Sarah's Day #76 Three kids, in over her head, neglectful by choice, all you hear is her own selfish voice

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hehheh said:
Her figure is the only thing she has going for her ladies, keep that in mind when you are comparing yourself to her inevitable body checking.

Shes not a doting or selfless Mum,
Shes not a fun or loving wife,
Shes not a greatly supportive or giving sister
Shes not a loyal, fun, dependable or deeply connected friend,
She isnt caring for elderly family members or dealing with health issues
She isn't a kind or generous neighbour,
She isn't generous or an advocate for the minority community member,
She isn't a hard working, committed staff member or friendly work colleague,
She isn't a VS model, a fitness model or a competitor,
... shes literally JUST a thin underfed body,
Of course shes going to show that to her audience as soon as she possibly can because she has no integrity or care for her audience.
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Yes! This!
She knows she brings no value to the world, so focusses all of her energy on her outward appearance.
 
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The way she is holding her baby at the start of her new vlog was so unsettling to watch. She misses supporting his head properly while she talks to the camera.
She seems to lack affection and empathy around her children and people in general.
I get the vibe she is a rather detached mother and even indifferent to her children’s needs and feelings. The big family is all for show but not something she really thrives in. She is too egocentric. I don’t sense warmth or physical closeness to her kids. More irritation and impatience. I am not saying she is completely void of love and emotions and who knows what really goes on behind closed doors but I think a good indication is her neglectful behaviour towards social media and her kids.
 
Asdkjf said:
Just a reminder, she is ALL smoke and mirrors. She has bragged before about knowing how to hide her lumps and bumps with camera angles. In case anyone missed it, this was her with M and these photos were taken on the same day. The left was her photo, the right was a photo someone else took.
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This precisely. Here’s a reminder of her actual pp body this time around.

Sarah’s known to use filters, but does it so much that it’s only really noticeable on the rare occasion she doesn’t use them, or when she appears in content made by others. Then suddenly she’s a size larger, demonstrably less toned, skin becomes paler, textured and lined, and everything overall less bright/contrasted.

Another case in point, I actually liked the colour of bike shorts she was wearing in a vlog wayyy back, so went online (I hate to admit they were WFB) to find them, and they were clearly the same ones, but the shade looked very different.

So to those Mum’s seeing Sarah’s oh so Christian bikini prance and comparing themselves. Please know it’s not a case of you not looking like that because you’re not bouncing back or are doing something wrong. You can’t look like that because Sarah also can’t and does not look like that. It’s a fabrication, but also Sarah’s desperate and narcissistic attempt to solicit praise and incite comparison because she is in fact deeply insecure about how she looks, and needs to hear from others that she looks/is better than they are.

Her entire personality is wrapped up in the desire to have abs. She’s never lost that MO, despite pitiful attempts to argue otherwise. Not a spring/summer has gone by on her entire time on YT when she hasn’t made some ridiculous ab flexing shot (we all know the pose).

Further, Sarah has and still does overtly restrict herself. She admitted it a day ago when she outright said she’s going back to her ‘nourish bowl’ era (being on the ACV and almond milk ‘dressing’, vom) and avoiding eating sandwiches 🤦🏼‍♀️

She’s never changed. She’s just attempted to repackage and pivot her toxic obsession and messaging to appear to have left her ED behind, when it’s plain to anyone with a brain to see that it’s her best and dearest friend.

So please do see the smoke and mirrors (and filters, and posing, and presets, and wide angles lenses, and the manipulation talk) at play here. And know Sarah is doing the most in an attempt to make you feel bad about herself. It’s not effortless, it’s obsessive (on Sarah’s part) and it shows.

It’d be one thing if we saw longform content of Sarah showing with accuracy that she ate big meals, did no exercise, and truly bounced back. But we’re not seeing that, in fact, we’re seeing the opposite - we’re seeing straining and restriction and forced exercise - and even then she still hasn’t bounced back like she’d have you believe.
 

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She's obesesed with herself she has no decorum, when i was 2 week PP with my 3rd i was in giant pad and bleed for 3 months, and the nipple out and not care.. wtf is wrong with her 🤨

i hope harlow keeps up for awhile and she can't get to the gym karma for being such a smug witch.
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The way she is holding her baby at the start of her new vlog was so unsettling to watch. She misses supporting his head properly while she talks to the camera.
She seems to lack affection and empathy around her children and people in general.
I get the vibe she is a rather detached mother and even indifferent to her children’s needs and feelings. The big family is all for show but not something she really thrives in. She is too egocentric. I don’t sense warmth or physical closeness to her kids. More irritation and impatience. I am not saying she is completely void of love and emotions and who knows what really goes on behind closed doors but I think a good indication is her neglectful behaviour towards social media and her kids.
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To be honest she doesn't have maternal bone in her body she always looks so un natural when each of her kids are newborns, and her mum always stepping in she's got no idea how to manage 3 kids.. it's kind of un settling she choose to have a 3rd at this point. Sez reminds me of Bella Messina just one big happy family for the camera but doesn't like her kids at all and just rather put herself first.
 
Dougjudy said:
Just to reiterate for anyone who feels ways about their own, natural, NORMAL PP body after seeing that body check. This is what she did then. This is what she'll do now. You're good 👌💕
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It’s also interesting to remember that a few months after this, she did an ad/YouTube video which was produced by Bondi Sans, and she then posted a sit-down chat with Kurt, debriefing. She was upset because she didn’t like how the video made her look, and he made the comment “Well we know the camera ads 5kgs”.
It’s irresponsible, narcissistic and unkind to her followers to post such shameless bodychecking - but it’s smoke and mirrors. Because she posted this at 1wkPP, but months after Fox’s birth she openly shared how she was unhappy in her body and trying to adjust to her new body that had changed after giving birth.
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bw19 said:
It’s also interesting to remember that a few months after this, she did an ad/YouTube video which was produced by Bondi Sans, and she then posted a sit-down chat with Kurt, debriefing. She was upset because she didn’t like how the video made her look, and he made the comment “Well we know the camera ads 5kgs”.
It’s irresponsible, narcissistic and unkind to her followers to post such shameless bodychecking - but it’s smoke and mirrors. Because she posted this at 1wkPP, but months after Fox’s birth she openly shared how she was unhappy in her body and trying to adjust to her new body that had changed after giving birth.
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Also, not suggesting she has anything to be embarrassed about. All I’m saying is that her posts are altered and intentionally deceptive.. which is especially cruel when she knows that other post-partum mums will be watching, yet she chooses to post things that are literally not real. For reference:
 

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There’s a reason she’s spoken about her perioral dermatitis more than she’s spoken about her new son. Her appearance is her number one priority.

She SUFFERS for the body she has. She’s probably been going to bed hungry and trying to fit in sneaky workouts when nobody is around.

She would have felt euphoric when people reacted to her postpartum body in the past and was just looking for an excuse to show it off again. It’s all she’s got. The one thing she has complete control over. If she wasn’t such a complete dick I’d feel sorry for her.
 
I’d encourage anyone comparing their bodies to Sarah to check out breeelenehan on Instagram. She shows how she poses to make herself look thin/toned/not pregnant when she’s over 30 weeks pregnant. It’s pretty impressive. The video of Sarah for Bondi Sands is actually so refreshing. She just looks like a normal woman (obviously a very fit one but still). Such a difference in what she posts of herself. Has anyone here tried to pose themselves like that..it’s actually painful and uncomfortable and you can only imagine how long she obsessively takes these photos. It’s sad. How much better it is to be soaking up your precious newborn baby.
 
pepsi_max_love said:
I’d encourage anyone comparing their bodies to Sarah to check out breeelenehan on Instagram. She shows how she poses to make herself look thin/toned/not pregnant when she’s over 30 weeks pregnant. It’s pretty impressive. The video of Sarah for Bondi Sands is actually so refreshing. She just looks like a normal woman (obviously a very fit one but still). Such a difference in what she posts of herself. Has anyone here tried to pose themselves like that..it’s actually painful and uncomfortable and you can only imagine how long she obsessively takes these photos. It’s sad. How much better it is to be soaking up your precious newborn baby.
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I LOVE Bree!!! She's so honest and open and just such a lovely person ♥ worlds apart from Sarah!!
 
bw19 said:
I’m not sure what you’re referring to? When I said she doesn’t have anything to be embarrassed about, I was referring to the Bondi Sans photos. I wasn’t posting them to suggest anything about her body, other than it doesn’t match the things she posted herself.
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Wasn't that BS brand video from 5 years ago? Looks like a different girl tbh - healthy, glowing etc and 100% agree with your sentiment but this version of Sarah was a different one to the vapid person we now see on social media.

I was referencing this week she's already on the gram clearly showing off her "bikini bod" after what 3 weeks since she gave birth - doesn't look like smoke and mirrors, you wouldn't know she just had a baby - stomach has literally disappeared overnight, and she was shameless is making it obvious on her stories.
 
gmik8210 said:
Wasn't that BS brand video from 5 years ago? Looks like a different girl tbh - healthy, glowing etc and 100% agree with your sentiment but this version of Sarah was a different one to the vapid person we now see on social media.

I was referencing this week she's already on the gram clearly showing off her "bikini bod" after what 3 weeks since she gave birth - doesn't look like smoke and mirrors, you wouldn't know she just had a baby - stomach has literally disappeared overnight, and she was shameless is making it obvious on her stories.
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Mehh I disagree that she’s snapped back, her tummy definitely hasn’t disappeared. Theres a roll and distension there when she’s not reaching for the skies - and it’s totally normal!

It would actually be more impressive for her to show her real body and talk about her insecurities, rather than try to fake it. Or hey, even to say I’m 3 weeks pp and my body is recovering. What a radical concept that’d be.

But no. Sarah would rather feed into snap back culture, as unpopular as it’s become, because that’s where her priorities lie.

And it’s the entire point that Sarah heavily blends the lines of what appears real by her near constant use of posing techniques, filters (slimming, beauty and colour grading) and lenses, almost to the extent that it seems naturalised. Even her vlogs are shot in fish eye and have colour grading in. But if you’ve had any experience in these things, or have even watched her for awhile, they start to become more obvious. The biggest giveaway is, like we’ve all said, that when she appears in candid photos or even posed or professional photos or videos taken by others (a la Bondi Sands), she suddenly looks drastically different. Whether it’s pregnant or not, in other people’s content Sarah looks, like, not a little bit shorter or thicker, but like she’s a different person in terms of body, skin, hair, teeth, etc. Just like the photo Kurt just posted. If you cropped out the boys and asked me who that was, I would definitely not have guessed Sarah.

Ultimately it must surely make Sarah feel worse to know that she doesn’t look how she portrays herself to. It must be so much effort to try to manage a false image. If Sarah put the amount of work into self acceptance/awareness (or parenting) as she did editing, she’d probably actually be content in her totally normal body (but maybe only halfway to competent as a Mother)
 
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