Thenursemum #6 GP, it’s me, it’s Kathy, On the phone again... So many vooooooooooms

[Sendparent]

WHAAAAAAT?

Theres a post on her page about it, she did write in her blog on it but shes took the blog down (because it's full of receipts). She said he didn't qualify for it, she had to really push for it at the time, I cant recall all the details, not sure if someone else here will, but I'm sure it was supposed to be a temp measure when he was first discharged? Someone else might remember more.

Wait a minute so he’s at school all day and then she has over night carers too?! How is that fair

Its not fair. She said that the 60 hours a week was set when he wasnt at school, she could have told CHC that although she is appealing the decision to withdraw she agrees he does not need the full 60 hours and although the full 60 is reinstated during the appeal she agrees they're not needed so will happily accept less during the appeal process. Perhaps that would have worked in her favour if CHC felt she was meeting them halfway and being reasonable. Instead shes taking the full 240 hours a month whilst the appeal is done and still moans about "working from home as an unpaid keira". She would have a shock if she had to fight like the rest of the send community plus do everything with 0 hours of keiras.

 

[Curiouslycurious]

So she’s late for Js appt but she’s got time to film it as a story? Surely if you’re late you would be running while pushing him to get him seen as it’s important? Maybe I am wrong.

 

[Crazymum]

So she’s late for Js appt but she’s got time to film it as a story? Surely if you’re late you would be running while pushing him to get him seen as it’s important? Maybe I am wrong.

Gotta have that content

 

[Bunbun1]

The pose
The half smile
The filter
The make up

NOTHING about this photo says “I’m worried sick about what the surgeon will say about my child”. I get that she’s putting it on the gram because sharing his story is what she does but to put it with a vain, self indulgent, selfie is so weird? Like... the thought processes behind that... I don’t get it

 

[twilightgarden]

I agree, wtf goes through her head. If you were so stressed and concerned about an appointment, your focus is on that. Not posting double chin selfies on Instagram telling everyone how so very stressed you are. She’s so insincere and narcissistic

 

[ordinaryjelly]

I doubt she was late anyway, just a story for the stories.

 

[Spyglass]

That or she's late on purpose so she misses it and the saga with his gastrostomy continues...
More content. More feel sorry for us... more look I need carers bullshit.
Nothing surprises me anymore.

 

[CoffeeAndSenLife]

She’s parked on a street that needs a permit. Notice how she tells us that so if she gets a parking fine some mug will pay it off for her

 

[PeaGreen1]

In her defence, there has been a bad accident up near the hospital. I just heard it on the radio. And everywhere round there is permit parking. It’s a bloody nightmare. HOWEVER why she is putting it on the gram rather than ringing the clinic to tell them what’s going on I don’t know. She may not have their number I suppose, although I bet she’s been to that clinic before and will have letters with their details on. I suppose she may not have them with her. She could ring the switchboard and be directed. She baffles me.

 

[Curiouslycurious]

I did think “are you bleeping stupid? Why would you do that on?” Seriously?! Who parks knowing full well they will get a ticket.

 

[Squiggle]

In her defence, there has been a bad accident up near the hospital. I just heard it on the radio. And everywhere round there is permit parking. It’s a bloody nightmare. HOWEVER why she is putting it on the gram rather than ringing the clinic to tell them what’s going on I don’t know. She may not have their number I suppose, although I bet she’s been to that clinic before and will have letters with their details on. I suppose she may not have them with her. She could ring the switchboard and be directed. She baffles me.

She probably thinks they follow her so have found out through stories! She's too busy and far too good to be ringing people beneath her.

 

[PeaGreen1]

I’m confused, she posted a pic of her in her car saying they made it to the appt and then that Siri knew where her car was, assuming she made it back. Now she’s posted a video of J in a clinic room saying still here......

 

[CoffeeAndSenLife]

I’m confused, she posted a pic of her in her car saying they made it to the appt and then that Siri knew where her car was, assuming she made it back. Now she’s posted a video of J in a clinic room saying still here......

i thought the same thing?! Why would she go back to her car and yet be still there?

 

[Neo2021]

i thought the same thing?! Why would she go back to her car and yet be still there?

Has she left him at the hospital while she’s moved her car from the permit only streets maybe?
But then that suggests another adult is with them because the hospital wouldn’t look after her child while she nipped out.

 

[PeaGreen1]

Has she left him at the hospital while she’s moved her car from the permit only streets maybe?
But then that suggests another adult is with them because the hospital wouldn’t look after her child while she nipped out.

Or a second appointment, but I doubt she’d post still here. And she would’ve said I’m sure.

could she be lying about still being there? I guess she could’ve been at the appointment when she posted about Siri knowing where the car was and had just checked and found that out and used a random selfie from earlier in the day.....but that’s just so weird

 

[Bibedebop]

It’s classic Instagram behaviour for somebody to post in detail about when an appointment is and the lead up to it and then not to post anything about it for a few days. It increases engagement as people will check the account more until there is an update. If you post an update straightaway then people check the account less.

Kaytee knows this and wants to squeeze as much engagement (and therefore money) as possible out of her vulnerable child’s medical issues.

 

[CoffeeAndSenLife]

Oh her latest vid he’s spelling out his own name! He is no way as disabled as she wants him to Be!! A neurotypical child would only just be able to spell their name at 3! He’s been potty training and can walk well with his Walker! Why does she go on like he needs all this help and support from
Keira’s ect

 

[Chitterchat]

Finally getting my teeth into this ones threads after watching for a long time. OK so I can’t pretend to have a clue about raising a SEN child but I honestly don’t ‘get’ her dramatics. Yes J has a lot of medically complex needs, but from what I see he can move, he can express himself & he can communicate verbally to an extent in which she understands him. These are the basics so many SEN parents I know /and / follow do not have, yet they don’t complain or grumble ANYWHERE near the extent she does. It infuriates me. It’s always about her too, even his sore peg sight was about how it makes *her* feel. I cannot stand her. I feel like her funded money is on its last legs which is why she’s moaning about the amount of money she gets / doesn’t get atm.

 

[elsbeth100]

Just to point out.. anyone who’s visited the hospital lately will know all the barriers are up and parking is free. Sometimes tricky to park but can generally get a space if you circle a few times!

 

[Sugarhoney]

kayteeeee next time use the hospital bus from Wilkinson’s street Tram stop sooooooo much easier. Whingey woman. You hit that end of town at that time, expect delays. Set off earlier and stop taking sodding photos of yourself just before you go to a very importation meeting with your sons surgeon. My god you don’t look at all concerned in those photos. it makes my stomach turn the lack of care she shows and respect for her son.