Twins and Me #16

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I think nobody would deny Julie, or anyone in her position, the chance to be able to leave the twins in creche while her father was very sick, and it's good that the provision is there in these circumstances.
However, Julie increased her sympathy from followers by saying that she had no one to help, she was on her own, and she was finding it very hard. There were strangers offering to mind those kids. And it took her over 2 weeks to come out and say they had been in creche all the time. She made a fool.of those people who kindly offered to help out.
 
I'm not defending julie in the slightest it's not a big deal to say the kids where in the creche preschool while she wanted to spend the last days with her doll of a dad. Because if I remember rightly in the beginning there was a few comments of ohhh why would she take the kids it's no place for the kids the dad needs peace I dont even know if it was on this thread or previous. She needed help surely she hardly thought she would be slated for doing the right thing. As its only her parents and sean that looked after them for her. She needs to stop think about what shes going to day and engage her brain before she speaks. My sons asd and back in preschool since Jan. They didn't have to ring up board of education etc he is considered vulnerable he doesn't mix or socialise and they where afraid of him losing progress now it's only for an hour a day from last year 🤣
 
It's not about having her kids in creche, I think that was the best thing to do in that situation, it's the lying about having no help, bringing up the kids dad and crying about nobody to take them while she spends the final days with her dad, obviously not true when she had loads of offers and a creche to help out. You see she is always torn between telling the truth or getting more attention so she says whatever she thinks will give her more sympathy. Example when she said nobody to help but yet streams of gifts to the door from friends so which is it? She even said it out herself yesterday kids in creche but then loads offered to take them and quickly make up a story that they would cry if left with other people, not connected to reality god love her plus my mother always said a liar needs a good memory.
 
Sandyclaws said:
Exactly Sneakers, like in one breath she said she had no one to take them, in the next she said she was inundated with offers. You can't have it both ways, depending on which you think makes you out to be more in need of sympathy
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A liar will always catch themselves out in their own web of lies. She totally contradicted herself there on her stories and made it even worse then by lying. She wasn’t coping and was having public meltdowns about not coping with the twins, she should of just being honest when we all knew they were back in Creche.
 
sugs10 said:
To be fair to Julie I don’t think she owes anyone an explanation as to where her children were. They were in crèche and were looked after I don’t think it’s really anyone’s business.
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Why is she using social media for sympathy then? It's everyone's business if she's sharing her information. She's quite capable of going into her settings on instagram and pressing the privacy button.
 
MyHeartisBlack said:
Just catching up on the thread I thought Òg was added to a son named after his father we have a Sèan and a Sèan Òg in our family nobody uses the Òg except his mother we say big Sèan and young Sèan, I don’t think there is any deep meaning behind either of the kids names other than the fact they should be living in Australia she would have wanted the Irish names to stand out over there. She’s too much of an eejit to actually look into meanings
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Id say that mother loves yous all calling him young Séan! My son is Pauric Óg after his dad and the main reason the Óg is there is to stop people calling them young and old or big and small. Although he is 11 now and most people have dropped the Óg except family and my friends. Teachers, his friends and sports clubs all just call him Pauric. It drives me mad!!
 
Ali47 said:
Id say that mother loves yous all calling him young Séan! My son is Pauric Óg after his dad and the main reason the Óg is there is to stop people calling them young and old or big and small. Although he is 11 now and most people have dropped the Óg except family and my friends. Teachers, his friends and sports clubs all just call him Pauric. It drives me mad!!
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May have been easier to call him something else so....🤷🏼‍♀️
 
Ali47 said:
Id say that mother loves yous all calling him young Séan! My son is Pauric Óg after his dad and the main reason the Óg is there is to stop people calling them young and old or big and small. Although he is 11 now and most people have dropped the Óg except family and my friends. Teachers, his friends and sports clubs all just call him Pauric. It drives me mad!!
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Why does it drive you mad? If you said the main reason for adding the óg was to stop people calling him big, small etc. If they know/call him by not needing to refer to it, why would it upset you? The óg has done it's job?

Julie started adding in the óg and the Rose in the twins names when she started on insta. Anything to be different I suppose.
 
My other half is named after his dad, both first and middle name.. no jr or òg and now his dad and mam live next door to us, the post man has an awful task ..🙈
His dad always says he regret s naming him his name.

But each to their own.
None of my brother's were named after my dad , although the grand sons have some form of his name in their middle names..
 
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