This Mama Life #32

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Rob gave me the ick before but now I think he’s worse then her for allowing this tit show
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And yes I agree, she knew he was tongue tied at around day 3, yet still prioritised at home photoshoots.

the photographer will be trying as I type this to edit this poor sad looking jaundice dehydrated baby. What memories.
 
In that reel she looks like she’s holding a strangers baby; so awkward & more concerned about smiling for the camera 😡
As someone who didn’t get to take my baby boy home, I would have given anything in the world for a healthy baby. Why is she acting like this is all a big inconvenience for her. She has something seriously psychologically wrong with her & needs intervention now. She is completely incapable of putting someone else’s needs before her own & imo people like that shouldn’t be allowed to have children. She’s a monster.
 
If she was my friend I would have to speak up at this point. Formula to get him sorted, keep expressing milk, prioritise only the baby, delegate everything else to Sinbad, cut the kids activities by at least half. Spend a fortnight at home with the baby, building up to some gentle walks, get in lots of snuggly family time while he gets better. And book a TT appt immediately.
 
FEED THE CHILD. I sought help in another country for TT that wasn’t initially recognised for one of mine, just a day out and a snip and done. It wasn’t quick enough to wait for a NHS appointment, luckily we could afford it at the time. Go private and duck the chiropractor. Sorry for my language.
 
Holy hell! I’ve had a busy couple of days so a lot to catch up on! This has gone downhill so much quicker than I imagined!! Why oh why is she having photoshoots and out and about here there and everywhere when she can’t even feed this poor baby yet!? She is so me me me and nobody else matters! I also can’t understand why if his blood is as thick as she’s making out and if he is as jaundiced as he looks (because he looks pure yellow) the hospital have allowed them out!? He needs help and she needs help! Starting to think even maybe Rob needs help if he’s allowing all this too! She isn’t coping.
my baby was jaundiced so we bottle fed every 3 hours at least, more if she gave signs she needed it and she soon got better thankfully. She did need phototherapy and those “cute goggles” give me bloody nightmares!! She screamed non stop wearing them and it was possibly the worst 24 hours of my life! I cried watching her struggle with them. Sarah is a bleeping moron and doesn’t deserve this baby
 
New to the thread but I’ve re-followed Sarah and re-read through the tit show here. I’m sat here in disbelief and very triggered. We were nearly admitted for jaundice and I sobbed and sobbed on that hospital bed. I couldn’t get baby to feed. Endless blood tests, midwife home appts to laser scan baby’s skin, praying my head off it would go down. I was a MESS. We didn’t need lights thank god but my baby was so damn yellow I was an anxious mess but CAK looks worse and she’s fine? 🤯🤯🤯🤯

I didn’t know about thickening blood but if I did there’s no way I would be leaving that hospital. Let alone drag the baby to dance competitions!!! In complete shock. Her bloke looks like a clueless idiot. He doesn’t know what’s normal.
 
willowtree2 said:
New to the thread but I’ve re-followed Sarah and re-read through the tit show here. I’m sat here in disbelief and very triggered. We were nearly admitted for jaundice and I sobbed and sobbed on that hospital bed. I couldn’t get baby to feed. Endless blood tests, midwife home appts to laser scan baby’s skin, praying my head off it would go down. I was a MESS. We didn’t need lights thank god but my baby was so damn yellow I was an anxious mess but CAK looks worse and she’s fine? 🤯🤯🤯🤯

I didn’t know about thickening blood but if I did there’s no way I would be leaving that hospital. Let alone drag the baby to dance competitions!!! In complete shock. Her bloke looks like a clueless idiot. He doesn’t know what’s normal.
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I had a similar experience with one of mine. She was jaundiced and needed a few days of phototherapy. She didn’t look bad as Sarah’s baby though; nor did she have thick blood? Good God I’m really very concerned for that little baby.
 
My son was a big baby, struggled to feed etc. he also had super thick blood, and jaundice . I was told he needed to be fed more regularly and as he was struggling breast feeding , I had to express/ top up with formula to help his jaundice and thick blood! I’m shocked the hospital haven’t stepped in and made a robust feeding plan! We also got readmitted at 10 days old , due to failure to thrive ! She is a moron!
 
It's a horrible watch. The tongue tie practitioner should carry out a feeding assessment as part of the consultation and will be able to offer support around that and/or signpost to more feeding support. It's also another HCP who will have sight of the baby so that can only be a good thing. A successful procedure very often wont cause an immediate improvement and there are still all the issues around the fact that the baby has other problems that are symptomatic of the failure to feed properly. I just hope that in "Sarah World - Land of the Rigid Thinking", the fact he has had any necessary procedure means that he WILL be able to feed and NO supplementation etc is necessary. Often feeding can go backwards after a procedure for a bit as the baby gets used to the function of the new tongue. Long term success can also be very dependent on how it heals. There's a lot of work that needs to be done around this and a long road to travel still

I think the hospital will have made a robust feeding plan - the issue will be if there is disguised compliance. Hopefully he will be in very frequently to be checked and the midwife will be in daily too. If he isn't gaining weight and the jaundice is not clearing then he should be admitted - end of. It's just a horrible time for him in the interim and that's a hard thing to watch a little baby go through
 
m2one said:
Plucking up the courage to feed?! What the actual duck? Feed the baby instead of sitting there taking a bleeping picture! just crack on. Also has she covered over his next to me crib with that ridiculous blanket?
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I hope the baby isn't in there 😳. He will be dehydrated with low blood sugar and find feeding exhausting. Far better to focus on feeding him the expressed milk for a day at least to try and get him fitter. Would give her nipples a rest too and let her focus on expressing and building up supply. This frenulotomy appointment can't come soon enough
 
m2one said:
Plucking up the courage to feed?! What the actual duck? Feed the baby instead of sitting there taking a bleeping picture! just crack on. Also has she covered over his next to me crib with that ridiculous blanket?
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This has made me so angry, if she's scared to feed him, give him formula! Feeding is one of his basic needs! I hope the GP she's seeing realises she needs help in other ways.

Although didn't she have mastitis symptoms a week ago? Why only getting seen now?
 
Leethechimpanzee said:
I’m honestly so worried about this baby, strong Munchausen by proxy vibes going on…

It’s like she is enjoying the dramatics and attention of it all…

Someone needs to do something!!
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She's definitely enjoying all the attention and that's why apart of me wonders if she is making it sound worse than it actually is.

I agree the poor boy is very yellow and they wouldn't have called her in if his blood levels weren't so bad. But maybe they didn't demand she came in and more suggested? Maybe she is struggling to feed but not as much as she's making out?

I feel like this is all attention and dramatics mainly aimed at Robs work, like 'look were struggling as my baby is so poorly' in hopes they'll let him stay shore side.

I do wonder if she's got PND? Hopefully the GP or someone else is keeping an eye on her closely.
 
I don’t think she is making it sound worse than it is, you can tell by his skin and eyes that he’s is very dehydrated, jaundiced and quite an unwell little boy but my worry is she not doing enough to aid recovery or worse making him more poorly for the “fame” and attention.

Anyone who can tell the world her baby’s blood is too thick for them to take a sample and AD a pram at the same time is in my personal opinion is A) not a well person and B) absolutely capable of using or prolonging a situation for her own gain.
 
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