Thesocialmama.xo #21 Uh oh, we're in trouble, Oakley's come along and burst her pink, frilly bubble

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Lol makes her sad the kids will get older and need her less. She does nothing for them the now. Hate you break your future freedom bubble skanky maw but they still need you even when their older anything the need, something goes wrong for them they relay on your their MOTHER/PARENTS.
Her Q&A is lot shite. For record am not mum shaming 😉but I wasn't a blubbering mess when I had a baby, I was happy,blessed and just enjoying having a baby only time I probably cried was when I felt like my boobs had been put through a grater from bf and healing from a c section. If she's Soo happy and on cloud 9 then why has she had down days crying in bed I don't understand her 🤷🏻‍♀️
Lol she informing tattle she moved from the bed to the couch today tells us something new Aimee seriously.
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Remember that post did she back in August skipping down the street because she had freedom while kids were in school? If that's what you liked then why have a bebe? For for content or someone in the family mention get part time job around school hours and contribute to family finances, because hello fresh isn't quite cutting it.
 
Mysteryy said:
That video of her showing the kids the bebe... im assuming it's Kyle filming. How sad is it that he doesn't get to see the kids reactions because he's too busy having to film it for the gram.
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Yeah you can hear him saying "Callie, you're the Princess" Everything turns into the Callie Show eh!? Can't stand the wee lassie, it's the way she's been brought up.
 
She is absolutely going to try for another with a small gap like Jackson and Callie. She loves to go on about how close they are in age and we all know she thrives off and needs the attention that a pregnancy/baby brings. That's definitely the reason she won't share the name, otherwise why even answer that 'question' (that she definitely sent herself)
If her family have actually commented on how happy she is etc, then it's probably because she's done duck all but complain for the last 7/8 months.
 
She didn’t come on to my radar until a couple of years ago. I can’t be arsed scrolling through her entire (lengthy) feed on IG. But was she like this with her other kids? Callie, the youngest? Over sharing everything and desperate for attention online? Anyone know what “social mama” is all about? How did her page start in the first place?
So many questions!! (That I could probably find the answers to myself if I could be bothered, whaaaaaaaa sorry!!! 🙈🤣)
 
These questions are ridiculous. I’m pregnant just now and she is the last person I’d go to for advice I’d actually be more inclined to use her page as a ‘what not to do’ absolute moron. I know a few people that have had babies around the same time as her and she has definitely posted more on social media than any of them have because they are actually doing what she is lying saying she’s doing and enjoying their wee baby rather than using it for likes and content.
 
SoVeryKindlyGifted said:
Yeah you can hear him saying "Callie, you're the Princess" Everything turns into the Callie Show eh!? Can't stand the wee lassie, it's the way she's been brought up.
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Unknowingly instilling a sense of entitlement and superiority into their child. It probably seems perfectly innocent to them but causes problems not just for the ‘princess’ but can cause resentment between siblings and self confidence issues in the others who aren’t deemed the special ones.
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PeekABooToYou said:
She didn’t come on to my radar until a couple of years ago. I can’t be arsed scrolling through her entire (lengthy) feed on IG. But was she like this with her other kids? Callie, the youngest? Over sharing everything and desperate for attention online? Anyone know what “social mama” is all about? How did her page start in the first place?
So many questions!! (That I could probably find the answers to myself if I could be bothered, whaaaaaaaa sorry!!! 🙈🤣)
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the million dollar question what is she about??????!!!!!!! Nobody knows …….. not even herself!!!!!! Her Instagram handle suggests maybe a parenting blog? NOPE! Sharing the balancing act of being a mum and having a social life? NOPE! A mum who uses her platform to bring other mums together to share advice and experiences? NOPE! Sharing ideas and experiences of places they take their children in the school holidays? NOPE! Sharing tips on budgeting food shopping and meal prepping with multiple children household? NOPE! Sharing kindly gifted beauty treatments and food? BINGO!
 
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Shugsyshalone said:
Unknowingly instilling a sense of entitlement and superiority into their child. It probably seems perfectly innocent to them but causes problems not just for the ‘princess’ but can cause resentment between siblings and self confidence issues in the others who aren’t deemed the special ones.
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the million dollar question what is she about??????!!!!!!! Nobody knows …….. not even herself!!!!!! Her Instagram handle suggests maybe a parenting blog? NOPE! Sharing the balancing act of being a mum and having a social life? NOPE! A mum who uses her platform to bring other mums together to share advice and experiences? NOPE! Sharing ideas and experiences of places they take their children in the school holidays? NOPE! Sharing tips on budgeting food shopping and meal prepping with multiple children household? NOPE! Sharing kindly gifted beauty treatments and food? BINGO!
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You hit the nail on the head!!

It’s just an account for attention. I get the feeling that she’s the Callie of her siblings and that she is highly dependent on her mum. I feel like the people in her life pander to her and for what? She offers them nothing in return! I don’t ever see her babysitting anyone else’s kids or helping out her family/friends. She’s a leech!

I reckon she brings in a tiny income from her ads, as well as all the gifted stuff, to justify the fact she sits on her arse all day doing f all, so she doesn’t need to actually go to work! The guilt I would feel sending my other half out to slave away, bring in all the money and miss so much family time would be unreal. But then again, he’s just as much of a mug to actually do it 🥴 by all means be a stay at home mum but live within your means! He's doing all hours under the sun because they can’t afford to live on his basic salary while this idiot gallivants around silverburn throwing it up the wall!
 
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PeekABooToYou said:
She didn’t come on to my radar until a couple of years ago. I can’t be arsed scrolling through her entire (lengthy) feed on IG. But was she like this with her other kids? Callie, the youngest? Over sharing everything and desperate for attention online? Anyone know what “social mama” is all about? How did her page start in the first place?
So many questions!! (That I could probably find the answers to myself if I could be bothered, whaaaaaaaa sorry!!! 🙈🤣)
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She started her account I think as a grey appreciation home page which she seemed to quickly get bored of, as many do. Sharing photos of a made bed, a tidy worktop and mopped floors, couldn't think of much worse tbh. Then she went into her airborne phase, posing with the boxes of powders and shakes and all that nonsense, the airborne trips to Las Vegas etc. Then I think for a while it was mostly just everyday stuff, and started to share posts on her mental health and medication and then she started the social mamas club.
It's hard to pin point exactly when she turned into a complete idiot oversharing ever aspect of her life and her children's lives for what she used to get like free cookies and invites to a new sweet shop opening.
While I never actually heard anything very good about her social mama events, as they seemed clique to most who went who weren't in her circle, hats off to her for being able to plan and organise the events. It's just a shame she can't seem to put that much effort into doing anything with or for her children.
 

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TalkOfTheGram said:
She started her account I think as a grey appreciation home page which she seemed to quickly get bored of, as many do. Sharing photos of a made bed, a tidy worktop and mopped floors, couldn't think of much worse tbh. Then she went into her airborne phase, posing with the boxes of powders and shakes and all that nonsense, the airborne trips to Las Vegas etc. Then I think for a while it was mostly just everyday stuff, and started to share posts on her mental health and medication and then she started the social mamas club.
It's hard to pin point exactly when she turned into a complete idiot oversharing ever aspect of her life and her children's lives for what she used to get like free cookies and invites to a new sweet shop opening.
While I never actually heard anything very good about her social mama events, as they seemed clique to most who went who weren't in her circle, hats off to her for being able to plan and organise the events. It's just a shame she can't seem to put that much effort into doing anything with or for her children.
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I remember when she got married there was so much sharing of her on other peoples socials as a ‘super mum’ who could do it all plus arranging a big perfect wedding and slimming down after having the baby so soon before the wedding on top of that. In all fairness she did then openly say that the lifestyle she was portraying was not fulfilling or sustainable for her own mental health …….. Like others have said it is hard to pin point exactly where it went bollocks up!!!!!!! Like most things with her she became unlikable because she comes across as smug alot of the time!!!!!!
 
TalkOfTheGram said:
She started her account I think as a grey appreciation home page which she seemed to quickly get bored of, as many do. Sharing photos of a made bed, a tidy worktop and mopped floors, couldn't think of much worse tbh. Then she went into her airborne phase, posing with the boxes of powders and shakes and all that nonsense, the airborne trips to Las Vegas etc. Then I think for a while it was mostly just everyday stuff, and started to share posts on her mental health and medication and then she started the social mamas club.
It's hard to pin point exactly when she turned into a complete idiot oversharing ever aspect of her life and her children's lives for what she used to get like free cookies and invites to a new sweet shop opening.
While I never actually heard anything very good about her social mama events, as they seemed clique to most who went who weren't in her circle, hats off to her for being able to plan and organise the events. It's just a shame she can't seem to put that much effort into doing anything with or for her children.
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Wow that bedroom is something else!! I started following when her and Callie did the giving up chocolate challenge with Clyde 1 (when Callie wasn’t even 2 but was having withdrawal symptoms from not having chocolate for a month!)

The decline isn’t always as obvious until you take a look back at those pictures. Fair enough she doesn’t look happy at that weight either but it was probably healthier than how she is destroying her body now
 
Her post about saying when the kids get older they don’t need her broke my heart. I have 1 little boy he is six & autistic so his development is “slower” than normal whatever “Normal” is these days and I cannot tell you the pure joy and excitement I get when he does things independently this is my job to teach him throughout life and different stages - to guide him that doesn’t stop when he turns a certain age or hits milestones. She’s pure vile to have babies to feel wanted/needed.
Also the video of the kids meeting the baby can they keep nothing private? It’s a special moment you can absolutely see the excitement and love from Jackson he is the sweetest little thing and she disregards him always.
 
I just don’t understand the whole scummy mummy relatable influencer thing! We all know parenting is hard & you, as a caregiver come after kids, house etc but I actually prefer to see mums who have kids/work/workout/make dinners etc and getting their tips on making life easier etc! I can’t understand who people want to watch somebody saying they lie in bed all day while kids fend for themselves then you call a take away cos your too lazy to cook - it’s wild!
 
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