Taylor Swift #28 In my heart is a Christmas tree farm

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Just read that Joe is making another film with Margaret Qualley. Awkward 😂.

I think Emma Stone is in it too. I saw people saying that Taylor should show up to that premiere with Travis to rub it in Joes face. Cute that they assume Taylor and Travis will still be together a year plus from now, but also…what is wrong with these people that they think that would be in any way normal?

If I was Travis I’d be very nervous after seeing what’s gone down with in certain parts of the fandom and how Taylor has acted since the Joe split.
 
You know, I’d actually really love to hear Taylor talk reflectively about what she learned from the end of a long term relationship. We don’t need the detail, the gossip (the denial of a MARRIAGE lol) but I think if she allowed herself to it would have been so much more interesting for her to talk about how she’s had to experience this huge fame at the same time as really difficult personal things going on in the background. We saw it all happening in those suprise songs - so there is good context for it. I do believe she has that maturity in her somewhere… but instead we just get this weird denial that she ever loved or even liked Joe at this point! Or is she saving it all for the Eras tour doc/re-records series that’s no doubt been sold somewhere for a billion dollars?!
 
Imagine letting a man you have known for ten mins feature so heavily on what is a significant piece about You.
Also Taylor, knowing someone for two/three months is nothing!
Exactly why has he got so much airtime? Ive got stuff in my freezer longer than they’ve been together lol. I know everyone on tiktok thinks they’re already engaged and planning babies immediately but call me a buzzkilll…I don’t think they will last. They’ll break up shortly after once she’s off tour/hasn’t have constant rehearsals and stuff.
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Also the moving the goalposts re:Joe is just weird. It’s like she feels as if she says she loved him and was sad by the breakup, it makes her new relationship less valid? I can’t work out the logic
 
Exactly why has he got so much airtime? Ive got stuff in my freezer longer than they’ve been together lol. I know everyone on tiktok thinks they’re already engaged and planning babies immediately but call me a buzzkilll…I don’t think they will last. They’ll break up shortly after once she’s off tour/hasn’t have constant rehearsals and stuff.
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Also the moving the goalposts re:Joe is just weird. It’s like she feels as if she says she loved him and was sad by the breakup, it makes her new relationship less valid? I can’t work out the logic

The thing is, Taylor is famous off the back of writing about exes and relationships so I’m not surprised this was addressed. Would I want a relatively new relationship discussed in my person of the year article? Nope but I can see why it’s associated with her..
 
We all know (she has said herself) she craves validation from others. She's desperate for that acceptance from others. She maybe got it privately from Joe, but she didn't have it publicly - she wasn't allowed to talk about their relationship and gush over how in love they were. It was only through her music that we knew anything. Travis is giving her or rather us letting her be that person who talks non stop about him etc etc even in Time magazine FGS. I don't think she is minimising her relationship with Joe through this behaviour but I think she feels more validated and valued through the way Travis shows his feelings for her.
 
The thing is, Taylor is famous off the back of writing about exes and relationships so I’m not surprised this was addressed. Would I want a relatively new relationship discussed in my person of the year article? Nope but I can see why it’s associated with her..
Folklore and evermore stepped away from that trend though and were still wildly successful. I think publicly dragging exes can be funny when you’re 18 (hello fearless Taylor with the Joe Jonas doll) but now she’s approaching her mid 30s it’s just highly immature.
and on the flip side, this kind of obsessiveness/infatuation with a new boyfriend is common when you’re in your early 20s, but you wouldn’t expect someone in their 30s to let a man overshadow their achievements in such a way.
Taylor once said “in your life you’ll do things greater than dating the boy on the football team” but it seems as she views this relationship as one of her biggest achievements
 
I think Emma Stone is in it too. I saw people saying that Taylor should show up to that premiere with Travis to rub it in Joes face. Cute that they assume Taylor and Travis will still be together a year plus from now, but also…what is wrong with these people that they think that would be in any way normal?

If I was Travis I’d be very nervous after seeing what’s gone down with in certain parts of the fandom and how Taylor has acted since the Joe split.

I think he’s not prepared for the wrath of certain Swifties but come what may he will enjoy the results of being Taylor’s ex. He seems desperate for fame outside of the NFL pitch.
Exactly why has he got so much airtime? Ive got stuff in my freezer longer than they’ve been together lol. I know everyone on tiktok thinks they’re already engaged and planning babies immediately but call me a buzzkilll…I don’t think they will last. They’ll break up shortly after once she’s off tour/hasn’t have constant rehearsals and stuff.
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Also the moving the goalposts re:Joe is just weird. It’s like she feels as if she says she loved him and was sad by the breakup, it makes her new relationship less valid? I can’t work out the logic

I don’t think they will last, right now it’s the honeymoon period and he’s scratching her ego and playing to the crowds and she’s loving that. It seems showing up in public for Taylor is a very big thing for her.
 
She just strikes me as someone who can't let go of things people did to her. Like, you dared to do that to ME? Cue her talking about it in a freaking TIME interview after more than a decade has passed. No amount of success is going to make her come to terms that horrible things happen to everyone, and then you move on with your life, away from the poison.

Also, I have this weird theory (I'm sure it's just in my head) that she doesn't "trust" her own music enough, as if she thinks the fans want the background of her life's drama, be it boyfriends or Kim, in order to follow it. As if she thinks she will lose this frenzy of the fans without these pap walks and changing her hair and living these different "eras" of her albums in real life.

She keeps window-dressing these releases with her real life, when the music is more than enough. We listen for the songs, not the people behind them. At least I do, I don't know about anyone else.

(Maybe she is right?)
 
She just strikes me as someone who can't let go of things people did to her. Like, you dared to do that to ME? Cue her talking about it in a freaking TIME interview after more than a decade has passed. No amount of success is going to make her come to terms that horrible things happen to everyone, and then you move on with your life, away from the poison.

Also, I have this weird theory (I'm sure it's just in my head) that she doesn't "trust" her own music enough, as if she thinks the fans want the background of her life's drama, be it boyfriends or Kim, in order to follow it. As if she thinks she will lose this frenzy of the fans without these pap walks and changing her hair and living these different "eras" of her albums in real life.

She keeps window-dressing these releases with her real life, when the music is more than enough. We listen for the songs, not the people behind them. At least I do, I don't know about anyone else.

(Maybe she is right?)
Honestly her personal life is something I put up with as a fan, rather than desperately wanting to hear more of it.
I’ll stand by the fact that Lover/Folklore/Evermore were her best eras - when she kept herself to herself and let the music speak.
Whilst keeping their relationship private was clearly more Joes idea than Taylor’s, it was clearly the most sensible option. And probably the reason why their relationship lasted unlike all of Taylor’s other relationships.
 
We all know (she has said herself) she craves validation from others. She's desperate for that acceptance from others. She maybe got it privately from Joe, but she didn't have it publicly - she wasn't allowed to talk about their relationship and gush over how in love they were. It was only through her music that we knew anything. Travis is giving her or rather us letting her be that person who talks non stop about him etc etc even in Time magazine FGS. I don't think she is minimising her relationship with Joe through this behaviour but I think she feels more validated and valued through the way Travis shows his feelings for her.


PATHOLOGICAL PEOPLE PLEASER
 
We all know (she has said herself) she craves validation from others. She's desperate for that acceptance from others. She maybe got it privately from Joe, but she didn't have it publicly - she wasn't allowed to talk about their relationship and gush over how in love they were. It was only through her music that we knew anything. Travis is giving her or rather us letting her be that person who talks non stop about him etc etc even in Time magazine FGS. I don't think she is minimising her relationship with Joe through this behaviour but I think she feels more validated and valued through the way Travis shows his feelings for her.

yes, she does seem very bitter in that article that Joe never ever validated their relationship, or praised her talent, in public.
 
I mean she jokes that they are a small family business because they are all involved in her career. (Her family) Does Taylor have people around her that aren’t Yes people?? Would it help Taylor if her family wasn’t on the pay roll? Less pressure maybe? and I people please with the best of them but I cannot imagine my parents being so involved in my career at her age.
 
I think he’s not prepared for the wrath of certain Swifties but come what may he will enjoy the results of being Taylor’s ex. He seems desperate for fame outside of the NFL pitch.


I don’t think they will last, right now it’s the honeymoon period and he’s scratching her ego and playing to the crowds and she’s loving that. It seems showing up in public for Taylor is a very big thing for her.
This is it… it seems a bit all for the crowds. Between the “I love you” to Matty after dating for what two weeks (I know they’ve been friends or at least acquaintances for years) and the Travis love in… like I get wanting your partner to make a fuss of you but it’s so OTT.

What happened to “Romance is not dead if you keep it just yours” 🤣.

When it burns out with Travis, I think she’ll be very hurt unfortunately which is never nice
 
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