Sarah's Day #76 Three kids, in over her head, neglectful by choice, all you hear is her own selfish voice

[cumcustard]

Planting the seeds to restrict MM3 diet months and months before he has even tried his first solid food. Looks like the kid wont be allowed dairy or garlic. Im sure the list will grow before his first food passes his lips.
Its the same bullshit as with the other two when they were babies. Instead of realising its normal baby behavior, her first instinct is to restrict food.
The bonus when its a baby is SHE is the one who gets an excuse to restrict and it not be called a diet or disordered because its for him.

 

[Asdkjf]

Love the slip that she said she stopped breastfeeding F at 10 months. Thought it was 11, Sarah. I mean, we all know it was closer to 6 but for some reason you had to lie about it.

She also let it slip that she stopped breastfeeding F because he was biting her. Up until now she always said she stopped feeding because he self weaned. Lol.

 

[Heyah__]

Is this not an extremely weird shot to have as the grid thumbnail for his video?

It’s like a weird pregnant subtle but not so subtle thirst trap?

 

[watchingyou101]

I find this photo strange to post..I wouldn't of thought anyone from the church would post rude hand gestures..

 

[Missmarpleknows]

She also let it slip that she stopped breastfeeding F because he was biting her. Up until now she always said she stopped feeding because he self weaned. Lol.

I have heard her mention the biting a few times before, she said when he grew teeth he kept biting her when she tried to breast feed him and he was also refusing the breast because he didn't want to be breast fed anymore. However I think breast, refusal and breast biting are usually just passing phases as I think they don't naturally ween off until 18-24 months. Earlier than this is called a nursing strike. If he's biting he might just need a cold teething ring before he feeds.
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I find this photo strange to post..I wouldn't of thought anyone from the church would post rude hand gestures..

I think it would be strange if they mentioned it was a rude gesture and was laughing about it in the post, but its clear the baby doesn't know what flipping the bird is so its not really offensive? It looks like she did a photo dump so maybe she didn't even intend to select this one or maybe liked how sleepy/doting/happy baby he looks in it?? (my babies are angels and I'm the perfect Mommy..)

 

[cumcustard]

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I find this photo strange to post..I wouldn't of thought anyone from the church would post rude hand gestures..

She doesnt care about that because the amount of time’s shes stuck her finger up at Kurt in stories, even with the ikids around shows that she is just a performative Christian when she thinks she needs to be. And Kurt does it too. They are just surface level christians.

 

[atlais]

Sorry to pop out of the woodwork like this - has she shared how her labour and birth went? Instrumental tragedy again or did she pretend to free birth into the ocean this time?

 

[shoppingismycardio]

Sorry to pop out of the woodwork like this - has she shared how her labour and birth went? Instrumental tragedy again or did she pretend to free birth into the ocean this time?

She’s acting like it was all sunshine and roses etc and “healing” etc but it can’t have been that free and easy as she did have an epidural again (no hate to anyone who has them but this is sez we are talking about)

 

[annieray]

She’s acting like it was all sunshine and roses etc and “healing” etc but it can’t have been that free and easy as she did have an epidural again (no hate to anyone who has them but this is sez we are talking about)

I think like much how Sarah ascribes personalities to her kids before they’re even born, she also decides how she’s going to present her birthing experiences before they’ve happened, based on how she wants them to go. But the narrative changes based on what’s in vogue. So M’s birth was positive (at the time), until it wasn’t. Then it was traumatic.
She so wanted this “last” L&D experience to be perfect (whatever that means), and it clearly wasn’t. She was never going to get that quick unmedicated birth because she does zero prep and has no stamina and minimal pain tolerance. No shame in that, but she just can’t accept in 3 births in.
So she’s more or less pretending. Probably also trying to compete with Beth, yet again, who by all counts seems to have had an objectively positive birth experience (quick, intervention free, healthy babe).
Give it 6-12 months and I’m sure we’ll be hearing how H’s birth was suddenly the most painful traumatic thing in the world and no one understands because Sarah is the only person to give birth ever.

 

[cumglaze]

Ahhh yes just a little bit of sleep (and the topical antibiotics) is all she needed to heal her rash. Cant wait for that riveting video that will likely never be posted where she ignores the fact she was on antibiotics and pretended it was healed naturally.

 

[peridoe]

The high she's on because she's gone to the gym is crazy. You just know that is the real reason she's been struggling. Her 3 week old baby had the audacity to get reflux and need her so she couldn't go workout. Plus she's found an excuse to restrict her diet further, all conveniently in time for her to release her postpartum workout guide

 

[Kalesmoothie]

The absolute confidence of the bullshit she spits is hilarious.

Reflux isn’t a “symptom” - Reflux is often a standalone diagnosis. Does it have possible causes, absolutely! But the overwhelming evidence of food transferring to breastmilk shows that there’s not really much that does. And after 2 days?? Nah. Medication for infants like Losec is very rarely given before 8-10 weeks of age. No doctor would give it to her now. Just another way to talk down on pharmaceuticals.

What she meant to say: “COLIC is a symptom of other things such as Reflux. And i’m so happy i can justify restricting my diet on the onus of being the most amazing mother ever who doesn’t use medication xxx”

 

[annieray]

The absolute confidence of the bullshit she spits is hilarious.

Reflux isn’t a “symptom” - Reflux is often a standalone diagnosis. Does it have possible causes, absolutely! But the overwhelming evidence of food transferring to breastmilk shows that there’s not really much that does. And after 2 days?? Nah. Medication for infants like Losec is very rarely given before 8-10 weeks of age. No doctor would give it to her now. Just another way to talk down on pharmaceuticals.

What she meant to say: “COLIC is a symptom of other things such as Reflux. And i’m so happy i can justify restricting my diet on the onus of being the most amazing mother ever who doesn’t use medication xxx”

Doesn’t use medication - whilst conveniently omitting that she’s simultaneously on a course of antibiotics for pure vanity reasons. The one time when she probably could have avoided them and just waited for her hormones to level out. But no. Ugly rash takes precedent over baby.

If anything, and ironically, antibiotics could be what’s effecting her milk, in either amount or taste, and contributing to baby’s reflux. I remember briefly going on antibiotics for a suspected ear infection when my babe was like 10 months old, and he absolutely hated my milk for the time I was on it.

Not saying antibiotics are bad - quite the contrary, when used appropriately they’re literal lifesavers. But yet again here is Sarah whining over something that could very well be easily fixed by her putting her self interest (and vanity) aside, but instead she chooses to take the route that gives her a thinly veiled excuse to restrict.

The ED is so obvious that it’s become both pathetic and tbh boring.

 

[android_x]

Sarah's Day #77 A baby with colic doesn't leave selfish Sez time to frolick, so she'll witch on stories instead

 

[cumcustard]

Sarahs Day #77 Pick me! I have a severe reflux baby, restricting foods like crazy, no workouts feeling lazy.

 

[Furggle]

I swear she's trying to get this poor baby to 'vomit for the gram'! 13 different positions in the space of a couple of stories!

 

[Amy5566]

I understand she’s deep in the post partum period but wholey moley those extensions look awful. They look like dreadlocks. I don’t understand why you would get a high maintenance hair style before having your 3rd child.

 

[ACLACL]

I swear she's trying to get this poor baby to 'vomit for the gram'! 13 different positions in the space of a couple of stories!

And not once holding him like she has any clue what she’s doing

 

[cumcustard]

And not once holding him like she has any clue what she’s doing

Yep and not holding him with motherly love or closeness. Wasnt even supporting the poor kids neck most of the time.

 

[MrsHaydos]

And not once holding him like she has any clue what she’s doing

My thoughts exactly. She is a mother of 3 and has nieces and nephews. You would actually never know it looking at how she handles a baby. It looks so unnatural