Thenursemum #6 GP, it’s me, it’s Kathy, On the phone again... So many vooooooooooms

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I couldn’t disagree with that quote from Rochelle more if I tried.

Public Instagram pages are not private homes that you have to be invited into. They are public pages that actively publish information to be seen by everybody, often including vulnerable people. If you actually want to make them like private houses you can do: you just make the page private and then you do have to invite people in!

If you publish information to the public on Instagram or anywhere else on the internet you are open to criticism (not abuse, criticism) and even legal action if you lie, don’t tag an advert, or libel somebody, You can’t just publish lies, mistruths, and exaggerations to impressionable members of the public and not expect to be called out for it. Kaytee’s page is incredibly problematic and she should expect to be called out for that. If she doesn’t want to be called out she can just make private posts for her friends and get a job that doesn’t involve exploiting her child’s distress for money.
 
Most new builds that are built for social housing by councils and housing associations are already adapted ready to adapt further if needed. Doors are usually wider so wheelchairs can fit, the downstairs toilets will be adapted so if you remove the flooring there will be a drain ready for it to be turned into a wet room, sometimes the downstairs toilet or hallway may have the ceiling adapted underneath the plasterboard so a lift can be installed easily. Front doors and patio doors are usually wheelchair accessible too. Alot of areas forbid purchasing homes that have adaptions even if small so it's a good way for housing associations or councils to make their homes exempt from being purchased. But if shes filled out the forms that might be because they've got back to her and told her she has the right to buy. I personally dont think she's going for a mortgage, that last house she viewed was a cash only house, I think shes got the funds to buy it outright somehow. Its not fair if she does purchase it, she doesn't like the house or the garden, always complained the garden isn't safe for J as it's not level and complained the house is too small. If she buys it outright it's a disgrace, it shouldn't be allowed in social housing because people in need require homes and if she has the funds she should duck off out of the house and buy a house on the market. It's also questionable as to why she is being allowed to apply when their own website says right to buy applications are closed at present and the pilot right to buy scheme is not taking new applications. If she is allowed to apply it looks like thenursemum gets preferential treatment again like everything else she gets.
 
Ok so someone left lots of receipts on the last thread 👏 so I’ve googled the document she claimed came in the post and it’s available for anyone to download:
www.gov.uk

Right to Acquire: application form (RTA1)

This form is for housing association tenants who wish to apply to buy their home through the Right to Acquire scheme.
www.gov.uk www.gov.uk
She shared an email saying she’d contacted them to ask if she has the right to acquire then unrealistically soon after claimed this document came in the post. She didn’t actually say they sent it to her because she has the right to acquire, or that she has even looked into the money stuff, all she said was she has this form, which anyone can download. It’s likely they haven’t responded yet.
It’s like with the masters, one week she said she was interested in one (when it was past the point you’d need to apply by) the next week she was making out she’d been accepted on one, then it never happened. She’s going to make out like she’s buying this house and then go quiet and in a couple of months time someone will ask on a q&a how purchasing the house is going and she’ll say yeah that’s not happening.
 
Bunbun1 said:
Ok so someone left lots of receipts on the last thread 👏 so I’ve googled the document she claimed came in the post and it’s available for anyone to download:
www.gov.uk

Right to Acquire: application form (RTA1)

This form is for housing association tenants who wish to apply to buy their home through the Right to Acquire scheme.
www.gov.uk www.gov.uk
She shared an email saying she’d contacted them to ask if she has the right to acquire then unrealistically soon after claimed this document came in the post. She didn’t actually say they sent it to her because she has the right to acquire, or that she has even looked into the money stuff, all she said was she has this form, which anyone can download. It’s likely they haven’t responded yet.
It’s like with the masters, one week she said she was interested in one (when it was past the point you’d need to apply by) the next week she was making out she’d been accepted on one, then it never happened. She’s going to make out like she’s buying this house and then go quiet and in a couple of months time someone will ask on a q&a how purchasing the house is going and she’ll say yeah that’s not happening.
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It’s almost like she has too much time on her hands?!
 
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Also I’m just going to go back to the Instagram is like someone’s home thing and say that *if* we agreed Instagram is like going into someone’s home how many of us would turn a blind eye to something we thought was wrong? We’d still have thoughts and feelings about what we were seeing, that doesn’t go away.
If we were in someone else’s home and we saw them attack someone else, for example, we’d still call the police. We wouldn’t say “oh this level of violence is not my scene, I’m off to hang out at Dorothy’s because she has PG Tips and no one ever gets stabbed”.
Being invited to see something in person instead of on a computer screen doesn’t materially change what we are viewing.
This isn’t about disliking the smell of month old cat litter ffs Kathleen, it’s not trusting you to behave with decency and care for your son.
 

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My house is open to criticism from anyone who enters it. It’s a matter of opinion. However, my house is private and I only let certain people in because I keep my life private- I don’t like sharing some things that go on behind closed doors, not because I’m ashamed or anything, it’s just my personal life.
So having an open house and letting everyone enter that you don’t know, you will get criticism because EVERYONE will have their own opinions. If you have an open house you have to accept that not everyone is going to agree with your way of life, how you do things and they will form opinions of you. Oh and people who don’t agree with you will enter and stay and disagree with you for ever because we can, it’s open.
these influencers/Instagrammers need to realise that, they’re so full of themselves with their analogies trying to prove to themselves thatthey’re right and everyone else is wrong. They’re influencers because they haven’t got the mental capacity to do a proper, everyday job that exhausts you and require more than a few brain cells. 🙄🙄🙄
 
I actually think the thread would be better off in influencers because it took me ages to find a thread on her. She is an influencer, more people will see it and it will expose her more. I didn’t even know there was a parenting section and always search influencers when I lose this threads

back to Kathleen! I’d love to live on her planet where what she wants she gets!
 
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