simply_stephjoy26 #2 drowning in dog hair and debt, haven't you had that baby yet?

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WhatABore said:
Keeps saying she feels like she's missing out on bonding time or whatever with the baby, yet on her phone constantly
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I don’t see how much more bonding she’s expecting you can have when she’s got a baby sucking on her tit as much as she says she’s trying? In other words she expected everything to go smoothly and be lying on the sofa with a baby on her chest for majority of the day whilst they both napped?
 
If only she spent more time reading and less time shopping and whining on her stories when she was pregnant 🙃
I love that her priority is her morning nap.
How is she gonna cope when the flesh eater goes back to work, she has herself, the baby and the dog to deal with everyday?
She could bond and spend more time with her baby if she stepped away from social media and put her phone down
 
As a breastfeeding mum to a 4 month old, she is winding me up!
Breastfeeding is SO hard in the early days, but she is putting mums to be OFF any consideration they may have breastfeeding.
It’s hard for everyone Steph, not just you! It took mr around 5 weeks to establish breastfeeding, maybe even longer. She’s already wanting to give up!

Just shut up and seek your help from a lactation consultant in silence!
I am all for sharing information, but Steph is going the wrong way about it!
 
She’s adding so much extra and unnecessary pressure to herself by taking photos of herself crying, and uploading tit tonnes of updates to Instagram. Shut the duck up and enjoy your baby- no one really cares, no one’s seeking steph out for inspo or advice just duck OFF wasting time on insta instead taking in every second of your baby. bleeping winds me up n it’s only been 10 days.
 
HeCannitSeeMan said:
She’s adding so much extra and unnecessary pressure to herself by taking photos of herself crying, and uploading tit tonnes of updates to Instagram. Shut the duck up and enjoy your baby- no one really cares, no one’s seeking steph out for inspo or advice just duck OFF wasting time on insta instead taking in every second of your baby. bleeping winds me up n it’s only been 10 days.
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This, exactly this
 
When is she gonna realise that nobody wants to see every minute of her child's day? I literally see more photos and videos of that kid than I do my own. I dare say even family would be fed up if she was spamming them with the amount of pictures she's posting
 
I can honestly say I don’t even remember picking my phone up and checking social media for so long when I give birth, I took pictures of my baby but so many times my partner would say ‘so and so said can you check your messages’ because I was so wrapped up in enjoying my baby. Yes being a new mum is daunting we can all agree on that but it’s all about learning, you just get on with it and adjust to your new life. She’s gone into this completely blind apart from buying every unnecessary item she could find which no doubt she’ll regret wasting money on when the pittance that is maternity wage begins 🙄
 
I am honestly still reeling from the comment she made that she couldn’t breastfeed much to start with as they kept having visitors and it was “awkward”. Have a backbone and do what is best for your child. I’ve already told my family and friends that I will be very direct with them after my baby is born (two months to go..!) if I need them to leave 😂

Also.. posting pics of your baby is one thing, but a boomerang…?! She is awful.
 
The ravioli
 

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