Yeah exactly, many might feel uncomfortable in saying they had a fab time because they'll undoubtedly get leapt on for being insensitive and undermining the experiences of others.
In regards to Judi Love, I can well imagine he was a complete charmer with her. It was his comeback after 2 yrs on the bench and while I'm sure he was gunning to impress, he'd know full well he didn't have a contender on his hands with Judi.
The best he could hope for was some crowd pleasing routines (her twerking Samba went over well) but then that popularity boost only lasted a week before she hit the DO. He then tried for the sympathy vote with a maudlin Waltz in honour of dead relatives and buckets of fake as fuck tears... but Judi was never getting far.
I think he thought he might have had a contender with Zara and his frustrations built up and the mask slipped.
Also, does everyone remember the Kym stomach stroking incident in the Claudatorium? She looked as tense as hell. Weird then... even weirder now.