The Ingham Family #321 "You wanted it undone, it's undid stop winging"

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IdeletedbutI'mbackagain said:
But her parents won't want that. Any kind of intervention will result in some kind of therapy and I am convinced that is the last thing Chris and Sarah want because I strongly suspect a lot of dodgy stuff is going on in that house.
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Precisely this!

I find Izzy’s fashion choices, combined with the type of music/female interests Chris has quite dodgy. He will definitely be schooling her on how to appeal to creeps (exposing the shoulders constantly) and reading briefly over memory Monday where he is declaring he knows the girl he is talking to would appeal / have a sexiness men would like… I hate to think it but I’ll eat my hat if he doesn’t talk like that Izzy too and I can imagine he probably loves the way she dresses etc. too but not in a normal, paternal way

Edited to add none of this is a dig at Izzy - I despair for her and them all really. It just makes me uneasy knowing the type of man he is and the type of mother Sarah isn’t!
 
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IdeletedbutI'mbackagain said:
She won't. I swear to God that girl has been failed by everyone. By her mum, her dad, her n stepfather, the authorities. No-one can claim that they didn't see this coming. It's what happens when you experience they type of abuse she has and it is abuse.
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Lazy knew that she was attempting to, and carried through with, losing weight in a way she "didn't agree with". Why the duck would you sit by and watch your child do that? I know from going through it right now with my daughter who's Izzy's age you know IMMEDIATELY when something's not right, she knew and done nothing!


I'm still fighting more than a year down the line with the morons involved in my daughter's treatment as they've failed her at every turn. They apparently have the money to go private if they wanted to, unless Mr 10k a day is full of tit. I, as we all have, have discussed this for quite some time (as we actually care), we know they read here and they made a point of showing Izzy preparing and eating food as if to prove a point. It proves nothing. People with EDs can still eat. Get your daughter seen immediately.


EDs are the riskiest mental health disorders as they have the highest rate of mortality. They're risking their daughter's life by choosing to ignore this.
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heidilouxx said:
Now that Izzy is an adult I’m not sure what Sarah could do as Izzy has capacity to make her own decisions regarding her healthcare. Izzy could very easily refuse treatment :( she could be sectioned under the mental health act but it’s difficult with eating disorders. Or she’d end up in hospital in the case that she collapses due to malnutrition/dehydration.
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She could refuse treatment, my daughter did initially, didn't believe anything was wrong (which is very common with EDs), but because we have a great relationship, and she trusts me, she knew I wouldn't be encouraging her to get treatment if it were for no reason. Unfortunately I doubt Saz has that kind of bond with Izzy, which is incredibly sad. I hope I'm wrong and they are doing something to get her help and support, she deserves so much more than that life.
 
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Cheezychips said:
Lazy knew that she was attempting to, and carried through with, losing weight in a way she "didn't agree with". Why the duck would you sit by and watch your child do that? I know from going through it right now with my daughter who's Izzy's age you know IMMEDIATELY when something's not right, she knew and done nothing!


I'm still fighting more than a year down the line with the morons involved in my daughter's treatment as they've failed her at every turn. They apparently have the money to go private if they wanted to, unless Mr 10k a day is full of tit. I, as we all have, have discussed this for quite some time (as we actually care), we know they read here and they made a point of showing Izzy preparing and eating food as if to prove a point. It proves nothing. People with EDs can still eat. Get your daughter seen immediately.


EDs are the riskiest mental health disorders as they have the highest rate of mortality. They're risking their daughter's life by choosing to ignore this.
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She could refuse treatment, my daughter did initially, didn't believe anything was wrong (which is very common with EDs), but because we have a great relationship, and she trusts me, she knew I wouldn't be encouraging her to get treatment if it were for no reason. Unfortunately I doubt Saz has that kind of bond with Izzy, which is incredibly sad. I hope I'm wrong and they are doing something to get her help and support, she deserves so much more than that life.
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That girl has been lied to for years and manipulated into thinking that she can be anything she wants to be without putting any academic effort in just to keep her available for performances to make money for her parents. There’s no way she’ll have any trust in them to know what’s best for her wellbeing
 
Tilly Kister said:
It's called body checking. It's a dangerous symptom of a deadly disease. And yes there are sick fucks who have starvation fetishes and other sck fucks who like to watch people struggle to do daily tasks. Eugenia Cooney has a fan base largely consisting of teenagers who are "Pro-Ana" and the above sick fucks. It would not surprise me at all if Izzy watches Eugenia.

I can see Izzy's future and it's terrifying me.

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Oh Jeez, what the hell did I just see? That second pic? It’s real? The internet is vile in places. Gonna watch some kitten videos & good music. Good for me as in Hendrix, Springsteen- maybe even some Taylor Swift to cleanse my palette.

Seriously, is that second pic with the ill fitting boots & almost dead look something ‘people’ enjoy? Damn all the enablers to hell.

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Was just thinking - what’s next, showing Isla stuffing way more food than is healthy? Then I realized, they’ve already done that. Creepy isn’t strong enough - he’s a dark, evil, twisted, sick c*nt - and with Sarah enabling, she’s just as culpable.

Could well be mental illness in play with the girls. I’d be shocked if it wasn’t - and it’s nothing to be ashamed of. I probably have a diagnosis myself of some kind because, thankfully, it’s talked about now.

But mental illness stops and becomes vindictive evilness when inflicted on others, especially to pad out imaginary ego & of course, make money, which we know these two breeders thrive on.
 
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OliviaPope said:
Lazy doesn’t care about how thin Izzy has gotten through starving herself, she’s loving it! She’s a sick woman she was so giddy showing the sizes of clothes Izzy bought and saying how a size 10 was far too big a few months ago, the same glee on her face as when she knew Mila needed an operation!

Izzy’s busy showing her bag where Lazy is holding up the 2xs top making sure the camera can focus in on the size.
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Came here to say exactly this. Lazy will be absolutely buzzing that Izzy is so teeny tiny, healthy or not. The smaller the better in her eyes - we’ve seen it with the younger ones, the lying about their size, the restricting of food and it’s exactly the same with Izzy except she will has done it to herself. Not a chance of any help for that poor girl, everyone is failing her. This is why she’s so disinterested in poor Isla, and she’s headed in the opposite direction.
 
Naataaliiee said:
Lazy will be absolutely buzzing that Izzy is so teeny tiny, healthy or not.
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100%!

I can see the vlog now ~ POW! *Lazy open mouth/crusty lips thumbnail* Teen Girl's Wasting Away! The TRUTH about Isabelle! WOW 🍍

I'm sickened by how frail she looks. And there is NOBODY to rescue her. Her father dropped the ball on this. Her mother is loving it. Her fannies worship whatever she does. The only people who seem to notice that anything is wrong with these kids are posting here.
 
StrangeAsAngels said:
100%!

I can see the vlog now ~ POW! *Lazy open mouth/crusty lips thumbnail* Teen Girl's Wasting Away! The TRUTH about Isabelle! WOW 🍍

I'm sickened by how frail she looks. And there is NOBODY to rescue her. Her father dropped the ball on this. Her mother is loving it. Her fannies worship whatever she does. The only people who seem to notice that anything is wrong with these kids are posting here.
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It’ll be just like when people try to warn them about their kids ending up on the dark web. They turn it round to us having sick minds.
 
OliviaPope said:
Lazy doesn’t care about how thin Izzy has gotten through starving herself, she’s loving it! She’s a sick woman she was so giddy showing the sizes of clothes Izzy bought and saying how a size 10 was far too big a few months ago, the same glee on her face as when she knew Mila needed an operation!

Izzy’s busy showing her bag where Lazy is holding up the 2xs top making sure the camera can focus in on the size.
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Lazy almost displays reverse munchausen by proxy behaviours, her children do have issues and she isn’t ignorant to this but almost willingly does the very minimal to address them. Isabelle’s weight loss, Isla’s weight gain, Jace’s speech issues, Mila’s hips. That’s without the clear issues regards their children’s social and educational issues.

In both Isabelle and Isla’s case food is the only part of their lives they have a slight control on, Isla eats for comfort, devoid of stimulation or social engagement whilst Isabelle is clearly monitoring everything she eats and is likely struggling with elements of depression.
 
Babbitt1234 said:
Precisely this!

I find Izzy’s fashion choices, combined with the type of music/female interests Chris has quite dodgy. He will definitely be schooling her on how to appeal to creeps (exposing the shoulders constantly) and reading briefly over memory Monday where he is declaring he knows the girl he is talking to would appeal / have a sexiness men would like… I hate to think it but I’ll eat my hat if he doesn’t talk like that Izzy too and I can imagine he probably loves the way she dresses etc. too but not in a normal, paternal way

Edited to add none of this is a dig at Izzy - I despair for her and them all really. It just makes me uneasy knowing the type of man he is and the type of mother Sarah isn’t!
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Exactly and gawd knows what goes on with creepy in that house... He likes to hide under her bed so I really hope that worse things haven't happened. But he's vile and it wouldn't surprise me if he has.
 
SarahGard83 said:
Izzy has uploaded her Christmas haul vlog on her channel and all I could think was how unwell she looks. She is a shadow of her former self and is all skin and bones. I won't upload photo but if I were her parent then I'd be seeking medical advice because in my opinion that girl isn't well
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Sadly she is now 18 years old.... 'its her choice if she sees a doctor we cant force her'. Even though these problems didnt develop overnight. It's sad
 
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