever you need it?
 
EggChair said:
Do you not have a brother that is available 24/7 to provide both financial support and a free babysitting service whenever you need it?
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I bloody wish 🤪🤪🤪. Had the 3 stuck on to my 24/7 during lockdown and pretty much the same since. And do you know what.. I’ve a clean house and kids that go to bed at the same time every night without drama. And also I don’t let the newborn or 2 year old out on the road on their own😂😂
 
Taylor17 said:
Exactly. Everyone giving julie advice on how to manage are missing the point. She wants it to look hard as that's her 'brand'. Struggling single mother doing it on her own. Julie just doesn't realise that her idea of a struggle is in fact not one bit of a struggle and she's sacrificing her children's wellbeing for a few likes and a bit of attention for other dummies like her
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I'm confused as to how a childcare professional cannot manage her own kids and get them into a routine. If she started a routine and stuck with it from morning til night for a few weeks, her life would you be so much easier, but sure she'd have no content then at all. She's not doing the kids any favours by leaving them trash her house by day and cry themselves to sleep at night. The rule in my house has always been you don't take out another toy til the one you are playing with gets put away, and sometimes the place got trashed, but not on the reg like Julie's house. The more I am reading the posts here of moms doing it all alone or with minimal support, the more annoyed I am at Julie, she's an absolute snowflake, she has more support than most people, a better social life than any mom I know, and she spends most of her time complaining and whinging.
 
Sav1977 said:
I bloody wish 🤪🤪🤪. Had the 3 stuck on to my 24/7 during lockdown and pretty much the same since. And do you know what.. I’ve a clean house and kids that go to bed at the same time every night without drama. And also I don’t let the newborn or 2 year old out on the road on their own😂😂
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Your doing it wrong the two year old should b minding the new baby just at the side of the road😂if u did it this way you’d have loads more time to complain about how hard your life is 😂😂 ( only kidding )
 
kkgirl said:
I really don’t understand how she whips out the phone to record herself crying & her child crying in the background. Last thing I would do! I would be going to my child not recording it ! As for the house .. no excuse. If they on Creche this morning she could have got on top of house work. Julie is her own worse enemy. Bet the mother or Sean will be over to help clean up the house
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She'll probably be off getting nails done or something
 
MojitoMel said:
I'm confused as to how a childcare professional cannot manage her own kids and get them into a routine. If she started a routine and stuck with it from morning til night for a few weeks, her life would you be so much easier, but sure she'd have no content then at all. She's not doing the kids any favours by leaving them trash her house by day and cry themselves to sleep at night. The rule in my house has always been you don't take out another toy til the one you are playing with gets put away, and sometimes the place got trashed, but not on the reg like Julie's house. The more I am reading the posts here of moms doing it all alone or with minimal support, the more annoyed I am at Julie, she's an absolute snowflake, she has more support than most people, a better social life than any mom I know, and she spends most of her time complaining and whinging.
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I honestly do not think Julie is a qualified childcare worker if I’m honest, I think she just does school pick ups lol, I’m all seriousness I would be worried if she was looking after my kids in a crèche, ffs she can’t even cope or watch her own two she hasn’t a bloody clue 🙄
 
Sav1977 said:
I bloody wish 🤪🤪🤪. Had the 3 stuck on to my 24/7 during lockdown and pretty much the same since. And do you know what.. I’ve a clean house and kids that go to bed at the same time every night without drama. And also I don’t let the newborn or 2 year old out on the road on their own😂😂
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I’m sure the two year old be able to watch the
MojitoMel said:
I'm confused as to how a childcare professional cannot manage her own kids and get them into a routine. If she started a routine and stuck with it from morning til night for a few weeks, her life would you be so much easier, but sure she'd have no content then at all. She's not doing the kids any favours by leaving them trash her house by day and cry themselves to sleep at night. The rule in my house has always been you don't take out another toy til the one you are playing with gets put away, and sometimes the place got trashed, but not on the reg like Julie's house. The more I am reading the posts here of moms doing it all alone or with minimal support, the more annoyed I am at Julie, she's an absolute snowflake, she has more support than most people, a better social life than any mom I know, and she spends most of her time complaining and whinging.
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No rearing on the twins cause Julie wants to be insta famous. She needs a dose of cop the duck on. How can the twins know any better they destroy the place but they are used to living in dirt just like there ma. She’s an absolute scruffy scumbag who comes on bawling every chance she gets. You can’t have kids out playing one night till after 9 doing as they please at the good old age of 2 🙄 then when she’s stuck with them in the house throws them up to bed bawling two hours earlier and then she records herself bawling. This is going on for a year and a bleeping half. I had a full time job mortgage to pay a single parent and i can gladly say when mine were younger my house was never as dirty as that scruffs.

Derrygirl2020xx said:
I honestly do not think Julie is a qualified childcare worker if I’m honest, I think she just does school pick ups lol, I’m all seriousness I would be worried if she was looking after my kids in a crèche, ffs she can’t even cope or watch her own two she hasn’t a bloody clue 🙄
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You would be thinking right. She’s not qualified.
 
Its actually like she's proud that house is a kip. The way she pans the camera around to show the piles of mess. Like she didn't even have to cook dinner yesterday as was sent those ready meals. I have zero help, its just a matter of keeping on top, little and often throughout the day. Clean as you go. Its actually not that hard. Like fair enough if your out working during the day and have young kids but if your home full time there is no excuse for a messy house and no routine. My house is not perfect by the way ! But there is a difference between a house that's lived in and just mess left build up and kids left run riot
 
Homelifemomma said:
Its actually like she's proud that house is a kip. The way she pans the camera around to show the piles of mess. Like she didn't even have to cook dinner yesterday as was sent those ready meals. I have zero help, its just a matter of keeping on top, little and often throughout the day. Clean as you go. Its actually not that hard. Like fair enough if your out working during the day and have young kids but if your home full time there is no excuse for a messy house and no routine. My house is not perfect by the way ! But there is a difference between a house that's lived in and just mess left build up and kids left run riot
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I like to say my house is a clean mess. I clean the floors, walls, dust etc but there is organised chaos too
 
The lack of routine is nuts. My daughter is 15 months old and we all sit down together to dinner in the evenings. No way would I be shoveling spoons of food into them at the door or window or whatever she does be doing. It's crazy like. She's obviously let them get away with it so now they know no different. Why doesn't she make the one meal for the three of them and sit down together to eat?
 
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