TwinsandMe #2 too important to socially distance, for a bag of sweets my family will dance

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@Clangers2 everything you said is so right. I had colic baby also & went thur the motions. But I got both my kids to self sooth at early age. I would love to know her bedtime routine. Cos we never hear about bath time or bedtime story. All we see is Julie siting on the stairs on her phone. It’s like she puts them straight to bed with out any wind down time
 
Clangers2 said:
Who thinks to pick up their phone and record themselves crying about bedtime with 2 two year olds FFS
This i cannot tolerate
Your a childcare worker too
This is going on since they have been in their own rooms and it's all her doing
Children need to be trained to go to sleep
Trained to have good sleep habits
99% of them don't just pick them up naturally
Your the mother your the adult
They are 2
Cop on to yourself and either 1) separate them into two bedrooms as you have the space so one isn't waking the other or 2) put some bleeping discipline in place
I am sick and tired of this tit whinging and moaning every night about bedtime
Its not that bloody hard you put a relaxing bedtime routine in place bath milk etc bedtime story
Then you turn off the light, close the bleeping door and let them cry
After about 3 nights of doing this they will get it
Its that bleeping simple....
And it should be done when a baby is about 6/7 months old
She had let it get to this for 2 years out of pure laziness and not tackling the problem
Taking the easy option of giving in
Confusing the kids nó end
Sorry but I am sick of seeing this tit from her
Be a parent Julie
Or this will only get worse
You put in the hard work and you get the rewards
Rant over


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While I agree there is actually no need to let a baby cry to sleep, they can learn a good sleep routine without crying enough to exhaust themselves.
 
kkgirl said:
@Clangers2 everything you said is so right. I had colic baby also & went thur the motions. But I got both my kids to self sooth at early age. I would love to know her bedtime routine. Cos we never hear about bath time or bedtime story. All we see is Julie siting on the stairs on her phone. It’s like she puts them straight to bed with out any wind down time
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I know it comes accross as harsh but my first a boy, had fierce colic and reflux and as I'm sure you know those babies esp 1st babies get very quickly very used to getting picked up and winded/settled at every little move they make, when it got to 7 months and my son was waking up every hour and a half all night and I was back to work nursing full time I thought ah here I can't have this anymore and I did what everyone told me to do and I put him into his own room, and turned off the light closed the door and after a few ropey nights of him screaming in pure anger to be picked up, he got it and we never looked back, same with my 2nd baby xx
 
Beans.means.. said:
While I agree there is actually no need to let a baby cry to sleep, they can learn a good sleep routine without crying enough to exhaust themselves.
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Well that's what worked for mine, and anyone else I know to be honest, obviously if they are inconsolable you would walk into the room and soothe for a minute and walk back out, but I swear by it and with 2 very clever 2 year taking the mick like this for 2 years + I would give diamonds to see it be done any other way
 
kkgirl said:
@Clangers2 everything you said is so right. I had colic baby also & went thur the motions. But I got both my kids to self sooth at early age. I would love to know her bedtime routine. Cos we never hear about bath time or bedtime story. All we see is Julie siting on the stairs on her phone. It’s like she puts them straight to bed with out any wind down time
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She simply doesn't have one ! Never has. Watch TV or ipads ,then tells them to go to bed. Different time every day some evenings it 7pm sometimes its after 9pm. No bath, no stories. No quiet time. No consistency at all. What does she expect. Uses the fact she has to do it on her own as the reason for lack of hard work and routine
 
I cannot believe what I watched, those poor little children. The state of her house is something else, she is not the only person in the world with a couple of small children. When she was in her dad's house drinking tea she could have been at home tidying that pig sty. It is easy known it isn't her own house she doesn't give a tit about it.
Her children are confused and don't know what way is up, mine were never great for going to bed but I never let them cry, that would have broken my heart, you parent the children you have not the ones you wish you had. That bedtime "routine" is obviously NOT working so try something else. She is not a great mother, she is not nurturing, she is selfish.
 
Notgoingonlineagaintoday said:
I cannot believe what I watched, those poor little children. The state of her house is something else, she is not the only person in the world with a couple of small children. When she was in her dad's house drinking tea she could have been at home tidying that pig sty. It is easy known it isn't her own house she doesn't give a tit about it.
Her children are confused and don't know what way is up, mine were never great for going to bed but I never let them cry, that would have broken my heart, you parent the children you have not the ones you wish you had. That bedtime "routine" is obviously NOT working so try something else. She is not a great mother, she is not nurturing, she is selfish.
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Yeah, if she actually had to pay for her furniture, and I'm not having a go at anyone who has a council house or gets hap, my sister has a council house and she has it beautiful and appreciates it, but Julie just expects to get everything and has no appreciation for anything, she thinks it's her due because she's a single mom of twins
 
That online jewellery shop that Julie received a few gifts from today looked nice so I had a look at their insta page.

I did a search for three things (2 pairs of earrings and a necklace) and all available on Aliexpress. I'm not saying they necessaeily get their stuff on Ali but if anyone is interested it's available much cheaper there.
 
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