Tiffany Thinks #10

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truthspeak said:
Wow blue skies this is really well thought out great ideas many can learn from too.
Hi Tiffany,
If you’re reading this,I know everything is so hard to absorb and accept right now. This is a tough love, no nonsense , dark humour, b*tchy chat group at times but I do feel we want you to win.
This suggestion is so amazing, as well as so many others shared on this forum!
I know the majority of us really care. I felt it when I read this.
So thoughtful, good advice please take it! Share it! So many watch and learn from you too x
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Yes, many people have given great suggestions for T to prepare.
I forgot to mention the most important thing. The whole family needs to mask, mask, mask and use hand sanitizers. She can’t get any kind of infection (not just Covid) prior to surgery. Even though it’s not mandatory here, I still use a mask everywhere I go…LOL.😷😷
 
All very good points laid out for T. The assumption is she has done no research, homework or prep of her own. It's kinda sad these well-meaning points can't be left on her YT channel and she needs to lurk around here to discover them.

Well if Tiffany didn't start a Tick and Delete frenzy and turned viewers upon each other, many others would've benefitted from these comments if left on her YT channel.
 
Blue skies said:
I forgot to mention the most important thing. The whole family needs to mask, mask, mask and use hand sanitizers. She can’t get any kind of infection (not just Covid) prior to surgery. Even though it’s not mandatory here, I still use a mask everywhere I go…LOL.😷😷
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Regarding covid, in the video where she's getting her vaccine (a year ago) she mentions in passing that she had covid "last year". So she definitely had it in 2020 and is vaccinated at least once. In her mind that probably equates to lasting immunity which explains why they're seemingly careless with most precautions.
 
GalaxyCake said:
Regarding covid, in the video where she's getting her vaccine (a year ago) she mentions in passing that she had covid "last year". So she definitely had it in 2020 and is vaccinated at least once. In her mind that probably equates to lasting immunity which explains why they're seemingly careless with most precautions.
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Covid is not the only bug/ bacteria/ cross contaminate going around. MRSA is probably more susceptible to surgery patients post op.
her and her family’s household general hygiene practices are good imo.
 
Saydee said:
My husband had a high risk operation with a high mortality rate, his tumor had grown out of his kidney and attached itself to the inferior vena cava (our body's largest vein) invaded the IVC and the tumor thrombus had snaked all the way up the IVC and was sat in his lower heart chamber. His bowel was stuck to the tumor on the outside of his kidney. His surgery involved putting him on heart bypass and clamping his other healthy kidney and resectioning his bowel.
We knew the risks and accepted them risks. Without the surgery, he wouldn't have lived very long. Surgery wouldn't cure him, but it would reduce tumor burden and buy him more time.
The surgery date only came after he had his preop. Preop is what decides if the patient is strong enough for surgery. Only then will T be given a surgery date.
Regarding making a will etc. My husband didn't make a will, visit loved ones or prepare for it if he didn't make it through surgery. In fact, we did the opposite, we lived life to the max and made happy memories leading up to his surgery. If he had focused or even considered he might not pull through surgery, I don't think he would have gone through with the surgery.
We all deal with things differently. If T enjoys focusing on Christmas and distracting herself, good on her. Her love of Christmas is strange to many, its strange to me (especially for a 30-year-old woman without children), but looking through her old videos, it's obvious that this isn't out of the ordinary for her.
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Thank you so much for your story. You and your husband are very brave and I agree with everything you said about t. Sending you positive healing vibes
 
Can anyone confirm if these earnings for t's youtube channel are correct?
 

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jiggy_girl said:
It'll be calories over health every time - she could have a salad full of buckwheat and whole grains blah blah, eat a quarter of it and maybe consume 100 calories max, or a quarter of a burger etc., and double it. She needs to gain weight first and foremost. With her bowels in such a state, I doubt she's absorbing much anyway. The diet will come after the surgery.
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You know people can gain weight eating healthy food?Loads of avocados,nuts,eggs,protein
 
I know everyone wants to excuse her diet because it's better to get calories in, but you are acting like she hasn't always shown she eats like this. All her mukbangs are junk food and eating duck all. Now is the time to change the habit of a lifetime and support her body best she can. If it was someone who ordinarily ate well but could now only stomach this, that would be entirely different.
 
Saydee said:
Can anyone confirm if these earnings for t's youtube channel are correct?
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She's smart to drive up the views and send her viewers back to watch older vlogs by saying "if you want, you can go back to watch my vlogmas videos." :rolleyes:

Tonight's Predictions :

  1. Christmas pressies wrapping. *In baby talk voice*
  2. Black Friday shopping and buying cosy things for her long recuperation. (might return them later)
  3. Amma, Matt or Elodie cooking.
  4. Matt changed her bloody pads because she needs to prove that he's in for the long haul.
  5. Matt showing GENTLE affection because she needs to show Tattlers he is gentle and not a rapist.
  6. Sips of Fortisip and tiny nibbles of food.
  7. No date for surgery yet so I'm thinking should I do vlogmas, what do you all think?
  8. Insert emotional breakdown/anxiety attack somewhere in between.
 
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Billiarty said:
She's smart to drive up the views and send her viewers back to watch older vlogs by saying "if you want, you can go back to watch my vlogmas videos." :rolleyes:

Tonight's Predictions :

  1. Christmas pressies wrapping. *In baby talk voice*
  2. Black Friday shopping and buying cosy things for her long recuperation. (might return them later)
  3. Amma, Matt or Elodie cooking.
  4. Matt changed her bloody pads because she needs to prove that he's in for the long haul.
  5. Matt showing GENTLE affection because she needs to show Tattlers he is gentle and not a rapist.
  6. Sips of Fortisip and tiny nibbles of food.
  7. No date for surgery yet so I'm thinking should I do vlogmas, what do you all think?
  8. Insert emotional breakdown/anxiety attack somewhere in between.
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yes she will ask her "loving family" if she should do Vlogmas even if she can't complete all of it. I think we will hear about another shopping trip with Elodie (the "fire engineer") to Christmas store including return of the Angel. By now should have been at least some further meetings with the team but doubt much info. No surgery date.
 
Billiarty said:
She's smart to drive up the views and send her viewers back to watch older vlogs by saying "if you want, you can go back to watch my vlogmas videos." :rolleyes:

Tonight's Predictions :

  1. Christmas pressies wrapping. *In baby talk voice*
  2. Black Friday shopping and buying cosy things for her long recuperation. (might return them later)
  3. Amma, Matt or Elodie cooking.
  4. Matt changed her bloody pads because she needs to prove that he's in for the long haul.
  5. Matt showing GENTLE affection because she needs to show Tattlers he is gentle and not a rapist.
  6. Sips of Fortisip and tiny nibbles of food.
  7. No date for surgery yet so I'm thinking should I do vlogmas, what do you all think?
  8. Insert emotional breakdown/anxiety attack somewhere in between.
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repeat again she's going to open a PO box for LETTERS and how she would loooooove to read all these LETTERS when she's recovering.
 
Ingrid_Norsk said:
You know people can gain weight eating healthy food?Loads of avocados,nuts,eggs,protein
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That's exactly what I was referring to when I said 'healthy' foods - what I suppose I could have used was the word 'nourishing', to include the things you just mentioned plus slow-cooked meat, baked salmon, vegetable curries etc.

Billiarty said:
She's smart to drive up the views and send her viewers back to watch older vlogs by saying "if you want, you can go back to watch my vlogmas videos." :rolleyes:

Tonight's Predictions :

  1. Christmas pressies wrapping. *In baby talk voice*
  2. Black Friday shopping and buying cosy things for her long recuperation. (might return them later)
  3. Amma, Matt or Elodie cooking.
  4. Matt changed her bloody pads because she needs to prove that he's in for the long haul.
  5. Matt showing GENTLE affection because she needs to show Tattlers he is gentle and not a rapist.
  6. Sips of Fortisip and tiny nibbles of food.
  7. No date for surgery yet so I'm thinking should I do vlogmas, what do you all think?
  8. Insert emotional breakdown/anxiety attack somewhere in between.
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Don't forget 9. Decide to remove gonk from middle of stairs because it might be a trip hazard....
 
Billiarty said:
She's smart to drive up the views and send her viewers back to watch older vlogs by saying "if you want, you can go back to watch my vlogmas videos." :rolleyes:

Tonight's Predictions :

  1. Christmas pressies wrapping. *In baby talk voice*
  2. Black Friday shopping and buying cosy things for her long recuperation. (might return them later)
  3. Amma, Matt or Elodie cooking.
  4. Matt changed her bloody pads because she needs to prove that he's in for the long haul.
  5. Matt showing GENTLE affection because she needs to show Tattlers he is gentle and not a rapist.
  6. Sips of Fortisip and tiny nibbles of food.
  7. No date for surgery yet so I'm thinking should I do vlogmas, what do you all think?
  8. Insert emotional breakdown/anxiety attack somewhere in between.
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that drive up viewer tactic by linking the older videos must be stressed in the "influencer handbook" I notice that in many of of the channels. I also note that her older videos are constantly coming up in my feed. I mean "our gal" has been at this a very long time. I think part of her issue with getting more factual and medically focused is she has such a long history of chatting with viewers in the baby voice and topics were always focused on clothes/food/makeup etc. but also she was much younger. Usually women grow out of that stuff.
 
Billiarty said:
She's smart to drive up the views and send her viewers back to watch older vlogs by saying "if you want, you can go back to watch my vlogmas videos." :rolleyes:

Tonight's Predictions :

  1. Christmas pressies wrapping. *In baby talk voice*
  2. Black Friday shopping and buying cosy things for her long recuperation. (might return them later)
  3. Amma, Matt or Elodie cooking.
  4. Matt changed her bloody pads because she needs to prove that he's in for the long haul.
  5. Matt showing GENTLE affection because she needs to show Tattlers he is gentle and not a rapist.
  6. Sips of Fortisip and tiny nibbles of food.
  7. No date for surgery yet so I'm thinking should I do vlogmas, what do you all think?
  8. Insert emotional breakdown/anxiety attack somewhere in between.
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Bring a large gonk with her to hospital, he can sit on her bedside for company when Amma went home to take a shower... and of course darling Matt's at work, cos he has a plan to work a lot so he can stay with her when she's back home :ROFLMAO:
 
jackolantern said:
I know everyone wants to excuse her diet because it's better to get calories in, but you are acting like she hasn't always shown she eats like this. All her mukbangs are junk food and eating duck all. Now is the time to change the habit of a lifetime and support her body best she can. If it was someone who ordinarily ate well but could now only stomach this, that would be entirely different.
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I sometimes wonder if her eating habits are linked to the baby voice and little girl persona. Almost everything she eats are basically what children & teens love to eat...chips, fried food, cookies, cakes, hot chocolate etc. Picky eating in kids is often a sensory issue where junk food tastes the same every time but healthy food tends to be unpredictable (eg the same type of fruit can be sweet, sour, crunchy or mushy depending on which batch you get). There's a lot to unpack but it's often related to wanting to stay small or young. Maybe she always ate like that (like many kids) but never grew out of it and Amma didn't enforce it. Lots of other things would also make sense, such as the love for Christmas, gifts, shopping, cheesy films and even Matt cutting her sandwich into 4 little pieces.
 
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