Teen Mom UK #36

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Jennytea said:
I hope she isn’t hinting for Olly to chase her ffs. Also this kind of attitude is so problematic. when you tell a man you are done they should leave you the duck alone 😂 these mixed messages lead to restraining orders 🤣 these types of quotes is why some guys think girls who reject them are playing hard to get or want you to chase them 😴 don’t tell someone you’re done if you aren’t lol
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Yeah this is a joke lol look at her tagging her mate and putting the date on it.
 
SmudgeTheCat said:
I have to say it’s hardly like it’s club or something lol I mean yeah the time to have her there is a bit funny but I thought it was gonna be her at a full on booze fest 😂
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Probably waited until her mum finished work and dropped her round there, high chance she only took her because she didn’t have anyone to look after her. Not ideal kids been a school all day then dragged round to watch the mums get pissed alone if there was multiple kids there she’d be fine but alone she’ll just need to sit on Mia’s phone while they have a booze up but I reckon she’d have dropped her to her mums before 10pm Mia’s out and about most nights M must fall asleep and Mia goes out maybe a reason she moved in with her parents for help because I’ve never known her mother to watch M as much as she has done in the last 6-8 months. But if Manley had M in the pub at that time he’d have no name 🤣 Mia gets away with so much compared to the other teen mums tho. I see right thru Mia now tho she’s selfish af lol
 
Sophiadee said:
Was about to say, she used to alwaysss do this. Was thinking the other day about when she lived in the flat and used to put M to bed and have all her mates round to party too. She’s not changing and we’ll see her with a new man next year 🥴
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I have to come up with a new voice in my head that I assigned you 🤣🤣🤣
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Oh you do this too? In my head it’s Chloe Sims because of their old profile picture 😂
 
gmarsh28 said:
Probably waited until her mum finished work and dropped her round there, high chance she only took her because she didn’t have anyone to look after her. Not ideal kids been a school all day then dragged round to watch the mums get pissed alone if there was multiple kids there she’d be fine but alone she’ll just need to sit on Mia’s phone while they have a booze up but I reckon she’d have dropped her to her mums before 10pm Mia’s out and about most nights M must fall asleep and Mia goes out maybe a reason she moved in with her parents for help because I’ve never known her mother to watch M as much as she has done in the last 6-8 months. But if Manley had M in the pub at that time he’d have no name 🤣 Mia gets away with so much compared to the other teen mums tho. I see right thru Mia now tho she’s selfish af lol
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I didn’t say it was right of course it isn’t lol but people going in like it’s a proper clubbing night
 
I just don't understand it nobodys saying she can't have a life outside being a mum or be contained to a house but she has enough nights out when M is with manleys family priorities are all wrong she should be taking M to a grotto or something her mates are no better they're deluded if they and Mia think it's all cool to take a what 7 year old out to a bar during the week I'd understand if her mates hardly saw mia like once a month or something but that's not the case is it totally selfish
 
SmudgeTheCat said:
I didn’t say it was right of course it isn’t lol but people going in like it’s a proper clubbing night
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Kids can’t get into clubs in the UK so it wouldn’t be possible for M to be with them clubbing until she was 18, I’m sure only if the bar sells food children can be present after 8pm. X
 
I honestly don’t see the harm in Mia taking M out with her if she’s no school the next day. For one, M knows her friends really well and so it’s an opportunity to see them and to have a fuss made of her by them and two, most places state no children after 8pm anyway.
It’s also Christmas, why shouldn’t the both of them socialise with friends and have the treat of a few hours out?!
She’s kind of damned if she does and damned if she doesn’t with some people - it’s either ‘omg she’s got M in a bar’ or ‘omg she’s out again and left M with her mum’. Girl can’t win!
 
Lilylate said:
I honestly don’t see the harm in Mia taking M out with her if she’s no school the next day. For one, M knows her friends really well and so it’s an opportunity to see them and to have a fuss made of her by them and two, most places state no children after 8pm anyway.
It’s also Christmas, why shouldn’t the both of them socialise with friends and have the treat of a few hours out?!
She’s kind of damned if she does and damned if she doesn’t with some people - it’s either ‘omg she’s got M in a bar’ or ‘omg she’s out again and left M with her mum’. Girl can’t win!
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There’s also the option of her just staying home with Marliya…
 
Miss.Chanandler.Bong said:
There’s also the option of her just staying home with Marliya…
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Why? Why should she? Does becoming a mum exonerate you from having any sort of social life? Does it mean you have to stay in then every night and every weekend until your child turns 18?
OR, would that child actually benefit from either a) spending time with grandparents and other family members. And B), going out and having a fuss made of them by friends who love and care for them?
It IS possible to bring up a child single handedly and still have a life yourself. It’s also possible, as a single parent, to have a network of friends and family around you who all contribute to your child’s life.
These comments hit home with me because I’ve been in Mia’s position myself. And like Mia, I was lucky enough to have a great family support network around me and great friends who treated my daughter like their own.
I went out when she was with her Dad and during the odd week of the holidays when she was away at my mum’s (my mum lived four hours away) - she was only there because I worked full time to support us both and I couldn’t get every week of the summer holidays off. So yes, on the weekends I didn’t have her I went out. Did that mean my child suffered? Nope! Did she actually love being at my mum’s or her dad’s - yup!
At Christmas time, we’d be invited to meals out as a pair and you bet we went - my daughter adored my friends and vice versa - almost thirty years on, she’s grown up now and still classes those friends as her family.
Dont be so quick to judge!
 
Lilylate said:
Why? Why should she? Does becoming a mum exonerate you from having any sort of social life? Does it mean you have to stay in then every night and every weekend until your child turns 18?
OR, would that child actually benefit from either a) spending time with grandparents and other family members. And B), going out and having a fuss made of them by friends who love and care for them?
It IS possible to bring up a child single handedly and still have a life yourself. It’s also possible, as a single parent, to have a network of friends and family around you who all contribute to your child’s life.
These comments hit home with me because I’ve been in Mia’s position myself. And like Mia, I was lucky enough to have a great family support network around me and great friends who treated my daughter like their own.
I went out when she was with her Dad and during the odd week of the holidays when she was away at my mum’s (my mum lived four hours away) - she was only there because I worked full time to support us both and I couldn’t get every week of the summer holidays off. So yes, on the weekends I didn’t have her I went out. Did that mean my child suffered? Nope! Did she actually love being at my mum’s or her dad’s - yup!
At Christmas time, we’d be invited to meals out as a pair and you bet we went - my daughter adored my friends and vice versa - almost thirty years on, she’s grown up now and still classes those friends as her family.
Dont be so quick to judge!
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I don’t think this is the issue people are pointing out, no one’s saying she shouldn’t have a social life. In fact it’s healthy for M to see Mia have one and for M to socialise with other adults from time to time herself. What she’s doing isn’t exactly child appropriate. If she had a meal at a restaurant with her friends and M at a child appropriate hour, it wouldn’t exactly be an issue. I just don’t think Mia naturally has that maternal streak which is why she’s coming off a bit selfish at times. Taking M to a bar at that time isn’t right sorry, it’ll be full of drunk twats who start all sorts of trouble and other things children shouldn’t be seeing
 
Sophiadee said:
I don’t think this is the issue people are pointing out, no one’s saying she shouldn’t have a social life. In fact it’s healthy for M to see Mia have one and for M to socialise with other adults from time to time herself. What she’s doing isn’t exactly child appropriate. If she had a meal at a restaurant with her friends and M at a child appropriate hour, it wouldn’t exactly be an issue. I just don’t think Mia naturally has that maternal streak which is why she’s coming off a bit selfish at times. Taking M to a bar at that time isn’t right sorry, it’ll be full of drunk twats who start all sorts of trouble and other things children shouldn’t be seeing
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She can be selfish. Remember when she came home drunk and woke Marliya up. I think that’s the same time she then fell asleep and Marliya had been watching tv all night
 
Lilylate said:
I honestly don’t see the harm in Mia taking M out with her if she’s no school the next day. For one, M knows her friends really well and so it’s an opportunity to see them and to have a fuss made of her by them and two, most places state no children after 8pm anyway.
It’s also Christmas, why shouldn’t the both of them socialise with friends and have the treat of a few hours out?!
She’s kind of damned if she does and damned if she doesn’t with some people - it’s either ‘omg she’s got M in a bar’ or ‘omg she’s out again and left M with her mum’. Girl can’t win!
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She was out at like 10PM 😂 and could’ve been out even later but didn’t put stories up past that time.. There’s having a social life and then being ridiculous. Same as when people were sticking up for her having M out on a bar strip in Turkey at 2am! 🙃 I don’t know how anyone can think this is all ok. It’s mad.
 
Jennytea said:
She was out at like 10PM 😂 and could’ve been out even later but didn’t put stories up past that time.. There’s having a social life and then being ridiculous. Same as when people were sticking up for her having M out on a bar strip in Turkey at 2am! 🙃 I don’t know how anyone can think this is all ok. It’s mad.
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I really feel like some people on here just give Mia an easier time because they like her
 
Miss.Chanandler.Bong said:
I really feel like some people on here just give Mia an easier time because they like her
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It must be or they just don’t have common sense about what’s appropriate for children! We aren’t nuns on here 😂 we just know what’s right and wrong. I’ve said openly I find Mia likeable and don’t actually dislike her and I can still see when she is being a twit x
 
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