The.Yes.Life Abi Jenkins #2

[leabytottle]

What exactly is the “course” she’s doing with her teenage son? She also implied he hadn’t done his GCSE’s. I get that they aren’t as important as you think they are at the time, but not having any will leave him struggling to get a job, surely? When my children applied for jobs, full or part time, they had to put how many GCSEs they had, plus most employers do like a pass in maths and English.
I agree, her house is a top, there’s a lot of adults living there, surely they can tidy up? Oh and she says Lyra keeps talking to Erin…

 

[leabytottle]

I’m pretty sure if it wasn’t for Erin, she wouldn’t have as many followers, and would not have as many people buying stick on nails!
Her reply to this comment is so out of touch, the fact she has liked his reply too!
Not everyone can just make more money. People become ill and can’t work as much or at all. Others work and have bills to pay, live within their means, and can’t save because of the cost of living.
So on top of the £40k shes suddenly raised in a few months, she’s also got another £6-£10k for a kitchen stashed away somewhere?
There’s been zero mention of Erin’s angels in a while, I can’t see that ever happening. I wonder if things are a bit tetchy now that Dan and Rhian are together? It doesn’t look like she has raised enough for the trek yet either, still £7k off, with 2 months to go? She cant raise that by ransom cake sales, as she’s clearly got to make/buy the cakes to sell in the first place. I think she assumed she would do a zoom quiz and it would be full of people, when it was most likely a handful of people who had already donated. If it was for Erins Angels, she may have raised more. I’m not saying I don’t want her to raise the money for it, it just seems like she has too many things going on, and her “spicy brain” doesn’t let her fully focus on one thing and prioritise. I wonder if she’s ever been diagnosed, or she’s told herself she is neurodivergent?

 

[Little-Miss-No-Name]

When did Dan and Rhian get together? I’m a bit behind with her tbh been too busy reading the bison thread

 

[leabytottle]

It’s not been confirmed but she mentioned a few times that they were sharing a car journey (fair enough) a tent (hmmmm) and they brought back Abi a gift from their holiday…

 

[SmugglerJess]

I’m pretty sure if it wasn’t for Erin, she wouldn’t have as many followers, and would not have as many people buying stick on nails!
Her reply to this comment is so out of touch, the fact she has liked his reply too!
Not everyone can just make more money. People become ill and can’t work as much or at all. Others work and have bills to pay, live within their means, and can’t save because of the cost of living.
So on top of the £40k shes suddenly raised in a few months, she’s also got another £6-£10k for a kitchen stashed away somewhere?
There’s been zero mention of Erin’s angels in a while, I can’t see that ever happening. I wonder if things are a bit tetchy now that Dan and Rhian are together? It doesn’t look like she has raised enough for the trek yet either, still £7k off, with 2 months to go? She cant raise that by ransom cake sales, as she’s clearly got to make/buy the cakes to sell in the first place. I think she assumed she would do a zoom quiz and it would be full of people, when it was most likely a handful of people who had already donated. If it was for Erins Angels, she may have raised more. I’m not saying I don’t want her to raise the money for it, it just seems like she has too many things going on, and her “spicy brain” doesn’t let her fully focus on one thing and prioritise. I wonder if she’s ever been diagnosed, or she’s told herself she is neurodivergent? View attachment 3137043 qView attachment 3137044 q

She never made any cakes she was in Morrisons buying them, I'd rather go Morrisons thanks that have her dirty nails selling secondhand cakes FFS lol


And she reckons shes lost half a stone she is a big FAT liar lol
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When did Dan and Rhian get together? I’m a bit behind with her tbh been too busy reading the bison thread

She said before they was in Amsterdam together then they was sharing the bell tent on her birthday weekend. Proper muggy of Rhian if you ask me. Abi and Rhian seem to love a bit of Erin's sloppy seconds wronguns

 

[leabytottle]

She really will put her name to anything to make money, won’t she?
Im all for people being the healthiest version of themselves, and if that means loosing weight, healthily, then great!
However, when people are flogging a, let’s call it ‘diet aid’, and don’t have a certified qualification in health and nutrition, I think that dangerous. And Abi, I’m talking a proper qualification, not some random zoom course a white witch gave you at a crystal shop.
It wasn’t that long ago that she was swearing by those bloody powders that miraculously stopped her blood sugar levels spiking and made her loose weight. If they were so wonderful, why stop?
Any fad diet or aid is a quick fix and unless you’re going to be super strict the rest of your life, the weight will return. Anything-weight watchers, cabbage soup, Atkins, diet pills, once you stop, you’re usually back where you started. It’s things like this that can cause yo-yo dieting, eating disorders and life long issues with food.
It’s simple (but I get bit easy) eat less, move more.
Photos like she’s posted are so misleading, yet people who are desperate and vulnerable will see this and think it will work.
We all know angles make such a difference, as do clothes. Shes wearing a different bra, which is higher up in the “after” giving the illusion of a longer waist. Standing taller, affects how the body looks to, if your body is hunched over it’s going to make creases in places you didn’t know existed!
Then there’s the face examples How many times have you seem yourself in a mirror, or your camera turned onto selfie mode, and the angle is focusing on your 5 chins? It’s not flattering! In the “after” face photo, her head is tilted upwards slightly, you can tell from where her nose is positioned. It doesn’t take much to get rid of a double chin in a picture. Head looking up, tightens the neck and the double chin disappears.
It shouldnt be allowed at all, its giving people false hope, and taking their money off them in the meantime, to pay for this “miracle”

Im sure she has lost some weight, she admitted herself she was overweight and wasn’t eating well. (I am understanding to the fact she lived a long time at Erin’s where finding time to cook and eat healthy food wasn’t easy or a priority. She’s also had to unexpectedly become “mum” to a toddler, not long after getting married, and stress can really affect the body.) She has cut out certain food groups on the doctors advice (an actual trained doctor) including cheese, which she ate a lot. That’s more likely to have contributed to her loosing weight, as cheese has a high fat content.

Then we move onto her next “business”, recruiting others to flog it. I wonder if she receives a commission for who she signs up, and makes a percentage of any sales they make? Sound familiar…
So where we up to now? Selling cheap, stick on nails, diet aids, TikTok shop mentor (WTF is that?) selling motivation courses online, starting up a charity from scratch, raising money for a charity by telling across Iceland (nowhere near collecting that amount) the other “businesses” she has when Erin was sick that were “ticking over and bringing in money”, a houseful of teenagers and young adults, a toddler, animals, and a house move? All her fans will think “wow, she’s amazing to do all this!” When you peel off the surface, it’s definitely a case of jack of all trades, master on none.
Knowing I was making money off people’s desperation to loose weight, I just couldn’t and wouldn’t do it.
Lastly, I’m sure the company who allegedly saw her videos and sent the miracle weight loss magic, (I’d be mortified to be spotted by a company to advertise a product for them, to find out it’s because they think I look like the ‘before’ photos…) I wonder how the company will feel when they see her post only has around 2 comments and less than 20 likes. The only thing people, including the company, will be loosing, is money.

 

[leabytottle]

I’ve never known someone to be away from home as much as her. If it’s not a cruise, it’s a random camping weekend or trip to the mountains with her no shoe wearing husband. Now it’s a trip to accompany an “old woman” for a week to “push her around in a chair”. It’s all a bit weird.
For someone who claims to have a houseful of neurodivergent children and adults, there’s very little routine. Poor Lyra is shipped off again

 

[Bricktop1]

I’ve never known someone to be away from home as much as her. If it’s not a cruise, it’s a random camping weekend or trip to the mountains with her no shoe wearing husband. Now it’s a trip to accompany an “old woman” for a week to “push her around in a chair”. It’s all a bit weird.
For someone who claims to have a houseful of neurodivergent children and adults, there’s very little routine. Poor Lyra is shipped off again

I used to know someone who befriended elderly people with no family and usually ended up being left a tidy sum. I think you’ll find there’s no good deed that goes without ulterior motive with this one.

 

[leabytottle]

I used to know someone who befriended elderly people with no family and usually ended up being left a tidy sum. I think you’ll find there’s no good deed that goes without ulterior motive with this one.

I must admit, it did cross my mind… There is an “old lady friend” she visits, I’m sure this wheelchair pushing one is a different person.
Strange isn’t it?


My friends mum had a the same neighbour for 30 years. She is a nurse and when the wife became ill, she cared for her until the end. She did the same for the husband. There was no ulterior motive, she just wanted to care because they were as close as he had to family. When he died, he left everything to my friends mum. The couple had no children, no nieces or nephews and the only sister had passed away a few months before. She had left all her money to her brother, so my friends mum inherited quite a substantial amount of money and property.
She felt so guilty that she suddenly had all this money and didn’t want accept it. She was left a letter from the man via his solicitor and he made it very clear that she more than deserved it.
She could have stopped work, but she carried on nursing, and gave some away.She had no idea he had any money and was caring because she cared for him. He thought of her like a daughter and would go around at Christmas, weddings etc.

 

[Bricktop1]

I must admit, it did cross my mind… There is an “old lady friend” she visits, I’m sure this wheelchair pushing one is a different person.
Strange isn’t it?


My friends mum had a the same neighbour for 30 years. She is a nurse and when the wife became ill, she cared for her until the end. She did the same for the husband. There was no ulterior motive, she just wanted to care because they were as close as he had to family. When he died, he left everything to my friends mum. The couple had no children, no nieces or nephews and the only sister had passed away a few months before. She had left all her money to her brother, so my friends mum inherited quite a substantial amount of money and property.
She felt so guilty that she suddenly had all this money and didn’t want accept it. She was left a letter from the man via his solicitor and he made it very clear that she more than deserved it.
She could have stopped work, but she carried on nursing, and gave some away.She had no idea he had any money and was caring because she cared for him. He thought of her like a daughter and would go around at Christmas, weddings etc.

Your friends Mum sounds like a wonderful person for sure! The person I know definitely wasn’t of the same ilk, sadly.

 

[leabytottle]

Yet again proof she doesn’t think of Lyra as hers, as she said Charlie was the last of her babies to go to school. I know she’s not her child, but she’s pretty much adopted Lyra, so will she not be emotional when she starts school?
I’ve never known someone to go on so many holiday, cruises, camping, weekends away etc. she’s definitely had time to relax.

 

[leabytottle]

Comments in her lstest TikTok are interesting. She’s responded to most of the early comments, except the one asking if she fell asleep while driving… did she ever actually say why she can’t drive now?
People asking about why she’s moving, and saying that her landlord seems like they’re being helpful as they allowing them to stay without an end date. She said the landlord said they had to be out on the 1st July, her reply; “However, we are not legal tenants and he is not legally a landlord, so the whole situation around notice is null and void”
For an experienced business owner, she certainly doesn’t seem savvy at all!
The fact she was planning on buying that house and was paying under a ‘private finance agreement’ blows my mind. Surely she’s not that gullible? Did she not read the contract?

People suggest she starts packing and she doesn’t know what to pack? Her house is a tit tip, so maybe that’s where to start, rather than making crap TikTok’s!

Off on her holidays again, in October….
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Ok, so she says she was stopped by her doctor from driving because her every levels were low and she failed the sleep score. I’ve never known anyone to be forced to stop driving due to low energy levels…anyone else??

 

[Faith61]

Comments in her lstest TikTok are interesting. She’s responded to most of the early comments, except the one asking if she fell asleep while driving… did she ever actually say why she can’t drive now?
People asking about why she’s moving, and saying that her landlord seems like they’re being helpful as they allowing them to stay without an end date. She said the landlord said they had to be out on the 1st July, her reply; “However, we are not legal tenants and he is not legally a landlord, so the whole situation around notice is null and void”
For an experienced business owner, she certainly doesn’t seem savvy at all!
The fact she was planning on buying that house and was paying under a ‘private finance agreement’ blows my mind. Surely she’s not that gullible? Did she not read the contract?

People suggest she starts packing and she doesn’t know what to pack? Her house is a tit tip, so maybe that’s where to start, rather than making crap TikTok’s!

Off on her holidays again, in October….
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Ok, so she says she was stopped by her doctor from driving because her every levels were low and she failed the sleep score. I’ve never known anyone to be forced to stop driving due to low energy levels…anyone else??

I haven't watched her in ages, she makes me feel sick, this is all mind blowing/very bizarre, all of it!
What on earth is a " private finance agreement"?

 

[Spud]

I can’t believe she just called neurotypical people ‘neuro boring” on her tik tok about losing her phone!!

 

[leabytottle]

I still can’t believe no one has commented about Dan and Rhian on her page. Even the obsessed fans who probably think “it’s what Erin would have wanted”.
They shared a tent, then were at legoland sat together, now they’re coming over to abis together. It’s all a bit creepy. Both Abi and Rhian both shagging Erin’s exes? All very odd

 

[leabytottle]

Be interesting to see what happens with their move now there’s damp issues in their new house…
She was cooking for “guests” and part way through her hair changed to a rubbish Farrah fawcet style. Someone commented “Are you having a bad hair day?” She replied “I hope not, I’ve been to the hairdressers”
So she’s saving money, yet constantly buys of The TikTok Shop (there’s no ‘The’, Abi) and seemingly goes to the hair dressers every few weeks now!

 

[SmugglerJess]

Comments in her lstest TikTok are interesting. She’s responded to most of the early comments, except the one asking if she fell asleep while driving… did she ever actually say why she can’t drive now?
People asking about why she’s moving, and saying that her landlord seems like they’re being helpful as they allowing them to stay without an end date. She said the landlord said they had to be out on the 1st July, her reply; “However, we are not legal tenants and he is not legally a landlord, so the whole situation around notice is null and void”
For an experienced business owner, she certainly doesn’t seem savvy at all!
The fact she was planning on buying that house and was paying under a ‘private finance agreement’ blows my mind. Surely she’s not that gullible? Did she not read the contract?

People suggest she starts packing and she doesn’t know what to pack? Her house is a tit tip, so maybe that’s where to start, rather than making crap TikTok’s!

Off on her holidays again, in October….
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Ok, so she says she was stopped by her doctor from driving because her every levels were low and she failed the sleep score. I’ve never known anyone to be forced to stop driving due to low energy levels…anyone else??

TBF if you have or suspected to have sleep apnea then DVLA will suspend your license. It's the same when optician says your eye sight is too bad to drive they too will inform DVLA.
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Comments in her lstest TikTok are interesting. She’s responded to most of the early comments, except the one asking if she fell asleep while driving… did she ever actually say why she can’t drive now?
People asking about why she’s moving, and saying that her landlord seems like they’re being helpful as they allowing them to stay without an end date. She said the landlord said they had to be out on the 1st July, her reply; “However, we are not legal tenants and he is not legally a landlord, so the whole situation around notice is null and void”
For an experienced business owner, she certainly doesn’t seem savvy at all!
The fact she was planning on buying that house and was paying under a ‘private finance agreement’ blows my mind. Surely she’s not that gullible? Did she not read the contract?

People suggest she starts packing and she doesn’t know what to pack? Her house is a tit tip, so maybe that’s where to start, rather than making crap TikTok’s!

Off on her holidays again, in October….
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Ok, so she says she was stopped by her doctor from driving because her every levels were low and she failed the sleep score. I’ve never known anyone to be forced to stop driving due to low energy levels…anyone else??

Also the video of her invitation to a WHO conference in the middle east. For someone that is meant to be against doctors and modern medicines and all for the natural remedies. Why on earth would she be excited to be involved with the world health organisation?? She would sell her own granny for money that one. She is so flakey.

 

[leabytottle]

I can’t understand why someone who has no charity set up and running and not actually started doing anything to support the field of death doulas, has been invited.
I think most of us in here first found her via Erin and initially saw her as someone helping out a friend. There are plenty of people who’ve supported a family member or friend in their last weeks, but I don’t think many of those would consider themselves an expert or full of knowledge. Yet, Abi seems to think she is some kind of authority. I wonder what she told the WHO in order to be invited? Or if they somehow did invite her, I wonder what she said about herself during correspondence. I sincerely hope she is just watching and not doing any talking.
She’s the sort of person who would speak to an expert and make a video saying how she met a top doctor in this field who says they support Erin’s Angels and think Abi is amazing, when all they’ve done is politely smile and say hello whilst waiting in the queue for the loo.

Nothing seems to be happening with EE, and I sadly think memento has dwindled as people who followed Erin and not Abi, won’t even know about the charity.

She’s still not raised anywhere near the amount for the hospice, which is such a shame for the hospice, as the £10k she has to raise will have made a big difference. I wonder if that’s the amount set by the charity or by her and if she doesn’t raise it, if she still does it?
Does she pay for her travel, clothing, accommodation etc to Iceland herself? That won’t be cheap

 

[Faith61]

I can’t understand why someone who has no charity set up and running and not actually started doing anything to support the field of death doulas, has been invited.
I think most of us in here first found her via Erin and initially saw her as someone helping out a friend. There are plenty of people who’ve supported a family member or friend in their last weeks, but I don’t think many of those would consider themselves an expert or full of knowledge. Yet, Abi seems to think she is some kind of authority. I wonder what she told the WHO in order to be invited? Or if they somehow did invite her, I wonder what she said about herself during correspondence. I sincerely hope she is just watching and not doing any talking.
She’s the sort of person who would speak to an expert and make a video saying how she met a top doctor in this field who says they support Erin’s Angels and think Abi is amazing, when all they’ve done is politely smile and say hello whilst waiting in the queue for the loo.

Nothing seems to be happening with EE, and I sadly think memento has dwindled as people who followed Erin and not Abi, won’t even know about the charity.

She’s still not raised anywhere near the amount for the hospice, which is such a shame for the hospice, as the £10k she has to raise will have made a big difference. I wonder if that’s the amount set by the charity or by her and if she doesn’t raise it, if she still does it?
Does she pay for her travel, clothing, accommodation etc to Iceland herself? That won’t be cheap

I can't get my head around what prompted them to " invite her"
Erin's story was what it was because of the strength, brutal honesty, and humour( FU Abi,
I'm going to Tesco...I loved her for that!)she showed throughout.
I and many others I guess, watched Abi, amd soon realised something was " off" with her!
I just don't see what she's done that's so impressive that she has "stood out", to whoever!
Yes Abi, I'm a super fan...not!
And yes, i work with those at end of life daily, I see it all. The impact that caring for a close family member or friend is hard to put into words. I've also experienced it personally too.
There's no jealousy here Abi...just utter confusion and quite frankly, disbelief how you've behaved off the back of Erin's end of life journey!

 

[leabytottle]

So she’s decided now is the time to randomly start answering questions people left asking Erin questions, or questions about Erin, for Abi. These were from when Erin was still here.
The fact she’s tagging the questions in a new post, from the old one, is so Erin’s followers will discover Saint Abi, seems like she’s trying to get back followers.
I wonder if she’ll answer how she feels about Dan and Rhian?
The first question is regarding the Tesco trip that Abi didn’t want Erin to do. She then said the consultant wouldn’t tell them what the risks were, as it was too traumatic for people to hear. He course, he took Nurse Abi aside and told her. That’s when it clicked what she does. She goes on to explain what can happen to the organs, in waffling detail, as if SHE is the one that has been taught this. She takes other people’s words and adds her own flourishes to make her sound like she’s educated. I think that’s how she hoodwinked, often vulnerable people, as she sounds like she’s informed.
It’s actually quite scary. This is someone who is setting up a charity for vulnerable people, and she will be talking to talk after her WHO event, but NOT walking the walk.
There are people that follow her, because they’re going through a terminal diagnoses themselves, or a family member is. She knows this. They comment and she tells them to message her (I’m not saying that’s not genuine)
So, knowing her audience has people that are terminal, she thinks is acceptable, with NO trigger warning, or any warning about what she was going to discuss, she went into detail about something the oncologist said he doesn’t tell patients, because it’s too traumatic for them to hear.
There is NO WAY that you can’t read this, Abi, and not see that video should have come with a warning. Please take it down, or the very least put a warning. Please. You haven’t given the people who interact with you, who’s family, friends, or themselves, are going through what Erin went through, the choice whether they hear that information. It’s not your information to share, and the advice of a trained, experienced and educated professional, was to NOT share. So why had you?