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That's why I started following her because she was local and I know a few people who've been through cancer, but things just didn't add up, she claimed she was on immunotherapy and losing her hair from it, if you Google her name and cancer the articles are all online still, but none of what she was claiming seemed to fit with the treatment regime she was saying she was on. Then there was the running of with her fellas best mate tit, then the shop which claimed to donate proceeds to charity but ppl were asking where their items were as they weren't arriving. It just seems a desperate act of grasping any straw for likes. It's sad really. I did a quick nose at what she's been spouting recently, hope her fella won't get into trouble for being on her only fans content, I saw she'd put that he was now joining in too. I can't understand why anyone would want to lie about cancer
 
ChampagneBox said:
This 🙌 it’s a bit like conspiracy theories, humans can’t accept that things ‘just happen’ without a reason, and so seek to put things in a neat box with a ribbon on top. But actually, it’s just ‘one of those things’ or *gasp* just a crappy human behaviour that happens. I also don’t think it always helps to have more awareness of these conditions, don’t get me wrong I think it’s great mental health is being spoken about more and more, but it’s like Dr Google- it’ll always tell you you have the worst thing ever before listing the less serious conditions but it means people can self diagnose
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I'm so sceptical of the motivations of people who claim to be "raising awareness
S1791 said:
It was all just for money


I think at best it was a huge exaggeration. Because it’s such a sensitive subject most people wouldn’t believe someone would lie or be awful enough to lie about it. People she actually knew in person started calling her out first and then suddenly it all disappeared. I see you’re from the same area as me!


What would you like to know?
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I'd really like to know what Rishi is like and if he's as decent and long suffering as he seems.
Sorry for hijacking the thread with selfloveclubb tea btw.
It's true though, the whole bopo influencer trend isn't altogether healthy. At all.
 
Sariassong said:
I'm so sceptical of the motivations of people who claim to be "raising awareness

I'd really like to know what Rishi is like and if he's as decent and long suffering as he seems.
Sorry for hijacking the thread with selfloveclubb tea btw.
It's true though, the whole bopo influencer trend isn't altogether healthy. At all.
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No worries. I used to not mind Rishi but now I think he’s a prick too. He lies and exaggerated things too but not to the extent Milly did I must say. He’s one where all he’s bothered about is how he looks to other people and people being impressed by him.

I thought it was big of him to take her back after she slept with his best friend and plastered it all over Facebook and Instagram.

He’s supposed to be a pharmacist but now is apparently making onlyfans content with her
 
Lather ....rinse.....repeat

Think of your own content instead of asking everyone everyday.

It is your "job", so you should edit your vids too. Ask James to show you how then do it yourself.

Unless dancing half naked shaking the belly, talking about sex toys, or posing in awful clothes is all you want to do for your money
 

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It’s weird as duck. You’ve probably seen but she went from saying she had stage 4 cancer to in remission in a matter of weeks. She also put a post on Facebook, I don’t remember the exact wording but I would be able to find it eventually as lots of us screen shotted it but she would post about going to chemo and she ‘met a little boy who was telling her about his cancer treatment’ etc- the ward she would receive treatment on didn’t have children on there and there was no way she’d have come into contact with a child there. Personally I think it was a cancer scare or a much lower grade and she lied then panicked when it started to run away with her. Rishi went with it but at the time she was suddenly with his best friend anyway so I imagine it was easy to lie or exaggerate things
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Thanks for your insight.

I know we are going so off topic with chatting about Milly but she has just done so many sus things that they need to be discussed. A few things that some have already brought up here, that I'm gonna outline incase people can shed some light:
- she dropped out of uni (training to be a nurse iirc) due to her mental health. She crowdfunded for long term treatment for her mental health. Unsure how/what that did.
- she spoke about writing a book about her ED etc (similar to Bodyposipanda). She started a Patron for it. Instead she released, years later, a lackluster carbon copy of so many other adult activity books.
- (may be wrong about this) she claimed she was super duper poor guiz on many occasions despite having loads of pets and Rishi seeming pretty well off.
- she cheated on her man. This has already been covered but its really bleeping weird.
- she changes her diagnosis all the time and list of ailments everymore. I always thought she was a bit of a munchie. I believe she says she has bpd and has an ED (is recovered from anorexia but suffers with BED). But I've preciously seen her say she has depression/anxiety (often synonymous with these types of illnesses anyway), HPV, M.E/CFS (she was big on this one for a while but this seems to be mostly removed from her feed but mentions of "chronic pain" are still there), endo/pcos, bipolar disorder, hypothyroidism, psychosis, PTSD....
- started a t shirt line. Proceeds to charity i think? I think this was with the guy she ended up with when her and Rishi split but the venture might have started before this? The link now redirects on insta to someone else's shop (selfloveshopp). Separately, she also did a pin collection iirc. I think some money was meant to go to charity, too, but no proof was ever posted.
- crowdfunded for a head shave.

There might be more but this is all I can think of rn! Her feed is boring now.

Both her and Liv seem to be losing followers as well.
 
Vanilla Sorbet said:
Thanks for your insight.

I know we are going so off topic with chatting about Milly but she has just done so many sus things that they need to be discussed. A few things that some have already brought up here, that I'm gonna outline incase people can shed some light:
- she dropped out of uni (training to be a nurse iirc) due to her mental health. She crowdfunded for long term treatment for her mental health. Unsure how/what that did.
- she spoke about writing a book about her ED etc (similar to Bodyposipanda). She started a Patron for it. Instead she released, years later, a lackluster carbon copy of so many other adult activity books.
- (may be wrong about this) she claimed she was super duper poor guiz on many occasions despite having loads of pets and Rishi seeming pretty well off.
- she cheated on her man. This has already been covered but its really bleeping weird.
- she changes her diagnosis all the time and list of ailments everymore. I always thought she was a bit of a munchie. I believe she says she has bpd and has an ED (is recovered from anorexia but suffers with BED). But I've preciously seen her say she has depression/anxiety (often synonymous with these types of illnesses anyway), HPV, M.E/CFS (she was big on this one for a while but this seems to be mostly removed from her feed but mentions of "chronic pain" are still there), endo/pcos, bipolar disorder, hypothyroidism, psychosis, PTSD....
- started a t shirt line. Proceeds to charity i think? I think this was with the guy she ended up with when her and Rishi split but the venture might have started before this? The link now redirects on insta to someone else's shop (selfloveshopp). Separately, she also did a pin collection iirc. I think some money was meant to go to charity, too, but no proof was ever posted.
- crowdfunded for a head shave.

There might be more but this is all I can think of rn! Her feed is boring now.

Both her and Liv seem to be losing followers as well.
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I always had the impression Milly and Rishi were not well off because there seemed to be a lot of fundraisers and then 2020 she started OFs, plans to go to uni? and he flips houses and works in a hospital. I don't know, seems like they have a lot on. It comes across as a lot to keep on top on from Instagram. Not that she posts much anymore. I think she covered a lot anyway and it's probably all in the book now. Don't want to retread old ground, like Liv.


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I also didn't agree when she posted a picture of her son with a board saying men get periods too because I'm not sure how you get a 4 year old to consent to that?
You can't start handing your activism over to your child.


www.google.com

Mum promotes inclusivity with picture of son holding 'Men Have Periods Too' sign

Milly Bhaskar, who lives in Hull, posted a picture of her four-year-old son Eli holding the sign. She said 'it's not insulting to women, it's opening up the community to make it a safe space.'
www.google.com www.google.com
 
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Vanilla Sorbet said:
Thanks for your insight.

I know we are going so off topic with chatting about Milly but she has just done so many sus things that they need to be discussed. A few things that some have already brought up here, that I'm gonna outline incase people can shed some light:
- she dropped out of uni (training to be a nurse iirc) due to her mental health. She crowdfunded for long term treatment for her mental health. Unsure how/what that did.
- she spoke about writing a book about her ED etc (similar to Bodyposipanda). She started a Patron for it. Instead she released, years later, a lackluster carbon copy of so many other adult activity books.
- (may be wrong about this) she claimed she was super duper poor guiz on many occasions despite having loads of pets and Rishi seeming pretty well off.
- she cheated on her man. This has already been covered but its really bleeping weird.
- she changes her diagnosis all the time and list of ailments everymore. I always thought she was a bit of a munchie. I believe she says she has bpd and has an ED (is recovered from anorexia but suffers with BED). But I've preciously seen her say she has depression/anxiety (often synonymous with these types of illnesses anyway), HPV, M.E/CFS (she was big on this one for a while but this seems to be mostly removed from her feed but mentions of "chronic pain" are still there), endo/pcos, bipolar disorder, hypothyroidism, psychosis, PTSD....
- started a t shirt line. Proceeds to charity i think? I think this was with the guy she ended up with when her and Rishi split but the venture might have started before this? The link now redirects on insta to someone else's shop (selfloveshopp). Separately, she also did a pin collection iirc. I think some money was meant to go to charity, too, but no proof was ever posted.
- crowdfunded for a head shave.

There might be more but this is all I can think of rn! Her feed is boring now.

Both her and Liv seem to be losing followers as well.
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I will think of more later, my child is tiring me out.

but I agree, she makes out they are poor but Rishi bought them a house to live in and now he says he is a landlord owning loads of houses alongside her student loan, only fans, book, any other money they get. Rishi works as a pharmacist so they’re in no way poor or needing money. If you buy or give them money you’re basically funding his next property which is disgusting. They’re both bragging about a new house they’re doing up
 
S1791 said:
No worries. I used to not mind Rishi but now I think he’s a prick too. He lies and exaggerated things too but not to the extent Milly did I must say. He’s one where all he’s bothered about is how he looks to other people and people being impressed by him.

I thought it was big of him to take her back after she slept with his best friend and plastered it all over Facebook and Instagram.

He’s supposed to be a pharmacist but now is apparently making onlyfans content with her
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I thought he was a lawyer?? But I may be wrong 😅
 
Vanilla Sorbet said:
Thanks for your insight.

I know we are going so off topic with chatting about Milly but she has just done so many sus things that they need to be discussed. A few things that some have already brought up here, that I'm gonna outline incase people can shed some light:
- she dropped out of uni (training to be a nurse iirc) due to her mental health. She crowdfunded for long term treatment for her mental health. Unsure how/what that did.
- she spoke about writing a book about her ED etc (similar to Bodyposipanda). She started a Patron for it. Instead she released, years later, a lackluster carbon copy of so many other adult activity books.
- (may be wrong about this) she claimed she was super duper poor guiz on many occasions despite having loads of pets and Rishi seeming pretty well off.
- she cheated on her man. This has already been covered but its really bleeping weird.
- she changes her diagnosis all the time and list of ailments everymore. I always thought she was a bit of a munchie. I believe she says she has bpd and has an ED (is recovered from anorexia but suffers with BED). But I've preciously seen her say she has depression/anxiety (often synonymous with these types of illnesses anyway), HPV, M.E/CFS (she was big on this one for a while but this seems to be mostly removed from her feed but mentions of "chronic pain" are still there), endo/pcos, bipolar disorder, hypothyroidism, psychosis, PTSD....
- started a t shirt line. Proceeds to charity i think? I think this was with the guy she ended up with when her and Rishi split but the venture might have started before this? The link now redirects on insta to someone else's shop (selfloveshopp). Separately, she also did a pin collection iirc. I think some money was meant to go to charity, too, but no proof was ever posted.
- crowdfunded for a head shave.

There might be more but this is all I can think of rn! Her feed is boring now.

Both her and Liv seem to be losing followers as well.
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I'd forgotten about the gofund me for mental health treatment and the head shave, she's just absolutely suss and I hate anyone using cancer as a tool for likes.
 
Milly, Liv and Kate (kateshappinessjourney) used to run around in the same circles. Bopo mental health accounts with young women showing the raw side of their illnesses.

In 2016/17 their style of watered down feminism and self love was really popular but now we've seen these same captions and tropes used time and time again. All three of them were working (Kate was a nurse, Liv in retail) or studying (Milly studying nursing) at the time they started their accounts and now all do Instagram full time.

They used to do bopo meetups in London together and pose in their undies on one anothers feeds. Milly was just kinda sketchy and sus and then she seemed to stop associating with the two of them.

Kate and Liv still seem to be friends although they don't collab as much.
 
Vanilla Sorbet said:
Milly, Liv and Kate (kateshappinessjourney) used to run around in the same circles. Bopo mental health accounts with young women showing the raw side of their illnesses.

In 2016/17 their style of watered down feminism and self love was really popular but now we've seen these same captions and tropes used time and time again. All three of them were working (Kate was a nurse, Liv in retail) or studying (Milly studying nursing) at the time they started their accounts and now all do Instagram full time.

They used to do bopo meetups in London together and pose in their undies on one anothers feeds. Milly was just kinda sketchy and sus and then she seemed to stop associating with the two of them.

Kate and Liv still seem to be friends although they don't collab as much.
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I thought I’d missed something as no clue who milly or rishi are, I’m just here for selfloveliv 😂 Thanks for the overview!

it really grinds me that James edits everything for Liv - it’s just making her more interdependent on him for everything. I think he’s funny and enjoy when he makes appearances in videos, but I feel she relies on him too much. She’s constantly looking to him in videos for what to say or do, just repeats anything funny he says, and he obvs edits all her stuff for her. I just want to see her branch out and work on her content and so things HERSELF, rather than relying on everyone around her to do it for her. I get that not everyone is creative or finds it easy to keep working at something when you feel it’s not getting anywhere, but if you want it to be your career I’d expect to see a bit more hard work go into it. It would make the boring content slightly more bareable (is that a word?!).
 
I cant remember who mentioned being wary of mental health awareness pages. Trust me, not all of us are like Liv and many of them. The only thing I want from my page is to raise awareness of BPD (not all of us are like the ‘typical’ BPD patient), help others and share my recovery story. I’m very much still in recovery, only just coming out of a very long hospital stay. I share what I have been up to, self care or distractions etc. I definitely don’t dance in my underwear or share sex stories 😳
Liv really does piss me off. Boring as hell and just feeding into the stigma too I believe.
 
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