gmarsh28
Chatty Member
I know i was a victim of domestic violence for 2 years at the young age of 16 I almost died at the hands of an abuser probably stemmed from loosing my mother 2 years before I ran into the hands of anyone who would take me but once my daughter was born she came first she was my only priority I had to get better for her I had to wait for therapy to heal from everything and I never focused on men I focused on me and her, accountability is the only thing that helps you progress, she’s had 8 failed relationships she either needs to stop dating or think do I need to go and seek help? Her acts are selfish and potentially dangerous and shouldn’t be excused someone else relies on her duck men. She done a full documentary on domestic abuse she must know the extent of how dangerous these men she’s bringing into her and her child’s life are? Shes choosing to ignore the signs because she wants them regardless and unfortunately that is her problemBecause it’s not just a mistake, it’s being susceptible to being taken in by cohesive, manipulative people, who by their very nature are sly, deceitful and in many cases prone to gaslighting. It’s all very easy to say you’ll never be taken in by someone like that again, but if you’re not very good at reading the signs, or if you’re someone who only wants to see the best I people, it’s not as black and white as that.
We all agree that Mia has chosen idiot men, but at the time, she won’t have seen them for what they were.
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Thankyou this is exactly what I meant! This is why you find people choosing the same type of partner over and over again…
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