Thenursemum #10 buy my merch so I can buy my merc

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Really pleased to see her share a post from Rainbows Hospice. I hope it’s the start of a change where she begins to acknowledge the charities that helped Jaxon when he was alive and directs her followers towards them.

People will do far more good if they buy a £5 calendar and donate £15 to Rainbows (or any other relevant charity) than buying a £20 calendar from Kathleen.
 
cheeseybites said:
Really pleased to see her share a post from Rainbows Hospice. I hope it’s the start of a change where she begins to acknowledge the charities that helped Jaxon when he was alive and directs her followers towards them.

People will do far more good if they buy a £5 calendar and donate £15 to Rainbows (or any other relevant charity) than buying a £20 calendar from Kathleen.
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Bet she won’t be volunteering herself though..
She hasn’t done it for the charity she does it so she looks charitable which we all know she’s not
 
mrstakeaway said:
Bet she won’t be volunteering herself though..
She hasn’t done it for the charity she does it so she looks charitable which we all know she’s not
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It’s an improvement though! Previously her version of charity was “donate to my gofundme so I can buy my Mercedes and go on holiday” or “buy my tat and I might eventually donate a tiny percentage of the profits to charity”.
 
Sorry didn’t mean it sound like A&S were any better. But the constant crying videos and the doing her make up and hair and dragging herself to the gym is really getting my goat!

the money she’s making from her t shirts and calendars are they going to charity or into her pocket?
 
missmexx said:
Does anyone know what happened about the Merc x
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It’s been bought using funeral money.

Doesn’t anyone wonder how a single 30 yr old who hasn’t come from wealth is able to not work?. Many bereaved families have no option but to return to the workplace, they would of had just 2 weeks bereavement leave and then society and bank managers expect them to go right back to work.
Bills won’t be paid and food won’t miraculously appear. Most of these families also have a funeral debt to pay for in the aftermath of a bereavement.
But here is Kathy in bed all day and then dolling herself up to nip to the gym in her FREE Mercedes’.
It’s vulgar. For 398 days and counting J has been her income, he’s funded her VERY elaborate and luxury lifestyle.
 
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Astonishing said:
…the constant crying videos and the doing her make up and hair and dragging herself to the gym is really getting my goat!
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This is so far from the full story. This is just the carefully curated part of her life that she’s choosing to put on her nursemum account. She’s not showing the holidays, the trips out, the Mercedes etc etc

Last week she said she had her first trip out in days but the picture was tagged in Abingdon, which is a 220 mile round trip from Nottingham. It wasn’t the simple trip down a local park she was portraying it as. She also slipped-up and put up a story asking if anybody was going to a nightclub kink event in London last Friday. She’s likely been to several similar events.

She can grieve any way she wants but don’t believe that’s she just staying home, crying every day, and occasionally going to the gym, as the nursemum account would make you think she is.
 
AreYouJoking? said:
It’s been bought using funeral money.

Doesn’t anyone wonder how a single 30 yr old who hasn’t come from wealth is able to not work?. Many bereaved families have no option but to return to the workplace, they would of had just 2 weeks bereavement leave and then society and bank managers expect them to go right back to work.
Bills won’t be paid and food won’t miraculously appear. Most of these families also have a funeral debt to pay for in the aftermath of a bereavement.
But here is Kathy in bed all day and then dolling herself up to nip to the gym in her FREE Mercedes’.
It’s vulgar. For 398 days and counting J has been her income, he’s funded her VERY elaborate and luxury lifestyle.
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Hmm I don't know, my mother in law lost her son to suicide a few years ago and she is single, doesn't have any fall back money etc and had 6 months off work. I don't know the ins and outs of the financials but she wouldn't have been able to have that time off if most of it was entirely unpaid and there is 100% nobody else picking up her bills. There were no funeral debts due to a modest go fund me set up by his work so that wouldn't have been an issue but nevertheless, she had a full 6 months off.
 
cheeseybites said:
This is so far from the full story. This is just the carefully curated part of her life that she’s choosing to put on her nursemum account. She’s not showing the holidays, the trips out, the Mercedes etc etc

Last week she said she had her first trip out in days but the picture was tagged in Abingdon, which is a 220 mile round trip from Nottingham. It wasn’t the simple trip down a local park she was portraying it as. She also slipped-up and put up a story asking if anybody was going to a nightclub kink event in London last Friday. She’s likely been to several similar events.

She can grieve any way she wants but don’t believe that’s she just staying home, crying every day, and occasionally going to the gym, as the nursemum account would make you think she is.
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Oh no I know it’s very far from the truth. I would have much more respect for her if she just said look I’m grieving in my own way, I’m doing xyz to keep myself busy and try to focus blah blah blah
 
Astonishing said:
Oh no I know it’s very far from the truth. I would have much more respect for her if she just said look I’m grieving in my own way, I’m doing xyz to keep myself busy and try to focus blah blah blah
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The way she is actually grieving in real life is probably a lot more normal than the story she is portraying on the account. What she is posting is (what she thinks is) how other people think she should be acting. It’s all fake, performative and depressing, much as the account was when Jaxon was alive.
 
meredithgrey said:
Hmm I don't know, my mother in law lost her son to suicide a few years ago and she is single, doesn't have any fall back money etc and had 6 months off work. I don't know the ins and outs of the financials but she wouldn't have been able to have that time off if most of it was entirely unpaid and there is 100% nobody else picking up her bills. There were no funeral debts due to a modest go fund me set up by his work so that wouldn't have been an issue but nevertheless, she had a full 6 months off.
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Credit cards
Pay day loans
Overdrafts
Sick pay from her employer
Benefits
Savings
 
A lot of employers are very understanding and go far beyond the statutory minimums for bereavement, particularly when a child dies. I know of one person given full paid leave for 6 months due to the death of a child.

I actually wouldn’t be surprised if some of Kathleen’s advertisers have continued to pay her for ads planned before Jaxon died.
 
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