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Yes I'm aware that those are all options, she will only have had sick pay or will have used holiday and/or compassionate leave, none of the others. My point is that I was replying to someone who said that generally you get two weeks bereavement leave and then are essentially forced back to work due to lack of options, which may not be the case.

Obviously if it's specifically about Kaytee/Kathy, then she isn't working and compassionate leave isn't a thing for her.
 
It would be interesting to know what actually happened. She says it’s because it’s painful but does she know deep down it will open up a can of worms for herself.
It’s horrible but I know deep down if I knew I had given my all to my sick child and posted their life across social media to so many. If I truly knew I hadn’t exploited them. I would give my “followers” the truth of what happened so they could understand why I was grieving so much.

Ashley Cain and Saffiya for example grieve online and share their grief, but I feel it’s more tasteful than kaytee/Kathleen/nursey.

The article says he died due to brain tumours. I don’t understand why she has not given her followers an explanation. This is social media at it’s worst,so much of his short life he was used as a prop for ad work.
It would be interesting to know what actually happened. She says it’s because it’s painful but does she know deep down it will open up a can of worms for herself.
It’s horrible but I know deep down if I knew I had given my all to my sick child and posted their life across social media to so many. If I truly knew I hadn’t exploited them. I would give my “followers” the truth of what happened so they could understand why I was grieving so much.

Ashley Cain and Saffiya for example grieve online and share their grief, but I feel it’s more tasteful than kaytee/Kathleen/nursey.
I found the Ashley Cain ‘story’ sickening,imagine taking your dying baby outside not long after having a seizure and holding her up for the fans and press? Just so wrong.
Sadly I believe our Kath copied their actions which is the saddest element of children being used as props for precious ad work to pay for Gucci,Mercedes and Prada.She used her son like a puppet for financial gain.
Why has she not spoken about the money raised for the funeral? Was it about £45,000? “And the remaining money will be gifted to a charity of Kayteee’s choice” Childrens Funerals do not cost much money,there are no exorbitant fees except if you want a tacky circus!
She notified the local press asking people to line the streets and wear blue for J.Where the duck did primary colours come from? Oh yes, she can use those to make money or be gifted jewellery as she has already hinted that is all she has left of him? How f’ing mental is that,posting a picture of rainbow stoned jewellery ( cost around £2-500) and saying that is the only thing she has of her son?
Here is the article,it states that his cause of death was brain tumours. Why hasn’t she spoken to her followers to explain? She gave every part of his short life to the public to see which I found disturbing. She spent her energy fighting the system to keep unwarranted 60 hours a week of kieras,at a cost of £30 per hour through an agency-obviously she shared the costs when moaning if she has to pay anything herself. That is close to a £100,000 per year. He went on a school bus, she had the most expensive car available through motorbility to errrm, transport her son.
His father and her mother helped care for him.She spent so little time with him. I wonder if she feels guilt or sadness about how she conducted her life for the past few years? Was it really worth the riches and good times staying in £700 a night hotel rooms in London.Buying Valentino trainers for £750.Prada sandals…and now the merch to keep the lifestyle up.
I am ranting,I only recently logged into Tattle for the first time in months.I was shocked to find this thread.
 
I don’t think Kathy owes anybody an explanation as to how and why Jaxon died. He was a child with various serious and life-limiting conditions, including an extremely serious chronic heart condition, and was never expected to have a long life.

But most importantly, Kathleen is a completely unreliable source. At best she presents a one-sided take on the truth, omitting facts she doesn’t like in order to paint herself in the best light or to get money. Think of the holidays she took with friends or partners that she then portrayed as solo travelling. At worst she outright lies. So if she did provide an explanation it would be completely unclear whether it was the full truth, half the truth, or completely untrue.
 
I don’t think Kathy owes anybody an explanation as to how and why Jaxon died. He was a child with various serious and life-limiting conditions, including an extremely serious chronic heart condition, and was never expected to have a long life.

But most importantly, Kathleen is a completely unreliable source. At best she presents a one-sided take on the truth, omitting facts she doesn’t like in order to paint herself in the best light or to get money. Think of the holidays she took with friends or partners that she then portrayed as solo travelling. At worst she outright lies. So if she did provide an explanation it would be completely unclear whether it was the full truth, half the truth, or completely untrue.
I just posted an article from her local press.
I do not have trust in her words. Actually the thought process in my brain right now of what may have happened is too much to put into words here.
I can imagine a Netflix documentary being made about her, and not in a positive or complimentary vein.
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Hmm I don't know, my mother in law lost her son to suicide a few years ago and she is single, doesn't have any fall back money etc and had 6 months off work. I don't know the ins and outs of the financials but she wouldn't have been able to have that time off if most of it was entirely unpaid and there is 100% nobody else picking up her bills. There were no funeral debts due to a modest go fund me set up by his work so that wouldn't have been an issue but nevertheless, she had a full 6 months off.

Did you actually read my post?.

She isn’t working so the statement I’m making is how entitled she is.
I didn’t ask if someone in the workplace had ever had more than two weeks off or for an example of it.
So many SEND families could not survive without one or both parents working and they do have to go back to work after a the bereavement of a child. They don’t live off the money of grief tourists.
The motability cars are returned. The DLA stops and they have to just learn to act like they are ok.
 
I just posted an article from her local press.
I do not have trust in her words. Actually the thought process in my brain right now of what may have happened is too much to put into words here.
I can imagine a Netflix documentary being made about her, and not in a positive or complimentary vein.
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Is that the correct link as I cant see where it says his cause of death was tumours of the brain?
 
She reads into every thing, I’m not saying that I don’t believe in after life etc but she literally grabs on to any little thing.
 

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I just posted an article from her local press.
I do not have trust in her words. Actually the thought process in my brain right now of what may have happened is too much to put into words here.
I can imagine a Netflix documentary being made about her, and not in a positive or complimentary vein.
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Where is the link to the article
 
She has already said, he had a heart attack which caused brain death, lack of oxygen.
We don’t know what leading up to it caused the heart attack but he was due in for for some op but also his potassium was low.
She is 1000% driving around in that merc,
Fact is motability would have took ot with in 6 weeks max, she made out like she didn’t know she could by it but I 100% think she bought it ages ago.
 
whats happening in Leicester
Why would she be in Leicester?

The BAPS Awards is taking place, it's the annual award ceremony for SEND bloggers and she is in the finals in the same category as Safiyya and Ashley. Despite wanting to be the voice of the SEND community she has never bothered when she has been nominated before, she has won at least once too. I was curious if she would finally attend this year but I think she knows many people dont agree that the organisers put her in the finals.
 
The BAPS Awards is taking place, it's the annual award ceremony for SEND bloggers and she is in the finals in the same category as Safiyya and Ashley. Despite wanting to be the voice of the SEND community she has never bothered when she has been nominated before, she has won at least once too. I was curious if she would finally attend this year but I think she knows many people dont agree that the organisers put her in the finals.

Neither of them won!
Glad Carla did though
 
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