@cee-bee is 100% right - her personality and life has been wrapped up in William and pleasing him since she was 17-18. He does what he wants. She has the kids, the country houses, the life she really wanted. I waver between she really is a bland person or must have something there, but she (as well as William) just comes across as vapid and dim, despite the education.
He wanted someone bland who would follow his lead and turn a blind eye to anything he ever did, because she got the prize.
I'm a stay at home mom - it's a real job, and eats away at a lot of your own free time until they are in school - but I don't have any help at all. I don't have a public-facing job where I am paid by the taxpayers expected to hold up my end of the bargain - do some work a few times a week.
Neither of them want to work and I wonder how much the adoration of them being Not Harry and Not Meghan will last.