Sarah's Day #76 Three kids, in over her head, neglectful by choice, all you hear is her own selfish voice

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Oh Sarah, you head. When your boys are all teenagers they will begrudgingly do the yard tasks you give them, but only the minimum, the majority of the time will be spent eating you out of house and home, leaving a mega mess for you to clean up, in their rooms, out with friends, rolling their eyes at you and seeing psychologists for the trauma of being plastered all over the internet since birth. They won’t be making sure your yard is “elite”
 
mmmmunknown said:
Those stereotypical gender roles, I can’t.
I hope one of the boys strays from her idea of normal…
She lives such a siloed life. Anything that went in her family with her parents, she thinks is goals. But we all know her dad is… questionable.
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Yes! And I hope its M. Her favourite angel baby! MM3 is thankfully giving her a run for her (his) money. It must be sinking in who his mother is.
Also, as if SHE was doing the gender assigned housework when she was a teen. She was sulking in her room staring at herself in the mirror, picking her acne or taking selfies. Yet she is expecting to put her kids to work.
 
Very rarely comment but the latest stories made me roll my eyes so hard. I have an 18 month old boy & he plays with fairy wings & dress ups & “girly” things - because he’s a kid. Sure, he loves his cars, bins, footy but he also ADORES the vacuum, anything to do with cleaning & colouring/drawing. It’s amazing, when you give kids (either gender!) opportunity to play with a variety of toys they love it. She’s so ridiculous, she has NO IDEA what she’s in for when those boys are teenagers/young adults. She sees them as tools for HER, not as their own people as individuals. They’re going to resent her so much, sadly. I really feel for those kids.

Also, all this postpartum “content” is absolute CRAP. She’s so toxic & horrible & KNOWS what she’s doing flaunting herself in a bikini. It’s all genetics (plus, with her it’s also filters, angles, editing). Look at her mum, she’s naturally quite small so yeah, Sarah will probably “bounce back” better than others. And I say this as someone who has “bounced back” by NO WORK OF MY OWN. I’m just incredibly blessed with genetics. I just ate a bag of snickers pods too. Genetically, I’m super lucky. And so is Sarah, annoyingly. So anyone who is watching & feeling awful, please don’t. She’s a sad, hollow, shell of a woman that despises her life. Instead of enjoying this beautiful newborn bubble, she’s focusing on a rash on her face. Nothing in the world could’ve distracted me when I was in those first few weeks of newborn life, it’s incredibly challenging but so special & instead she’s carrying on like an absolute pelican.
 
wow the level of selfish you have to reach to ponder the work your young sons will do around your house when you’re older. My husband said to me once how my son will look after me when he’s older (because his father taught him to look after his mother when he would eventually be gone) and it had never even occurred to me. Also commenting on her husband (who has been caring for the older children) FINALLY getting to a task that tbh doesn’t really seem important for them with a newborn… can you imagine if roles were reversed and he made a comment about Sarah finally getting to something. He’d be as exhausted looking after the two boys, working and likely taking care of Sarah in many ways as well.

Lastly can she stop saying “with my first child” “all of my children except one” ETC as if she has an army. You’ve got 2.5 children. Coz one doesn’t really count towards your experience as a parent yet lol
 
I just watched her stories. Why does she roll her eyes when she says she loves her newborn? The faces she makes when talking about him are that of disgust and annoyance. I get wanting to vent about the challenges of newborn life but some things are better left in a group chat with friends that to millions.
She speaks about F in the same way, I really feel for her kids. Imagine if they ever found out how much their mum complained about them online to millions and how unhappy she always seemed when talking about them.
 
She casually mentioned her newborn is unhappy and "it could be cow-milk allergy , it could be tongue tie, we don't know".... But how did she decide it could be either of those, the symptoms are completely different. She really does love diagnosing her children herself with next to no knowledge or authority. It sounds like she hasn't yet decided what illness he has.
 
sylvia.solz said:
She casually mentioned her newborn is unhappy and "it could be cow-milk allergy , it could be tongue tie, we don't know".... But how did she decide it could be either of those, the symptoms are completely different. She really does love diagnosing her children herself with next to no knowledge or authority. It sounds like she hasn't yet decided what illness he has.
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Whatever she decides we can rest assured that Sarah will be sure to emphasise that it’s the baby’s problem, not Sarah’s. But of course all we’ll hear about is how difficult it’s making her life, forgetting all empathy for baby.
 
sylvia.solz said:
She casually mentioned her newborn is unhappy and "it could be cow-milk allergy , it could be tongue tie, we don't know".... But how did she decide it could be either of those, the symptoms are completely different. She really does love diagnosing her children herself with next to no knowledge or authority. It sounds like she hasn't yet decided what illness he has.
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She always has to diagnose her kids with something to assert that her newborns are extra difficult, and she’s got it harder than everyone else. Literally everything she does, is a competition, to have it harder than other people. At first it was F was the worlds hardest newborn, then her friends started having kids, so she had to assert that she had TWO kids and she was struggling the most.
 
recoveryqueen said:
Just remember everybody - she’s not whinging, bitter or ungrateful, she’s just keeping it real and raw! She doesn’t want to glamorise having children by making anybody think she might be remotely happy with her decision to have a third baby
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She’s also basically a single mother! Even though she has heaps of support from her mum/family, and has heaps of cash so daycare and Nannie’s are easily accessible to her and not financially stressful (which she does use), but she wants to remind all those single mothers, that they basically are on the same level.
 
How could he have an intolerance to cows milk when she doesn’t drink cows milk, unless he is having a sneaky bottle so Sez can work out.
She was back at the gym and giving Fox a bottle before he was six weeks old
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pippyforyou said:
She’s also basically a single mother! Even though she has heaps of support from her mum/family, and has heaps of cash so daycare and Nannie’s are easily accessible to her and not financially stressful (which she does use), but she wants to remind all those single mothers, that they basically are on the same level.
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bleeping hell 🙄 I had three kids under 3 with a husband that worked full time, we had no family and no daycare, but I enjoyed being a mum and put my babies needs first. Something she could never do and that is why she is struggling
 
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She genuinely seems annoyed with her newborn who has reflux who isn't just a chilled moo moo, lots of newborns have reflux my youngest was the worst out of all my kids she vomit for a year, she honestly didn't have wrong with her no tounge tie, no intolerances, she just grow out of it, she needs to take a chill pill and just let him be a baby he's doing all normal baby things.
 
I remember with F she had a lactation consultant who said the latch was completely wrong, but for her it was 'so right'. So she wouldn't take the advice despite numerous obvious pics of F only on the n**ple, and he had colic/pain/crying prob due to this poor latch but she wouldn't change it because she thought it was "so right" despite the expert telling her otherwise. I wouldn't be surprised if poor H was having similar issues.

Also everything is always, always about her, and what this, that or the other is doing to 'her'. The self-centredness know no bounds.
 
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