The Ingham Family #321 "You wanted it undone, it's undid stop winging"

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Nickyjay said:
That screenshot is shocking. I remember the hate she was being given for being a size 12ish and comments about her size.

My 18 year old was a similar shape at that point and is a perfectly healthy size 12ish now. The weight loss should be a red flag to any parent. Sarah and Chris please leave you tube now if you don’t need the money.

Get all of your children professional help and some privacy to allow them to heal and develop into the adults they should be.
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I don’t remember her getting hate, certainly not on here if that’s what you mean. At the time, it was clear she was putting on weight and was showing signs of depression. Any comments about her weight were from concern, just as they are now.
How sad that us bunch of so called haters and trolls have more concern for Izzy than her own parents do.
 
IdeletedbutI'mbackagain said:
But her parents won't want that. Any kind of intervention will result in some kind of therapy and I am convinced that is the last thing Chris and Sarah want because I strongly suspect a lot of dodgy stuff is going on in that house.
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An intervention or getting help from outside agencies would be an admission of failure as parents in their bird brains and that would never do. In reality not getting help for her is the failure as parents.
They’re far too scared about what would come out about their family dynamic in therapy and you just know that they would go into full attack mode with any agencies involved claiming they’d put ideas into isobelles head because “the matrix” or something
 
curious cookie jar said:
An intervention or getting help from outside agencies would be an admission of failure as parents in their bird brains and that would never do. In reality not getting help for her is the failure as parents.
They’re far too scared about what would come out about their family dynamic in therapy and you just know that they would go into full attack mode with any agencies involved claiming they’d put ideas into isobelles head because “the matrix” or something
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If there is any kind of admission from them in regards to acknowledging an ED, they will put it down to trolls and abuse she has received over the years.

No mention or taking responsibility for them monetising her and exposing her to unfiltered opinions from strangers by putting her daily life on the internet for all to see from such a young age instead of protecting her at the first sign of any kind of negative impact as good parents would do.
 
Jamhead said:
I saw a picture of her pop up somewhere from the summer of 2023, it actually shocked me how different she looked. So I went back and looked at pictures from the summer of 2022, 2021 and 2020 too.
I never fully 'bought into' the eating disorder, I just thought she was making an effort to be more healthy however I'm now 100% convinced she has an eating disorder of some description.
How her waste of space mother hasnt noticed is beyond me, I guess she's too busy with all the small kids she keeps popping out and viewing them all from behind a lens to actually see what is staring her in the face!
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It all seems to have ramped up since her 18th. I suppose those few friends she has had have long gone now but if she has got friends they will all have an education, jobs, money, a social life, cars, thinking about their own homes at their disposal. I don’t think she’s even gone out and properly celebrated turning 18 :(

I really do think the realisation of how awful her life is has hit her now and this is the result. She’s stuck there and she knows she won’t be free from them easily. She could reach out to her Dad’s side now Sarah has no legal hold on her but I don’t think she’ll do that either sadly. It would also mean leaving her siblings behind. Sounds like her step mum sent an olive branch to her when she turned 18.

The emotional, financial, educational, child neglect abuse that goes on is disgusting and I think it’s about time someone stepped in now because the findings would be horrific. She’s been grinded down to a shell of her former self & it’s very telling in that vlog. Esme will be next on the hit list when she starts to approach her 18th - they know they are on borrowed time before one of those kids steps out of line and reveals all about behind the scenes.
 
Rosie Tatler said:
So Esme and Isla were away for the weekend doing all these activities and not a single insta story or tik tok !!!

When my kids went on sleepovers thats all they flipping did , dressing up , little dance routines etc . But then they were only sharing with friends not strangers !

Friend’s sleepover was a figment of Sarah’s imagination !
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I do wonder what’s happened with Jane & Steve. If they’ve fallen out that they may be holding a lot of stuff over Chris in particular and managed to gain access to the kids in that way. Wouldn’t put it past Jane at all.

Would Isla really go to a sleepover at Lotties? I’m not sure with their age differences & Jane/Steve are the only other ones to have any interaction with them outside of their own family house.
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Bertie&Gertie said:
ive saw the baby is in fact fair haired looks like she's going to be blonde
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The girls had a sleepover with the girl and her mum over the weekend I saw them out.
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She has definitely got red tones to her hair, she’s how one of mine was as a baby and they went on to have a lovely head of red hair.
 
MissWinnie said:
I do wonder what’s happened with Jane & Steve. If they’ve fallen out that they may be holding a lot of stuff over Chris in particular and managed to gain access to the kids in that way. Wouldn’t put it past Jane at all.

Would Isla really go to a sleepover at Lotties? I’m not sure with their age differences & Jane/Steve are the only other ones to have any interaction with them outside of their own family house.
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She has definitely got red tones to her hair, she’s how one of mine was as a baby and they went on to have a lovely head of red hair.
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Personally I think they’re trying to kiss the arse of the step father because they think he can do something for them business related. They have gone years only seeing Lottie and her mum once a year if they’re lucky, having them over for the night and putting them up in the caravan. Now all of a sudden they’re up their arses and it’ll be something that benefits them. They don’t have normal friends, just people they can use
 
Christalena said:
This made me want to CRY. I had an eating disorder from age 16-18 and I remember looking like Isabelle. I was into a similar style of music and clothing as well. I remember feeling cold 24/7, passing out in my classes and the nurse calling my parents, running cross country 3 mile races on less than 500 calories a day. I was losing my beautiful, thick hair and I was pale and anemic. My high school graduation photo does not hang in my home because it is painful to look at.

Long story short, PLEASE SARAH, get her HELP. If it’s the only thing you do for the child. She is dangerously unhealthy. It’s scarier because no one knows what is happening in that home. There is no college, friends or extended family to reach out with concern.
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Now that Izzy is an adult I’m not sure what Sarah could do as Izzy has capacity to make her own decisions regarding her healthcare. Izzy could very easily refuse treatment :( she could be sectioned under the mental health act but it’s difficult with eating disorders. Or she’d end up in hospital in the case that she collapses due to malnutrition/dehydration.
 
MissWinnie said:
I do wonder what’s happened with Jane & Steve. If they’ve fallen out that they may be holding a lot of stuff over Chris in particular and managed to gain access to the kids in that way. Wouldn’t put it past Jane at all.
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I think they’ve fallen out over the sterilisation, Lazy insinuated that she had gotten it done to please others but not people online. Given that Jane and Steve are again invisible looks like they are getting the blame.
Nickyjay said:
That screenshot is shocking. I remember the hate she was being given for being a size 12ish and comments about her size.

My 18 year old was a similar shape at that point and is a perfectly healthy size 12ish now. The weight loss should be a red flag to any parent. Sarah and Chris please leave you tube now if you don’t need the money.

Get all of your children professional help and some privacy to allow them to heal and develop into the adults they should be.
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Izzy wasn’t given hate on here for her size when she was a size 10/12. Possibly on her own Insta with the ifam, not here that just didn’t happen!

Poor girl has been stuck at home basically for the last 4 years now, any weight gain she did have was due to her mothers terrible cooking of pasta slop with cheese and double cream. Izzy wanted to join a gym, it never happened, they have a doubles garage and 2 secret rooms above they could have easily got her some exercise equipment to help her exercise.

Lazy doesn’t care about how thin Izzy has gotten through starving herself, she’s loving it! She’s a sick woman she was so giddy showing the sizes of clothes Izzy bought and saying how a size 10 was far too big a few months ago, the same glee on her face as when she knew Mila needed an operation!

Izzy’s busy showing her bag where Lazy is holding up the 2xs top making sure the camera can focus in on the size.
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spookycat said:
If there is any kind of admission from them in regards to acknowledging an ED, they will put it down to trolls and abuse she has received over the years.

No mention or taking responsibility for them monetising her and exposing her to unfiltered opinions from strangers by putting her daily life on the internet for all to see from such a young age instead of protecting her at the first sign of any kind of negative impact as good parents would do.
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They wouldn’t be able to hide behind that fig leaf though because as you say, they’ve been responsible. If the agencies involved dug around a bit to see why they get “hate” his grooming of 16 year olds would be top of the Google search which would raise some red flags yet again. Any sort of family therapy would probably raise loads more especially with Isla
 
curious cookie jar said:
An intervention or getting help from outside agencies would be an admission of failure as parents in their bird brains and that would never do. In reality not getting help for her is the failure as parents.
They’re far too scared about what would come out about their family dynamic in therapy and you just know that they would go into full attack mode with any agencies involved claiming they’d put ideas into isobelles head because “the matrix” or something
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100% agree. They’d never agree to it. Even just going by what is on camera (and the rundowns here) that Family is severely dysfunctional and, most important, that’s the stuff Chris leaves in as their “highlights” Which makes it even worse.

It has been getting worse since she put out that vlog about what she was doing and going to do and got slaughtered in the comments. Since then she’s not put any up with comments. The “friends” she made disappeared because of Chris, they should have all gone alone. No involvement from him at all. Even the comments on her 18th were harsh. Is not helped, at all, by Chris going after all the haters for not having jobs and living with their parents when he literally has a 18 year old in that situation who was always going to become a target for those people.

I’ve spent all day thinking of and feeling sad about my friend and what she went through so I may take a step back from here. No blame or anything just cannot stand to see this play out like it did for her. She had a heart attack before her parents realised she was ill. Then spent all their time blaming their daughter...
 
becca7721 said:
100% agree. They’d never agree to it. Even just going by what is on camera (and the rundowns here) that Family is severely dysfunctional and, most important, that’s the stuff Chris leaves in as their “highlights” Which makes it even worse.

It has been getting worse since she put out that vlog about what she was doing and going to do and got slaughtered in the comments. Since then she’s not put any up with comments. The “friends” she made disappeared because of Chris, they should have all gone alone. No involvement from him at all. Even the comments on her 18th were harsh. Is not helped, at all, by Chris going after all the haters for not having jobs and living with their parents when he literally has a 18 year old in that situation who was always going to become a target for those people.

I’ve spent all day thinking of and feeling sad about my friend and what she went through so I may take a step back from here. No blame or anything just cannot stand to see this play out like it did for her. She had a heart attack before her parents realised she was ill. Then spent all their time blaming their daughter...
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I really hate how nasty people are to the likes of Issy and Esme and the other children in the comments online. What we are seeing of Issy is exactly why no one should be doing that.

They are victims of child abuse, their scummy parents are only delighted when the children get trolled like that online cause it reinforces the narrative they have spun to maintain control over them.

I'm so sorry about your friend, what awful parents she had who blamed her for her illness 💔
 
When you have your pervy step parent telling the world you're a social butterfly but you know in your heart you are anything but that and then being coined 'Boreabella' online, it must sting.
Same as turning 18 and having to celebrate it in a gifted caravan with your ever growing siblings and no friends.
She must be painfully aware of those people she once went to school with all moving forward with their lives. Wether that's into further education, apprenticeships or jobs and she's stuck, too scared to say boo to a goose.

She travels with them wherever they go, not once yet has she stayed back from these van trips. You'd think she'd want her younger siblings to have more space in that poky little van but that's all she has. It's an escape and an excuse. An excuse not to go into further education, not to form bonds with people, not to get a job. How can she when she's so 'busy' travelling the World Europe every few months.

She doesn't have any control over her future, she used to be really vibrant, expressive verging on gobby. If you go back and watch her in her early teens you'll see she is a shadow of herself. She controls what goes in her body because it's all she can control.

Hopefully one day soon she realises some of this and then speaks up to protect her siblings, although that isnt her responsibility is it?
 
IdeletedbutI'mbackagain said:
Omg this is horrific. That poor young women. I don't even know where she can begin to help herself, she has no education, no access to the money she has earned her parents, no freedom. They have complete control over her.

This is what abuse looks like people.

duck sake, this is criminal.
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She looks so ill man poor girl my heart breaks for her
 
charlotte_98 said:
I don’t think any of their offspring are cute. To me mila looks like a ginger Katrina. Isabelle was very pretty when she was a child. The poor girl is a shadow of her former self, it shows in every way possible. I think she’s the one I really feel for, they’ve ruined her life. They’ve got a big house/vans but imagine her life if YouTube never happened. They’ve taken everything from her. I hope she finds her way.
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Sadly, and whilst Mila does indeed look like a ginger Katrina, the odds have always been weighed against her. Jace is only in the loop because he’s the boy and has the blonde hair. However, he has been ruined, is grossly unpleasant, and is way behind his milestones and stutters like a choking fox . This is simply because neither of his parents could teach a bowel to fart. Second time round baby three (aura or what the hell she’s called) is worse attended than Mila. She will be further relegated to the lowly ranks should her ginger locks persist. I agree Mila’s youthful charm is fading and the bright light she was has been well and truly extinguished. Creepy and Big Saz are nothing but criminals.
 
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