I want to just start by saying, I love Aidan. He’s my kinda guy, right up my street. I’ve loathed Carrie since season 4 (only disliked her up til that point), as a direct result of her abysmal treatment of the lovely man.
Season 3 Aidan was adorable. Great guy, caring, adored Carrie and was such a gentleman. Carrie was attracted to him and perhaps he made her feel safe but I couldn’t see what they had in common. She cheated on him and he told her he knew himself too well to get past that. The end. Bad Carrie, lovely, gracious Aidan.
Season 4 Aidan was sexier but he never forgave Carrie. She begged him to give her another chance but his actual life didn’t interest her. it was like she just didn’t want anyone else to have him. She detested his country house (that he self built and was proud of). I couldn’t understand why she wanted to be with someone she did not relate to on any level. She physically rejected anything he wanted for their future, vomiting at the sight of an engagement ring, taking an allergic reaction to a wedding dress, wearing the ring on a chain around her neck and having a melt down when he tried to knock down her apartment wall to expand her apartment for their future. Come on! Red flags! Walk away. They didn’t want the same things. He wanted a family of his own and a simpler life, Carrie wanted couture, parties and drama.
I don’t want to acknowledge second movie Aidan as I’ve never gotten over that character assassination.
Now we have divorcee, father of 3 Aidan who is mega rich, dresses weirdly, looks waxy, is still traumatised by the apartment saga 20+ years later yet wants to rekindle a relationship with a woman who broke his heart once then came back and smashed it into smithereens for good measure.
We’ve witnessed no relationship development from them, no conversations about anything other than the mundane really, but the writers want the viewers to believe that this relationship is working? Feels more and more like a nostalgia money grab to me
Apologies for the essay, Someone please tell me how they work? I’m not being rude or argumentative. I want to hear other opinions.