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I know these in-depth medical posts are aiming to help, but most of us here have experienced cancer in our lives and we aren’t really under any illusion about what it all means. It’s more the discrepancies that are confusing us. I’d hazard a guess that everyone here thinks she does have cancer and isn’t in true remission given what has been said prior, either that or she’s been terribly misleading and was never that sick to start - the latter seems unlikely given the surgery was ever even mentioned. Tiffany is coming across absolutely clueless so I doubt she’d magic that out of nowhere herself unless someone had said it to her.

I honestly think most of us are expecting her to be inoperable at the end of this 6 weeks and I really hope that isn’t the case. But I can’t fathom her willingness to take the gamble unless she knows something we don’t.
 
A lot of people seem angry and confused because they think you either have cancer or don't. Some types are more like a chronic condition where you need to live with constant monitoring or adjustment of treatment.

I'm not sure this is the reason; it appears people are angry as a result of being confused and frustrated by the lack of basic information. As someone pointed out, Tiffany's scan results were given during a much-anticipated appointment and it took three videos for her to mention them. I don't believe her team forgot to mention the scan results when that was the purpose of the appointment, but Tiffany presented it as if she didn't know because she didn't ask. Most people, rightfully, don't find this believable. In this instance, the dissemination of information to her viewers seemed deliberately slow to accumulate more views.

A quick Google search reveals that Tiffany is most likely in "partial remission" which also applies to her type of cancer AND the treatment she received. This means there is no sign of active disease at the time and the tumour is still there but has not grown. If there are still zero changes after 4 weeks then the patient can be declared in full remission, although this doesn't necessarily mean they are cancer free. This probably explains why both the oncologist and surgeon feel it makes most sense to wait a bit, and she will possibly get the good news in 6 weeks (4 weeks by now).

Google search results derive from a variety of sources, all of which originate back to Tiffany's channel or an interview with her. The information she provides is what turns up in articles about her, and little write-ups here and there. If you've watched all her videos (or kept up with the general timeline), you'd know there's conflicting, incorrect and missing information that doesn't flow from one to the next, making her an unreliable source. Without her showing some scans or medical records, we can't know the status of her cancer.

These are a few other points that people are confused about but are pretty easy to decipher if you've been watching her for a while:

- They apparently found something suspicious in her lungs in the first hospital, however an ensuing scan at the Marsden showed it was not cancer. There probably is a nodule or some tiny lesion and she was referring to this in the last video. However this wasn't fully explained and made it sound far more serious to those who missed the original lung vids.

Correct, most likely. It sounds like a benign module that's being monitored due to having aggressive cancer elsewhere.

- How did she go from inoperable tumour not responding to chemo & radiation to NED? The most likely theory is that the scans done after radiation showed the tumour was still there and hadn't shrunk. This was what caused the urgency for surgery. However the tumour might ALREADY have been scar tissue at that point but they had no way of knowing. This is why the team wanted to run PET, MRI and biopsies. The biopsies obviously came back showing it was scar tissue so that alleviated the urgency for surgery.

1. There was no mention of her being NED; Tiffany relayed information in a way that implies this, but if the doctor had said this on the phone or in appointments, it would be puzzling to not include it in the vlogs as it would be a massive milestone.
2. The team did PET, MRI, CT as a matter of routine (and biopsies) to verify whether or not she was a candidate for surgery, as it's the only curative treatment for her T4B tumour. The biopsies were most likely of surrounding areas, rather than the tumour itself.
3. The urgency of surgery would not hinge on biopsies alone, as they only show whether the samples collected were cancerous. If they were cancerous, it would tell the surgeon that the cancer has spread further, but them being negative wouldn't cause the urgency to subside. Tiffany is telling us the surgeon and oncologist want to wait, but she never plays the recordings long enough to hear directly what is said. If you take her word for it, then surgery is not as urgent, but from a medical standpoint, the urgency would remain the same with clear biopsies because it would mean she's still a candidate for surgery and that window of opportunity tends to close rather quickly.

- The surgeon agreed on the surgery BEFORE she got C.Diff. She was incredibly ill during that time which probably played a role in his decision that delaying the surgery (in light of no active cancer) might be wise. In the first video about not having surgery, I assumed the surgeon may have gotten cold feet as a result of the C.Diff infection but the later videos showed this has reasonable medical indications as well.

Again, if you take Tiffany's information as being correct (and believe the surgeon wants to wait), the C-Diff infection is a viable reason for him to be concerned about her physical state before undergoing a major operation. I won't assume anything else about the surgeon (cold feet) because I've read enough about him to know his reputation is well-earned and he likely gives highly detailed information that Tiffany's audience doesn't receive. He's painted as rather incompetent, but I don't believe that for a second.

A few things that are being glossed over is that she is earning very well with her channel and merchandise. Socialblade numbers are usually in the middle of the range so around $3500 a month ad revenue, plus merch on top. She almost definitely earns more than the job as an optometrist but at the same time, good for her. She works incredibly hard putting videos out while being very ill or in hospital and deserves further respect for not taking on sponsorships. Literally nobody wants to see a product placement or Hello Fresh discount code during a video about cancer scans, and there's plenty of that on YouTube as well.

There is nothing inherently wrong with being a Youtuber as a job or selling merchandise. The issue people seem to have is the lack of transparency and the premise of a "loving family" as a sales pitch. There's also a lack of clarity about the purpose of her revenue; personally, I don't believe anyone has to donate to charity if they don't want to, but when profits are solely for personal income, there should be clarity for the patrons. Additionally, Tiffany's channel - unlike every other cancer vlogger - is marketed as a cancer channel, yet has so little information on the actual data of her cancer, that it's seen as clickbait. The content should reasonably match what's advertised.

There's plentiful information on how to buy her shirts and how to follow her on social media, but very little on the cancer journey itself. Together, this creates the impression it's a sympathy channel, rather than a medically-focused vlog where people can keep reasonable tabs on the person's condition. People don't have to share anything and Tiffany doesn't "owe" her audience much, but when you advertise your channel and business model around having cancer, there should be some coherent information that people can follow to justify the business.

The audience is meant to become emotionally invested in this deeply personal story/business, which makes the drips of information and carrot dangling a bit unsettling. When someone uses the state of their life/death to lure you into caring, but then fail to deliver a coherent timeline, it can damage trust about the creator's intentions. The questions contradictions people have asked about could've been sorted in a matter of minutes, yet despite hundreds of comments asking for this clarity, the response is habitual ambiguity. [/QUOTE]

If all goes well, and truly hoping this for her, her channel will just run on as everyday vlogs with the occasional checkup. In 4 weeks they'll probably tell her she's in full remission because the tumour hasn't changed so that will be a big celebration video. It honestly seems unlikely that there will be need for surgery, as the surgeon also mentioned if the cancer comes back as stage 4 then there's no point operating.

If Tiffany's diagnosis was correct, and they're still going for curative treatment, surgery is both required and inevitable. I don't know if you understand the seriousness of her cancer and how aggressively it can spread. In four weeks time, the hope is that it won't have got worse, but the "wait and watch" is waiting and watching for the cancer to return. With colorectal adenocarcinoma, stage IIIC with T4B tumour, this is almost a certainty. It's just a matter of when, which is why the notion of remission has an entirely different implication than someone whose prognosis is good without surgery. Tiffany will need the operate to have a chance of long-term survival, assuming she's not already stage IV.

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Hi! I’ve been blocked and deleted for offering an informed opinion and reminding her the dangers of waiting on the last video Tiffany published. I unsubbed after being subbed for a year. I thought I knew her but she suddenly showed a different side and I don’t like it. I hope she gets a miracle cuz she’s gonna need it if she keeps up the facade that everything’s fine. It’s NOT.
 
Guys, I can see my comment on the screenshot! So the thing is that quite a few of us discussed her in her comments section. We created several really long threads there. Some of us think she is downright faking it but some think that at this point she is definitely 'milking' it for the views. She always wanted to be a youtuber and now she has the opportunity. No other cancer youtubers sell their merch and keep the money! She deleted comments asking her about a video (she posted it before posting the first cancer video) in which she potentially mentions a surgery. So some of us think she had a surgery already back then. Either way, she is definitely hiding something.
 
I watch Tiffany’s YouTube updates and want the best outcome for her but, OMG, she is so frustrating.

She comes across as simple but she’s a qualified optometrist, so she must be intelligent. I wonder if the constant ‘I don’t understand’ is just shtick, like the little girl persona.

She can’t possibly be as ill-informed as she makes out.

Trust me, being an optometrist does not necessarily mean you are intelligent. They work at Specsavers in the UK. But yes, she is very simple, like she is coming from another planet. Some peoplel think she is faking it, to appear more endearing and innocent. She showed her true colours though after making her followers tell on each other in the comments. She is just so incredibly childish and immature.
 
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I'm one of those who has actively been discussing her potentially being a scammer in her comments. There are many many people who think that. I think she does (or did in the past) have cancer but she is really enjoying being a youtuber and she is strategically saying and posting (and clickbaiting) things to generate the most attention. Her youtube channel was very bad before that first cancer video. Her old videos would barely get 4 comments. Her content was as immature as she has always been (her eating junk food on camera, talking about boys using her babyvoice, and similar monstrosities).
 
I know these in-depth medical posts are aiming to help, but most of us here have experienced cancer in our lives and we aren’t really under any illusion about what it all means. It’s more the discrepancies that are confusing us. I’d hazard a guess that everyone here thinks she does have cancer and isn’t in true remission given what has been said prior, either that or she’s been terribly misleading and was never that sick to start - the latter seems unlikely given the surgery was ever even mentioned. Tiffany is coming across absolutely clueless so I doubt she’d magic that out of nowhere herself unless someone had said it to her.

I honestly think most of us are expecting her to be inoperable at the end of this 6 weeks and I really hope that isn’t the case. But I can’t fathom her willingness to take the gamble unless she knows something we don’t.

Yes she is incredibly clueless and uneducated about her own diagnosis. Many of us have been shocked about how little interest she shows to her own disease. And yes, many of us also think that she is misleading her followers on purpose or at least witholding information (she releases information slowly to generate the most attention over several videos).

But the PET scan + the biopsies showed there are no cancer cells in her body. And the tumour seems to have turned into scar tissue (what she says). Both doctors suggested waiting. I read that radiation and chemo can have a 'delayed' effect. It may have eradicated the cancer.
 
Hi! I’ve been blocked and deleted for offering an informed opinion and reminding her the dangers of waiting on the last video Tiffany published. I unsubbed after being subbed for a year. I thought I knew her but she suddenly showed a different side and I don’t like it. I hope she gets a miracle cuz she’s gonna need it if she keeps up the facade that everything’s fine. It’s NOT.

She deleted several of the people I used to discuss her with on there! She only allows those who enable her without questions.
 
She deleted several of the people I used to discuss her with on there! She only allows those who enable her without questions.
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lol at the last comment. right on the money. these other nutbags are the real instigators trying to defend Tiffany like a bunch of cultists. so pitiful to argue with cancer survivors and nurses dismissing them all. if Tiffany is cool with this trash then she’s sorta creepy. she can block me and everyone who disagrees with her but should tell her army of religious bozos to stop.
 
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lol at the last comment. right on the money. these other nutbags are the real instigators trying to defend Tiffany like a bunch of cultists. so pitiful to argue with cancer survivors and nurses dismissing them all. if Tiffany is cool with this trash then she’s sorta creepy. she can block me and everyone who disagrees with her but should tell her army of religious bozos to stop.

Spot on. She literally created a cult. In the video in which she talks about the haters, she shows her true colours. That giggle she did after encouraging people to tell on each other is disturbing. She only accepts 'nice' comments (those praising her for her 'bravery'). She is not interested in people's honest opinions. She litterally says she will delete comments which she does not like. So many of us were disturbed at how she told her followers to only support her and not give her medical advise. After literally asking them to tell her what they think! So many people cared enough to construct thoughtful messages with helpful medical information.
 
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Trust me, being an optometrist does not necessarily mean you are intelligent. They work at Specsavers in the UK. But yes, she is very simple, like she is coming from another planet. Some peoplel think she is faking it, to appear more endearing and innocent. She showed her true colours though after making her followers tell on each other in the comments. She is just so incredibly childish and immature.

let’s not go that far. she’s not faking it cuz we saw her get chemo and be sick as hell in the hospital. still, it’s such a mess of a channel that makes no sense. maybe she’s slow or playing dumb, or playing videos out of order ... but don’t go overboard with the accusations of faking cuz it’ll make this place be dismissed instantly. she has cancer but I don’t trust her beyond that. I joined to talk about the inconsistencies and deleted comments but lets not jump to conclusions. we don’t know tit, since she doesn’t tell us tit, but I don’t wanna make things up just cuz I’m annoyed. even if you think it, best not to go for the lowest hanging fruit until you can prove it. I know ur talking about other people but still...
 
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let’s not go that far. she’s not faking it cuz we saw her get chemo and be sick as hell in the hospital. still, it’s such a mess of a channel that makes no sense. maybe she’s slow or playing dumb, or playing videos out of order ... but don’t go overboard with the accusations of faking cuz it’ll make this place be dismissed instantly. she has cancer but I don’t trust her beyond that. I joined to talk about the inconsistencies and deleted comments but lets not jump to conclusions. we don’t know tit, since she doesn’t tell us tit, but I don’t wanna make things up just cuz I’m annoyed. even if you think it, best not to go for the lowest hanging fruit until you can prove it. I know ur talking about other people but still...

edit: and the nazi comment. you might wanna remove that cuz it makes you look extreme man.

No I don't think she is faking it at all. It's the others who suggested it. I just think she is taking advantage of it.
 
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I read that radiation and chemo can have a 'delayed' effect. It may have eradicated the cancer.

that’s true but not for this. I have the same cancer as Tiffany says she has but mine was less advanced when I got surgery. what you read must’ve been for something less severe cuz surgery is a must for her size tumor. no way it’s gone from six weeks inoperable to scar tissue NED completely. it’s not a thing with what she has. agree with you on her taking advantage of it. more power to her if she was honest but I don’t like the family thing and instinct says something’s weird. I watched peewee toms, emily hayward, Sofia, charlotte eades and tamara o’brien and all of them were legit sweet and awesome, but Tiffany is different in a way that makes me uncomfortable. never been bothered by an online cancer sufferer before ... and I don’t want to be. but I am.
 
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that’s true but not for this. I have the same cancer as Tiffany says she has but mine was less advanced when I got surgery. what you read must’ve been for something less severe cuz surgery is a must for her size tumor. no way it’s gone from six weeks inoperable to scar tissue NED completely. it’s not a thing. agree with you on some other stuff though

I read a paper in which a wait and watch approach was discussed in terms of more advanced colorectal cancers.

But I agree that it's very unlikely to eradicate it with just radiotherapy and chemo. But hers seems to be gone. How can it be gone? How can it not light up on the PET scan? I watched Vanessa LPZ's videos and she also needed surgery and her cancer was not even as advanced (locally) as Tiffany's. I think Vanessa's was more in the colon area whilst Tiffany's is way down in the rectal area (hence it being more tricky). This is why most of us are confused. Tiffany's tumour was massive and it invaded several areas in her pelvis. Do you think that the Marsden's protocol is more effective than those places in the US?
 
No I agree that it's very unlikely to eradicate it with just radiotherapy and chemo. But hers seems to be gone. How can it be gone? How can it not light up on the PET scan? I watched Vanessa LPZ's videos and she also needed surgery and her cancer was not even as advanced (locally) as Tiffany's. I think Vanessa's was more in the colon area whilst Tiffany's is way down in the rectal area (hence it being more tricky). This is why most of us are confused. Tiffany's tumour was massive and it invaded several areas in her pelvis. Do you think that the Marsden's protocol is more effective than those places in the US?

it’s not gone. my guess is tiffany's lying to herself cuz she can’t bear the news? and is performing her fantasy of being cured on youtube. even hypothetically if it was non-cancerous so quickly, if the tumor is there it’s gonna come back then it’ll be too late. her tumor is huge and already has something in her lung. tick tick tick is the scariest expression cuz with her it makes me think of a clock running out. edit: PET scans can be wrong, esp if she has MAC. edit: the RM is very great hospital and they probably know what’s up as much as any hospital in the U.S.. I don’t know Vanessa or the research you read but I’m telling you without surgery Tiffany will be screwed.
 
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it’s not gone. my guess is tiffany's lying to herself cuz she can’t bear the news? and is performing her fantasy of being cured on youtube. even hypothetically if it was non-cancerous so quickly, if the tumor is there it’s gonna come back then it’ll be too late. her tumor is huge and already has something in her lung. tick tick tick is the scariest expression cuz with her it makes me think of a clock running out. edit: PET scans can be wrong, esp if she has MAC. edit: the RM is very great hospital and they probably know what’s up as much as any hospital in the U.S.. I don’t know Vanessa or the research you read but I’m telling you without surgery Tiffany will be screwed.

They did not find a lesion on her lungs. That was a misdiagnosis a year ago.
But why would the doctors recommend waiting especially after telling her that surgery is a must?

Vanessa Lopez (her channel's name is Vanessa LPZ), another 'cancer youtuber'. She is even younger than Tiffany! She had colorectal cancer stage 2 or 3 recently too. She is in remission now. Her treatment protocol was more classic.

Yes I wonder if she has MAC. But the biopsies were clear. I cannot get my head around it.
 
I am a medical person, not a cancer specialist, but the main thing I can tell you is that she is definitely withholding information. The motives for that are unclear and I am prone to thinking poorly of that behavior. If she laid the facts out, even just a concise medical history and test results - all of the medical people could interpret it for her within hours. I personally have never met anyone with advanced cancer who claims to be confused and wants LESS advice. It hits wrong with all of the patients I’ve worked with.
The most horrible thing she did was gush about how she wants her tiffanythinks family to give her all the advice, even if it’s hard to hear it. Um, yeah that was just a call to flush out anyone who would catch on that something isn’t correct with her stories.
I know if she claims her cancer was cured I will think it was awfully convenient timing considering she was supposed to be having major surgery imminently. I do know someone who was sewn up and sent home to die from cancer and he lived another 42 years - so I cannot say never - but highly unlikely and I wouldn’t believe it without seeing documentation.
Oh and she’s “stupid like a fox” !
 
I just want to know what surgery she had in her stomach years back. She's been asked about it many times and she always replies with "I'm not comfortable sharing it or talking about it." How do you say you want to be completely transparent and even "tmi" but you won't disclose that one thing that might be the missing piece to the story?

I must have missed this comment about previously having surgery, intriguing!
 
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