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Buzz2345 said:
Have we got the jord ❄️ receipts yet?

Also the whole olly, mica, breeze thing is mind blowing! I’m glad Mia got out of that.

I do believe the damage that was done by Manley and having a baby so young someone like that is the foundation of why she is the way she is with relationships. I wish she could find someone to heal her heart :(.
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Nah I don’t agree with that I had a baby to an abuser at 16 and never in my life went near another bad man again i used that as an example of who not to choose Mia just makes decisions based off who looks the best and who likes to party and holiday the most and who will suit the insta life, don’t think Manley can be blamed for all Mia’s decisions that’s just taking no accountability for who u are
 
gmarsh28 said:
Nah I don’t agree with that I had a baby to an abuser at 16 and never in my life went near another bad man again i used that as an example of who not to choose Mia just makes decisions based off who looks the best and who likes to party and holiday the most and who will suit the insta life, don’t think Manley can be blamed for all Mia’s decisions that’s just taking no accountability for who u are
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To be honest I agree. I dont doubt that having a baby to a waster at 16 is really really difficult and probably traumatic. But the damage was done before she met Manley if anything, from her mum or whatever rhe situation was with not knowing her dad.

And 'I wish she could find someone to heal her heart' is super problematic, if you're trying to find a man to fix you you're going to end up in some bad situations
 
rosieflowers said:
To be honest I agree. I dont doubt that having a baby to a waster at 16 is really really difficult and probably traumatic. But the damage was done before she met Manley if anything, from her mum or whatever rhe situation was with not knowing her dad.

And 'I wish she could find someone to heal her heart' is super problematic, if you're trying to find a man to fix you you're going to end up in some bad situations
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She was actually 19 when Marliya was born about to turn 20.
I’m not sure what you mean about her dad? They've always been close from what I can tell

I agree that Manley can’t be blamed for everything. She went abroad to a foreign country for a first date. She seems to act impulsively and not like there's a child at home depending on her returning safely
 
gmarsh28 said:
Nah I don’t agree with that I had a baby to an abuser at 16 and never in my life went near another bad man again i used that as an example of who not to choose Mia just makes decisions based off who looks the best and who likes to party and holiday the most and who will suit the insta life, don’t think Manley can be blamed for all Mia’s decisions that’s just taking no accountability for who u are
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She clearly has issues around men so I feel sorry for her to a degree as I also had a child with an abusive narcissist. But Mia doesn’t seem to ever learn her lesson, Olly was boyfriend number 5-7 after Marliya which is straight up insane. I hope she does stick to the man ban for next year and get some therapy too
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Miss.Chanandler.Bong said:
She was actually 19 when Marliya was born about to turn 20.
I’m not sure what you mean about her dad? They've always been close from what I can tell

I agree that Manley can’t be blamed for everything. She went abroad to a foreign country for a first date. She seems to act impulsively and not like there's a child at home depending on her returning safely
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They meant @gmarsh28 having a baby at 16 to an abuser. But yeah she is close to her dad, confused about that comment? I honestly think her issues could stem from her mum still
 
Sophiadee said:
She clearly has issues around men so I feel sorry for her to a degree as I also had a child with an abusive narcissist. But Mia doesn’t seem to ever learn her lesson, Olly was boyfriend number 5-7 after Marliya which is straight up insane. I hope she does stick to the man ban for next year and get some therapy too
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They meant @gmarsh28 having a baby at 16 to an abuser. But yeah she is close to her dad, confused about that comment? I honestly think her issues could stem from her mum still
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I one hundred percent agree that her issues more than likely stem from her mum. And that ending up with Manley will have been a result of trying to find something that was missing in her childhood.
The suggestion that once you’ve been with someone who is mentally or even physically abusive should mean you never go near anyone like that again is just absurd. Mia’s issues are her issues and it is they that drive her decisions, rather than past experiences, in my opinion anyway.
 
I'm sure in Mia's first teen mom episodes she was saying about how she'd recently got to know her dad again after he'd been out of her life for a long time? But I may be getting her mixed up with another mum, sorry!

I know she has been close with her dad ever since she has been on the show, for sure
 
woooooooowwwweeee said:
him and mica were kind of the at the end of their road so to speak they’d been with eachother a while and wasn’t going anywhere on again off again because he couldn’t settle down.
olly got beat up and needed plastic surgery on his face to fix to damage.
breeze didn’t want the baby around it.
also breeze and olly only knew eachother because breeze was sleeping with ollys cousin who is the dad to the little girl mentioned earlier calling olly uncle.
ollys cousin is with micas cousin and they’ve been together for years and years but breeze was sleeping with him behind her back for years as well. that’s where breeze meets olly and then does the same thing to mica but instead of having constant abortions decided to keep ollys baby for some strange reason. it’s all a bit of a spiders web that has breeze at the centre of the drama. and there is no way mia could of competed with breeze. she’s grown up as a mean girl with everything she could ever possibly want and has that horrible attitude i can imagine the arguments they had amoungst eachother mia will of been crying her eyes out.
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I feel like this is an accurate representation of me reading this trying to work out who's slept with who
 
rosieflowers said:
To be honest I agree. I dont doubt that having a baby to a waster at 16 is really really difficult and probably traumatic. But the damage was done before she met Manley if anything, from her mum or whatever rhe situation was with not knowing her dad.

And 'I wish she could find someone to heal her heart' is super problematic, if you're trying to find a man to fix you you're going to end up in some bad situations
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Mia was 19 not 16, think she’s the oldest of the girls too. She does know her dad too? He’s been in the show 😂
 
Lilylate said:
I one hundred percent agree that her issues more than likely stem from her mum. And that ending up with Manley will have been a result of trying to find something that was missing in her childhood.
The suggestion that once you’ve been with someone who is mentally or even physically abusive should mean you never go near anyone like that again is just absurd. Mia’s issues are her issues and it is they that drive her decisions, rather than past experiences, in my opinion anyway.
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Why is it absurd to learn from mistakes? Especially when ur a mother if she keeps choosing idiot men to introduce to your kid isn’t that absurd??
 
Miss.Chanandler.Bong said:
I think that poster means if you’re subconsciously attracted to a certain type of person possibly due to your parents or your upbringing it can be really hard to break that cycle
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Sure I get that but wouldn’t say it’s absurd to not go with someone else abusive after knowing the signs of abuse. Maybe spend some money on therapy instead of BBLs teeth tits lol. I hate the fact that other people are trying to be blamed for her decisions that really annoys me especially when she’s access to anything she needs to help her be better. Manley is a POS but he can’t be blamed for Mia having tit relationships, everyone forgetting what Mia did to Erin she’s no saint either lol this is the outcome of taking other peoples men and getting involved with men who have babies freshly born or knowing them for 5 minutes and being madly in love, if she never takes accountability her life will never ever get better this cycle will forever be the same and her daughter will learn from her
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Even the reference to this quote, like what man out of all the Ex’s she’s had would she actually want to fight for her? The first abuser Manley? The second physical abuser that ended up in jail, the 3 inbetween, the boxer or the one who just pulled out the house deal after almost uprooting your kid 5 hours away for him? Her full life revolved around men and terrible ones at that
 

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gmarsh28 said:
Why is it absurd to learn from mistakes? Especially when ur a mother if she keeps choosing idiot men to introduce to your kid isn’t that absurd??
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Because it’s not just a mistake, it’s being susceptible to being taken in by cohesive, manipulative people, who by their very nature are sly, deceitful and in many cases prone to gaslighting. It’s all very easy to say you’ll never be taken in by someone like that again, but if you’re not very good at reading the signs, or if you’re someone who only wants to see the best I people, it’s not as black and white as that.

We all agree that Mia has chosen idiot men, but at the time, she won’t have seen them for what they were.
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Miss.Chanandler.Bong said:
I think that poster means if you’re subconsciously attracted to a certain type of person possibly due to your parents or your upbringing it can be really hard to break that cycle
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Thankyou this is exactly what I meant! This is why you find people choosing the same type of partner over and over again…
 
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