Thesocialmama.xo #21 Uh oh, we're in trouble, Oakley's come along and burst her pink, frilly bubble

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lightonalways said:
The hilarious part is she has absolutely NOTHING to be smug about. She thinks she does in her head but most are just watching her for the entertainment factor
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True, do not envy her life at all. If she feels like her purpose is toddlers shes in for a really bad mental crash once Oakley is up and at school. She has no job, no real friends, is a lazy duck lying in bed all day(before baby too not slagging a new mum off for being tired), she is working her husband into the ground with the amount of hours he needs to pick up, has a house they cant really afford she keeps popping out kids instead of getting a job contributing to the family and giving the kids she already has an amazing life. I just don't understand how she can live with herself knowing the amount of hours and work Kyle puts in to finically support them all while she does literally nothing. I actually really feel for Kyle to be honest id hide away playing games if i had to put up with her as well
 
LilyRoseDaisy said:
True, do not envy her life at all. If she feels like her purpose is toddlers shes in for a really bad mental crash once Oakley is up and at school. She has no job, no real friends, is a lazy duck lying in bed all day(before baby too not slagging a new mum off for being tired), she is working her husband into the ground with the amount of hours he needs to pick up, has a house they cant really afford she keeps popping out kids instead of getting a job contributing to the family and giving the kids she already has an amazing life. I just don't understand how she can live with herself knowing the amount of hours and work Kyle puts in to finically support them all while she does literally nothing. I actually really feel for Kyle to be honest id hide away playing games if i had to put up with her as well
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I think this is the problem, she's thinks her only purpose in life is caring for toddlers. Which is why I think she babied Callie for so long, because she didn't have that little baby to focus all her attention on. It's all fine and well saying whatever stage is your favourite, but those boys have made friends for the last few years at school and got to know the teachers and been moved miles to a new one, and here she is going on that they don't need her as much. They need you for different things as they grow up.
Kyle must be demented, he's constantly working, then seems like he comes home and has to do dinner etc most of the time amd dancing runs at the weekend. I can see why he always took holidays when the kids were at school and hid under the stairs for some down time. The man's probably on the verge of a breakdown. The two of them have such a bizarre relationship, she brings nothing to the family while Kyle brings the money. And it's not even as if she then uses it to plan family days out for everyone. She must be bored out of her mind.
 
Credit where it’s due though - she has managed to appear like a pretty well put together and motivated human for a whole two weeks now. Don’t think she’s managed more than a day before?

And, I think the dress she chose for the wedding looked lovely on her, and definitely detracted from the 90s pageant makeup and chav baby clothes.

I think this is the most relatable mum content she’s ever managed tbh. (Apart from the ongoing pain that is the Callie show.)

Will be interesting to see just how long she sustains it.

It’s such a massive shift from the behaviour she’s shared over the last few years - is it post baby adrenaline? A sustained manic period? Fear of losing the new followers cos she realises their expectations will not be met by her usual pish content and lazy lifestyle?
 
DeloresBawbag said:
Credit where it’s due though - she has managed to appear like a pretty well put together and motivated human for a whole two weeks now. Don’t think she’s managed more than a day before?

And, I think the dress she chose for the wedding looked lovely on her, and definitely detracted from the 90s pageant makeup and chav baby clothes.

I think this is the most relatable mum content she’s ever managed tbh. (Apart from the ongoing pain that is the Callie show.)

Will be interesting to see just how long she sustains it.

It’s such a massive shift from the behaviour she’s shared over the last few years - is it post baby adrenaline? A sustained manic period? Fear of losing the new followers cos she realises their expectations will not be met by her usual pish content and lazy lifestyle?
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I think she's still on her new baby high, visitors, likes, comments, strangers at silverburn fussing over him. And she's got these events such as the wedding and her sisters 21st to look forward to where she can get all the "supermum" comments about how amazing it is that she's up and out of the house with a baby at a few weeks old. When in reality as hard as it can be to get everyone dressed and out the door, sometimes it is much easier once you are out and thinga to do V sitting in the house with washing needing done and dishes in the sink. Being surrounded by that is draining. But youu're dressed and have a nice occasion to be at it does wonders for your mood. When mine were tiny I found it 100 times easier to at something which had a set time rather than something like shopping which could be done anytime, you put it off and feel like you've got better things to be doing and so on.
I think she's also trying her best to prove that she can do this, so noone can turn around to her and say noone forced you to have a 4th baby.
 
SoVeryKindlyGifted said:
It's the smugness that really gets me. She's only putting on the Mama act to impress her new followers and the post baby high. It will fall apart shortly no doubt.
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TalkOfTheGram said:
I think she's still on her new baby high, visitors, likes, comments, strangers at silverburn fussing over him. And she's got these events such as the wedding and her sisters 21st to look forward to where she can get all the "supermum" comments about how amazing it is that she's up and out of the house with a baby at a few weeks old. When in reality as hard as it can be to get everyone dressed and out the door, sometimes it is much easier once you are out and thinga to do V sitting in the house with washing needing done and dishes in the sink. Being surrounded by that is draining. But youu're dressed and have a nice occasion to be at it does wonders for your mood. When mine were tiny I found it 100 times easier to at something which had a set time rather than something like shopping which could be done anytime, you put it off and feel like you've got better things to be doing and so on.
I think she's also trying her best to prove that she can do this, so noone can turn around to her and say noone forced you to have a 4th baby.
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Agree with you both, it’s all for show at the moment, she’ll be thriving off the newborn baby attention. That and trying to prove she can cope to her new followers.
It’ll all fall down round about her soon, I give it another 2/3 week’s maximum. No one gives a duck about your new baby once it’s not a newborn anymore, especially not a 4th baby!
 
The silverburn post yesterday, imagine trying feed your baby in peace and quiet and you have those two videoing and wee hairy Mary being loud and annoying, I would never be mean about a kid, (yes I call her hairy Mary only because her voice is Soo deep for a kid).Callie looks like she has 2 black eyes, or badly bruised they are proper purple bags under her eyes, she clearly needs to be in her bed 7pm and not up until midnight even when schools off, give her some fruit, veg, vitamins. If it was my kid I'd have her at doctor if that doesn't help.
Yes she looked lovely for the wedding but she did she really need a whole outfit and fascinator, heels think she said they're river island (won't be cheap) is that why ATM had to be dragged around shops needed him to pay for it. I think he just works and home I don't think he spends ridiculously like her (coffee machine) that's about it, guy works all sorts of hours so probably has 0 social life or chance to do football.
Seems to be Skanky maw gets all the privaliges.
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Saying about needing a whole new outfit because not like she will be wearing again anytime soon, maybe its me but just seems like a waste spend all the £££ but moan about a £2 dinosaur for Jackson 🤷🏻‍♀️.
 
DeloresBawbag said:
Credit where it’s due though - she has managed to appear like a pretty well put together and motivated human for a whole two weeks now. Don’t think she’s managed more than a day before?

And, I think the dress she chose for the wedding looked lovely on her, and definitely detracted from the 90s pageant makeup and chav baby clothes.

I think this is the most relatable mum content she’s ever managed tbh. (Apart from the ongoing pain that is the Callie show.)

Will be interesting to see just how long she sustains it.

It’s such a massive shift from the behaviour she’s shared over the last few years - is it post baby adrenaline? A sustained manic period? Fear of losing the new followers cos she realises their expectations will not be met by her usual pish content and lazy lifestyle?
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You got the nail on the head it ticks all the boxes for an adrenaline and hormone fuelled manic buzz …… I would be genuinely pleased for her and her family of this was a new lease of life but I suspect there will be a crash again!!!!!! If she truly feels as though her only purpose in life is to care for babies she should probably go and talk to a professional about why she feels like that!!!!!!
 
To any new follower or anyone outside the family she probably does look like she’s bossing it to be fair but let’s be serious she’s not in the hard stages yet, a two week old literally eats, sleeps and shits 🤷🏼‍♀️ don’t want to will anybody to struggle but the smugness just now is unreal!

Also I get wanting to include the older ones but she should have done the first bath time with her and Kyle to get the wee one used to the water, literally wanted to rip that duck out Callies hand as she’s waving it in his face!
 
Shugsyshalone said:
You got the nail on the head it ticks all the boxes for an adrenaline and hormone fuelled manic buzz …… I would be genuinely pleased for her and her family of this was a new lease of life but I suspect there will be a crash again!!!!!! If she truly feels as though her only purpose in life is to care for babies she should probably go and talk to a professional about why she feels like that!!!!!!
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Purpose in life is just to pop out babies, I'd love to be a fly on her wall the day menopause hits her no doubt she will still be trying to be social mama influencer.
She can't stick to anything and see it through like the social mama club, the home account which someone said hadn't been used since December.
Why does she call her followers girls? They're women not wee 16 year olds playing houses and nurses. I find it quite patronizing, don't know seems rude to me lol. Ohhh my goodness girls...
 
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