Sarah’s Day #77 3rd pregnancy over and out, another child to use for clout

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peridoe said:
Today, for the first time in 8 weeks, Sarah finally said his age instead of how many weeks PP she is.

It shouldn't take you reading here to do this, Sarah.
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She also finally mentioned that he goes through 6 outfits a day and she’s always washung burp cloths. Never mind that she stories across the day with him in the same outfit (no spew marks) and i think I’ve only seen a burp cloth once or twice, and never draped over her shoulder or covered in spew.
 
screenfreelookatme said:
Why wouldn’t she go to an allergen free formula? She can afford it. Most babies that react to cow milk protein also react to goat because they’re so similar. It’s usually a blanket “no dairy of any kind” sort of deal if you’re eliminating. You’d only try goat once you were settled on baseline.
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She mentioned in one of the stories prior they tried a different formula. Not sure if it was a low allergen one. But again that emphasises a lack of consistency in feeding and trying something for long enough.
 
Watching her stories you can see that poor hungry baby burrowing into her shoulder in between her flinging him around and manhandling him. He obviously is starving and wants to feed and sshe is saying “whats wrong, tell me.”
ummm learn to read the clues. HE’S HUNGRY.

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cumcustard said:
Watching her stories you can see that poor hungry baby burrowing into her shoulder in between her flinging him around and manhandling him. He obviously is starving and wants to feed and sshe is saying “whats wrong, tell me.”
ummm learn to read the clues. HE’S HUNGRY.

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I've never had a baby and even I could tell he wanted to feed. How she is this clueless with her third baby is beyond me.

I just hope it's not a deliberate thing. We all saw how smug she was when F was born small after he stopped growing ("I'm meant to birth small babies" 🤢). She was then horrified M was bigger and did nothing but shame him for being "fat", chunky, a cow, and gave him the nickname Moo. She even called herself a milk maid because M was permanantly on the boob.

Restricting H's feeds so he doesn't get chonky fits with her fat phobia, but thinking she'd go this far is a hard thing to process.
 
cumcustard said:
Watching her stories you can see that poor hungry baby burrowing into her shoulder in between her flinging him around and manhandling him. He obviously is starving and wants to feed and sshe is saying “whats wrong, tell me.”
ummm learn to read the clues. HE’S HUNGRY.

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This!! I wanted to shout through my phone: Feed the poor baby!! He is telling you that he is hungry!!!
 
peridoe said:
I've never had a baby and even I could tell he wanted to feed. How she is this clueless with her third baby is beyond me.

I just hope it's not a deliberate thing. We all saw how smug she was when F was born small after he stopped growing ("I'm meant to birth small babies" 🤢). She was then horrified M was bigger and did nothing but shame him for being "fat", chunky, a cow, and gave him the nickname Moo. She even called herself a milk maid because M was permanantly on the boob.

Restricting H's feeds so he doesn't get chonky fits with her fat phobia, but thinking she'd go this far is a hard thing to process.
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I agree - I don’t have kids either but the photos posted on here and that screenshot above (I refuse to engage in her socials anymore) are very disturbing to see. He looks like a fresh new born to me. He looks starved. It’s very scary to see.
also, it seems like she tried like one formula feed only once and decided that didn’t work? My friend too at least three goes of different formulas over a month before they got the right one. I am really starting to feel disgusted by Sarah and how she’s behaving, this feels like it’s going beyond just a snark and it’s turning into possibly something we are witnessing that could really damage this poor child. I have never seen anyone, influencer or not, behave the way she is.
 
cumcustard said:
Watching her stories you can see that poor hungry baby burrowing into her shoulder in between her flinging him around and manhandling him. He obviously is starving and wants to feed and sshe is saying “whats wrong, tell me.”
ummm learn to read the clues. HE’S HUNGRY.

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I thought this as well - he is definitely rooting!! Bobbing his head like that with his mouth open is 100% a sign a baby wants food.
 
I left a truthful review of HOG (probably should have given it 1 ⭐️) as we were looking to hire their studio space for a last minute project ages ago. Someone has just reacted to it with a 🤯 emoji, unsure if anyone can respond to reviews or just the business owners but a pretty poor response if it is coming from S or K
 

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She also finally mentioned that he goes through 6 outfits a day and she’s always washung burp cloths. Never mind that she stories across the day with him in the same outfit (no spew marks) and i think I’ve only seen a burp cloth once or twice, and never draped over her shoulder or covered in spew.
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And she went all day without a shower in the same t shirt. Yesterday must have been a non vomiting day 🙄
 
Some babies vomit a lot. Im not sure why she’s stressing so much if he’s happy during the day? Yes she said he’s vomited but that’s not necessarily anything she needs to do anything about. My kids vomited for 12 months but there was nothing I could do about it. They just needed to develop. Sounds like she’s scared to feed him because she doesn’t want him to vomit but now he’s starving 😫
 
I haven’t had time to post here so I’m sorry if I am repeating everyone’s sentiments. But my god she is pissing me off so much. I’ve got four children, so I’ve had four babies (obvs) and I’ve never had to carry on with any of the tit she carry’s on about. She said on her stories ‘we had a bad night last he woke every couple of hours’ ummm… yes witch- nuuborns need to be fed every 2-3 hours or on demand. And when they cluster feed it’s an important part of increasing your milk supply you stupid witch. I know I was super lucky so I don’t want to upset anyone here who didn’t have a good experience with their infants. But I found it the easiest, loveliest time. I breastfed them all for at least a year. I never had to cut out huge food groups and I curled my toes in pain at the start when they were cluster feeding. You just get on with it and go with the flow. By the time I had my fourth baby, my oldest was in school so she just had to go with the flow for school drop and pick up plus I had two toddlers. You can’t have these crazy expections regarding how babies ‘behave’ they’re infants for duck sake. They’re going to wake all the time, they’re going to be spewy. My babies didn’t have reflux but I still constantly had a burp cloth on my shoulder, and I reckon they went through about six onesies is day- it’s normal. They vomit, have poo explosions, etc. It’s a messy and crazy time, but if you relax and enjoy it, it’s the best time of your life. It goes so quick and you never get it back. Wait until she gets grumpy teenagers! I’m actually so glad that I had my babies before social media because I wasn't constantly comparing myself to these influencers who have literally no idea about life. She has more help than anyone I’ve ever met and she still can’t cope. Also, as someone who was just hospitalised with a feeding tube for anorexia- her ED is raging and I guarantee it’s effecting her milk supply. Stop restricting your food intake you stupid witch and Feed your underweight baby and maybe he won’t be so unsettled. Every time I see the poor wee thing he’s bobbing around looking for food. How by her third baby does she not recognise a feeding cue?
 
I have one kid, he genuinely had severe reflux. It was awful for him. He would scream (I mean blood curdling, neighbours coming over to check on him scream) after every feed. He would genuinely vomit up all of his feed. He rejected my breasts and I couldn’t get my supply up from the stress so I was happy to give him formula just so he could have something. Only one formula settled him and it took two months to find it, then there was a global supply chain issue which meant it couldn’t be found in Australia, so I paid 5x the price and had it shipped.

I dealt with no support in lockdown and an absent (now ex) husband. My baby couldn’t rest. He was in so much pain, I held him 24/7 for 8 months. He was a massive baby, born on 95th percentile and dropped off the charts because of his weight loss from his reflux. It was such a hard start to his life and still now, as a 4.5 yo he will suffer from random attacks of reflux and spew everything he ate up.

I am so triggered seeing how tiny H is and seeing Sarah starve him. I was overfeeding my baby just so something would stay in and he could put on weight. The thought of intentionally causing that pain for a baby and not actually doing everything she can to give him a good start to his life makes me want to rip through my phone and give this kid love.
Sorry for the rant, it’s been boiling for a few weeks
 
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