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I really like Ste
Never understood why he doesnt have them M-F & amber at weekends. He could manage work & the boys seem very happy & behaved with him. He communicates well with them.
Maybe cos amber would have to get a job!! What does she do all day 9-3?

Always thought she’s autistic doesn’t cope or organise or communicate well and not got friends / good at relationships. All about her and her problems .. and seems happiest on her own tbh
 
lauren96111 said:
They said Ste seems they on weekends so to Hudson Amber is the default parent. May be way he finds it harder to say goodbye to mum. Ste didn’t even listen he was to smug and rubbing it in her face. Instead of helping
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Children also tend to lash out/play up with the main parent as they feel safer with them. My son always had meltdowns with me but not his dad because he was with me majority of the time when dad was working so I was his safe place where he felt comfortable to act like that. My sons also on the spectrum so I relate to Amber finding it so difficult him being difficult like that with her but ste not getting it. At first my partner refused to believe there was an issue as he didn’t see it often. It wasn’t until covid where we were all at home he said actually I see what you mean I didn’t realise he acted that way. So maybe ste just thinks amber is talking bs because he’s not seen it for himself
 
stargirl23 said:
Children also tend to lash out/play up with the main parent as they feel safer with them. My son always had meltdowns with me but not his dad because he was with me majority of the time when dad was working so I was his safe place where he felt comfortable to act like that. My sons also on the spectrum so I relate to Amber finding it so difficult him being difficult like that with her but ste not getting it. At first my partner refused to believe there was an issue as he didn’t see it often. It wasn’t until covid where we were all at home he said actually I see what you mean I didn’t realise he acted that way. So maybe ste just thinks amber is talking bs because he’s not seen it for himself
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My youngest sister use to be the same. She was perfect for our dad but if my mum was going out and we had to stay with Nan etc she would kick off, screaming and crying so bad. My mum use to cry leaving because she was that awful and my dad never believed her because he never had to put up with that type of thing. All three of us were good for him 😂. Ste needs to be more willing to listen to Amber and help her. Shouting and making her look stupid isn’t going to help anyone and just cause her to feel even worse than she was probably already does
 
lauren96111 said:
My youngest sister use to be the same. She was perfect for our dad but if my mum was going out and we had to stay with Nan etc she would kick off, screaming and crying so bad. My mum use to cry leaving because she was that awful and my dad never believed her because he never had to put up with that type of thing. All three of us were good for him 😂. Ste needs to be more willing to listen to Amber and help her. Shouting and making her look stupid isn’t going to help anyone and just cause her to feel even worse than she was probably already does
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Exactly and I feel over time it’ll make Amber feel she can’t confide in him about the kids because she just gets ste shouting at her instead of understanding and helping her overcome the issue together
 
stargirl23 said:
Children also tend to lash out/play up with the main parent as they feel safer with them. My son always had meltdowns with me but not his dad because he was with me majority of the time when dad was working so I was his safe place where he felt comfortable to act like that. My sons also on the spectrum so I relate to Amber finding it so difficult him being difficult like that with her but ste not getting it. At first my partner refused to believe there was an issue as he didn’t see it often. It wasn’t until covid where we were all at home he said actually I see what you mean I didn’t realise he acted that way. So maybe ste just thinks amber is talking bs because he’s not seen it for himself
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This! Was about to comment this. Even harder when you’re coparenting cos they’ll literally never see how the child is with you when they’re dysregulated and when the coparent is a bleep (like Ste), they’ll just blame your parenting, anything to make them look good and they’ll never, ever work with you.
 
Kat5998 said:
It’s not ready on NowTV yet 😤
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Finally managed to watch

I can relate to Sassi a bit about feeling lonely but having to remind yourself that you can’t bring someone in to fill the void.

Ste and Amber stress me out, I used to feel so sorry for Ste back in the old series’s when he used to love Amber and she didn’t love him back.

I don’t really have anything to say on Mia, but Chloe’s segments were so boring as per. Poor Jordan working for her as well
 
Argh I’ve had a mare, I thought this was on tomorrow and was looking forward to live snarking here but I’ve just seen it was today 💀 I’m gonna have an extra bag of Chive and Double Gloucester mini cheddars while I watch tomorrow to make up for it
 
Right, now I've caught up on the thread,can debrief!

Chlo's house looks manky or should I say Chlo's Cottage 😂😂😂 cos it can't be Jord's, the absolute peasant. Tell you what, he's one step away from getting in her side of the bed to warm it up for her like the slaves back in the day!😂

Why is Sass cutting about in a brand new car, what's she doing? Her alone drama is pathetic. I would pay someone to take my children half the week and let me flubber round the gaf speaking to nobody!

Amber 🤦‍♀️😩😂 this girl man. Get a new house ffs with a decent garden to let the ferals run about. She's gonna morph into that sofa by next season!

Mia! Olly has all the vibes I would try and avoid. Toxic as duck relationship, he's a drunk. He gives me the absolute creeps.
 
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