Sarahs Day #52 Thriving off the fact that her two week old is hospitalised because it boosts her engagement

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Carlottaaaa said:
She wasn’t even grateful for the fact she actually got a bed in the end. And maybe they couldnt give her a bed because an actual patient needed it? She has no regard for anyone but herself. Also, hate to break it to you Sez, but Hospital isn’t meant to be the Hilton, so just deal with it you insufferable twit.
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I don't know but somehow I can see her screaming at the nurses that she wants a bed. just like she did in the bank, do you remember?
 
2xblended said:
Remind me because I barely followed the wedding. Were they Madi (who decorated her house for free as part of the collaboration with GlobeWest/ Studio Albus) and Tanika (who was her Personal Assistant but she told everyone they were besties)? Anyone else other than family?
Because those two are employees. Sophie is a friend, though.
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i just scrolled back through her profile, her wedding party included Madi (employee), Tanika (now ex-employee), her two sisters (family) and then another woman Alycee(?), but i can’t tell what their relationship is and as far as i’m aware, she hasn’t been mentioned since the wedding 🤷🏼‍♀️ i was genuinely surprised sophie wasn’t in the wedding party since sarah goes on an on about her, and she seems to be her only friend that isn’t an employee. i know sophie through mutuals and school and she is the loveliest person, honestly do not see what she sees in sarah 🤔
 
misused_airquotes said:
I’ve been a bit quieter lately because I am struggling. The stories this morning almost put me over the edge - I had to stop watching.

As a parent who has been at the hospital with my child for the last 8 months doing the best I can for him by myself because of restrictions in place to protect all the immunosuppressed kids in treatment, sleeping in chairs by his bedside or a small window bed if I’m lucky or curled up next to him in his bed when he asks me to, massively sleep deprived and have gone many nights without sleep or with very minimal, I’ve gone countless meals without food because some days you just don’t have a chance to eat and if you’re truly there for your child sometimes you don’t get a chance to go in search of food or drink because you have to wait until they’re asleep and by that time you’re so exhausted you just pass out too. You shower every second day because sometimes there’s just higher priorities. There’s no time for make up or skin care routines or sometimes even a change of clothes. You’re separated from your support network and family a large majority of the time because the risk is too high. You have to try and speak to doctors and nurses and answer their questions while your child is screaming in pain or vomiting non stop and you’re trying to make sure your child is okay and feels supported by you at the same time as you’re trying to navigate through the brain fog you have from lack of sleep to be able to advocate for your child. You spend your spare time trying to write down every question you can think to ask the doctors to make sure you’ve done everything you can for your child or you’re looking for information on clinical trials or doing online support groups or Telehealth appointments or you’re grieving for your child and the suffering they have to endure and the happy, healthy childhood they were robbed of and trying to think of every way you can possibly make their time in hospital have at least some moments of joy and happiness.

It literally made me cry angry tears at how insensitive she is to parents who have it far tougher than her and how much she just exudes self-absorbed entitlement and thinks the hospital and the staff owe her everything - a bed, wall paint to her liking, sunlight, conversation and connection to listen to her whinge and complain that she’s so hard done by. She’s been there 3 days. 3 days and all she’s done is show everyone how selfish she can be with barely any moments of love or concern for her child that don’t involve her level of discomfort or negativity about how she’s affected. She cries for herself … not her child, herself. And that says it all.
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I’m so sorry your son is sick and has spent such a long time in hospital. I can only imagine how hard it must be *hugs*

What you’ve shared is in such stark contrast to how Sarah is behaving, and is what I think most parents would do. You do whatever you have to do for your kids. Because that is what being a parent is about.
 
lolwhatisthisplace said:
i just scrolled back through her profile, her wedding party included Madi (employee), Tanika (now ex-employee), her two sisters (family) and then another woman Alycee(?), but i can’t tell what their relationship is and as far as i’m aware, she hasn’t been mentioned since the wedding 🤷🏼‍♀️ i was genuinely surprised sophie wasn’t in the wedding party since sarah goes on an on about her, and she seems to be her only friend that isn’t an employee. i know sophie through mutuals and school and she is the loveliest person, honestly do not see what she sees in sarah 🤔
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One of my friends actually plays in a soccer team with Alyce. Alyce has been friends with Sarah since they went to school together but like you say, they are never seen together at all. I don’t know much about the friendship but surely if they were close we would see more of these girls.
 
lolwhatisthisplace said:
i just scrolled back through her profile, her wedding party included Madi (employee), Tanika (now ex-employee), her two sisters (family) and then another woman Alycee(?), but i can’t tell what their relationship is and as far as i’m aware, she hasn’t been mentioned since the wedding 🤷🏼‍♀️ i was genuinely surprised sophie wasn’t in the wedding party since sarah goes on an on about her, and she seems to be her only friend that isn’t an employee. i know sophie through mutuals and school and she is the loveliest person, honestly do not see what she sees in sarah 🤔
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I know Sophie through mutuals, too! (y)
She's awesome, by all accounts. Really chill and lovely to everyone.
Sarah was super jealous of Sophie because of her dancing when they were younger, but they are actual friends afaik. My mutuals tell me that's just Sophie's nature. She's easy-going and doesn't cut people off, has loads of school friends she's still in touch with. I hear that she doesn't see Sarah that often, so they're not as close as Sarah wants to make out, but it's a pleasant, superficial friendship.
I hear Sophie is also kind of moving into the influencer sphere- to promote her dancing classes when she's back in Aus permanently (not sure if she has already moved back or is still in NY part of the year). But Sarah was really nice and gave her some tips on how to manage and grow her network.
That's all the intel I have on that. Everyone adores Sophie and says she's a good egg- and her hubby is, too, I hear.

Never heard of Alycee from my group of friends. No idea what that relationship is. Could be one of their cousins (Sarah or Kurt), perhaps?
Edit: that's been clarified above by @beigebeliever. Thank you!
 
as someone who has spent a decent amount of time in hospital with my failure to thrive newborn, i can understand her manic breakdown in her stories today, as i definitely spiralled at one point too. but i did it on facetime to my best friend just so someone could listen to me having a tantrum. when i got it out of my system i was back down on earth with my baby who was the patient. while i can sympathise i can’t for the life of me understand why she’s putting this on public stories for everyone to see????? it feels like i’m listening in on someone else’s conversation when i shouldn’t be. irrationally carrying on about the lack of sunlight in the room while her baby next to her has a virus that kills so many babies every year just seems so….. bizarre??!!?
 
lazydonut said:
The way she so casually said his oxygen plummeted after a half hour without the cannula makes me sick. She explained it twice like it was NBD…is she just numb at this point? I truly don’t understand, this has been horrific to watch.
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I can't bring myself to watch anymore. I'm so upset that my mind is totally spazzing. Did she really say that casually? duck me. Is she in denial about what that means? :(
Why is she posting this to her followers? Nobody needs this private info on her son! Stop exploiting him Sarah. Call your family and tell them! Stop sharing this on your public platform. It's harrowing!
 
lazydonut said:
The way she so casually said his oxygen plummeted after a half hour without the cannula makes me sick. She explained it twice like it was NBD…is she just numb at this point? I truly don’t understand, this has been horrific to watch.
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Is just numb at this point? No. I think she has always been indifferent to him. She didn't seem to take much care during pregnancy and post-birth, she was happy to take him out to various places even when he was unwell and refusing feeds.

Everyone bonds to their child differently, but I can't even put it down to that - She has been so negligent in different ways.
 
If someone wants to bring you your breastfeeding feeding tea? Like I dunno.... your husband that just visited you? You when you went home????

I don't care that she is drinking peppermint tea but her attitude is so annoying. I'm sure it's annoying to get unsolicited advice but don't be such a mean girl and don't act like no one could possibly bring you tea and act like you're sick and in hospital
 
So her baby has health issues, struggled after birth.. RSV can be very serious to babies with health issues and she’s sitting there COMPLAINING ABOUT NO SUN IN THE ROOM.. meanwhile little bub is back there looking very ill and she’s like ✌🏻 sUnShInEeee ✌🏻 and Sarah, you bleeping knob jockey, LOWER YOUR VOICE! your sick newborn is trying to bloody rest.

itsbeenaminute said:
This witch is so cold the poor baby spends 99% of his time in the crib. I have had a close family member in the NICU and all we wanted to do was hold and comfort bub.
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My daughter was born almost 3 years ago but when she was a newborn like straight after birth, she lived on me, most if not all of her naps were on me.. 3 years later, we still cosleep and she HAS to be touching me.. my heart breaks for Sarah’s baby, she just seems so unattached with him.. pick up your sick baby and cuddle him Sarah!!
 
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Complaining about the colour and no light in the room when she is not even medically admitted is a kick in the teeth to anyone who has to be admitted, no sympathy for them, whereas she can leave at any time!! She can get up and go out for a walk in between feeds, especially if as said above she is not encouraged to take him out to cuddle him. She has a choice and she is choosing to complain.

Also, about her posting on instagram to her 1.2m followers, its because she knows no other way! She has no support system and her reaching for her phone to story is second nature to her. Her phone is an extension of her existence at this point. This is the only way she knows how to respond because she does not have genuine friend groups, not as close to family as she makes out, and is not the Christian she claims to be or she would have a lot more healthier responses to the situation. She has so many hours in the day and limited people who can occupy them for her. Anyone else would be trying to find something useful to do while there, asking questions, learning more about his diagnosis but no. She is empty and therefore has nothing else to turn too other than her fake online self
 
I’ve felt sick these past two weeks when reading or watching anything related to her. My heart aches for that poor baby, and even though I know that this behaviour is nothing new I’m still so bewildered that her narcissistic personality is running rampant. I genuinely cannot comprehend how she can be so disconnected from reality and the severity of what she has done/is doing. I would hope that every one of her followers feel the same, but unfortunately curiosity is human nature and she is being fueled to continue her mania by every new like or sub. The constant demonisation of healthcare professionals was the straw that broke the camels’ back, and it frightens me that she can so easily rip on the people who tirelessly dedicate their expertise and skill in order to save her sons. I truly think she’s the first person to make me feel so deeply embarrassed and ashamed on her behalf. Get off of social media Sarah. Take the kids and run Kurt. It’s far past time to do so.
 
2xblended said:
Exactly! Thank you.
Besides, I was illustrating how she breaks up her income under her umbrella company.

Let's take a real figure that she herself provided to illustrate further.
She sold 30k of her first ebook alone. She showed that herself during the fundraiser. What was the price- does anyone remember? $70 or something. That's 2 million there. That's from the figure she showed 2 years ago, and does not include the next ebooks.

For this one ebook, there were no expenses.
It was her program, no PT to pay.
No models to demo the exercise, she was the model.
No studio because she filmed it at her sponsored gym (did anyone notice she had 1 gym back then, then another, then another, as each sponsorship ran out?)
No publishing cost because it's a pdf.
No photographer because Kurt did it for free.
No expenses to launch it because the venue, the food and the gift bags were all gifted collabs (go back to the video and check- all sponsored/gifted).
She had 1 expense: Hello hello studios who designed her website. How much profit did she make there?
Almost all the money went in her pocket. She could have retired from that alone.

But she went on to release another book, another collab, another whatever.

On top of that, she gets paid per instagram post + per insta story + per instagram reel + per youtube mention.
Per adsense. Per affiliate link. Per tik tok mention. Per view (old videos and new ones).
Per product collab. Per meet-and-greet. Per sale of crappy skin/clothing product.
On and on and on. All these revenue streams add up!

Another example: Any one instagram story will have around 3 product mentions on average for Scuzz (yes, I've done the math; it was my job at the time):
For example: Going to the gym in the #spon mazda, wearing #whitefox, drinking tropeaka preworkout. In one story, 3 products, 3 payments.

How many stories does she do a day? How many products in each? How many more in her youtube videos?

Some examples of what people can earn just on instagram.
https://www.12ft.io/https://www.dai...eveal-Australias-influencers-really-earn.html

Since that article is about celebrities, let's take another example.
KarenBritChick has only 300k followers (Scuzz has 1.5 million) and only 1 product launch (Amazon clothing) but she posted a video saying she's earning $1 million in 2021.

Keep in mind, Sarah is not just your average influencer. She is a youtuber and instagram influencer, with multiple product collabs.
With 4-5 times that number of followers, how much is she earning? It adds up really quickly.

Sorry to rant. This is big business. That's all I'm saying. People need to understand that it's not small amounts of money. Look at her multiple properties: she has done well for herself.

The issue is not what she has worked to earn. She did work and she did earn that. It's not easy being "on" for the camera all the time. It's not easy having threads about you on tattle.
But, she purposefully blurs the line and makes it seem like this is her personal platform, not her business platform. That's the issue. That's why her sissies are so invested. That's the moral corruption I get angry about. Because they believe this is the real Sarah. It's not. It's a brand. It has been a brand from the start. Go back and look.
I've ranted about this before: from her parent's bedroom. She was eating ShaSha snacks, drinking White Horse coffee, wearing The 5th watches, using Tropeka. She has been shilling products since 2013! She was never real. It was always a brand.

Sorry again for the length of the reply.
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@2xblended I've missed seeing your posts but I'm glad you are doing what's best for you! We've taken very different approaches to stepping away from this, but you cross my mind often.

Thank you for always coming with such well thought out and clear points when you are moved to comment.
 
Imbadatusernames said:
@2xblended I've missed seeing your posts but I'm glad you are doing what's best for you! We've taken very different approaches to stepping away from this, but you cross my mind often.

Thank you for always coming with such well thought out and clear points when you are moved to comment.
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Thank you! ❤ I hope your approach is working for you and you are well! I'm on tattle, I just avoid this thread because her constant misery brings everyone down. Her vibe rubs off on everyone, even those casually hate-watching.
How many people are commenting now that she brought out the worst in them and they have to evaluate their own choices. Yet, she never does that introspective audit on herself!

I regret my choice to return, tbh. It has triggered such severe panic attacks in me all day, since I started posting again. I hate what Sarah brings out in me. My head gets so fucked up by her attitude and choices. I can see in the way I'm posting that my anxiety bleeds out into my words. Too many years of her manipulation, constant negativity and gaslighting wears you out. She's the only influenza that does this to me, because I have watched her sweep every scandal under the rug without a second thought. It feels surreal.

I need to stay away but I'm still here, watching the horror unfold. Worried for her child who is not breathing on his own. :(
She must be in shock or something, not to understand how bad it is that he cannot breathe without the cannula. What are we witnessing here?

She_Who_Cant_Be_Named said:
Also, about her posting on instagram to her 1.2m followers, its because she knows no other way! She has no support system and her reaching for her phone to story is second nature to her. Her phone is an extension of her existence at this point. This is the only way she knows how to respond because she does not have genuine friend groups,
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I understand that and yet I wish someone would intervene and take the phone away. This is her son. She needs to process what is happening with her family, not with her audience. It's emotionally manipulative and unhealthy to get her followers this involved with a kid that is not theirs. It is unstable and unhelpful for her to use social media as her emotional crutch at this time.
It's wrong whichever way you look at it. And it's awfully sad!
 
ImmediatelyNo88 said:
Asking again. What happened to Tanika? Does anyone know? (Don’t know if that is how you spell her name?)
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We all would love to know what happened. She is no longer her personal assistant, nor her employee, nor her bestie. She left from Sarah's life too quietly. The only one who knows more is @2xblended and we have to respect she doesn't want to share that info.
 
Dzai said:
She said he's getting antibiotics through IV but OH NO HIS POOR GUT lol woman is an idiot
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She doesn't mean it's affecting his gut because she thinks the antibiotics are being given to him through his stomach. Its because antibiotics kill your commensal gut bacteria alongside the pathogenic bacteria. But he's a newborn baby so doesn't have a gut microbiome yet as that comes from age and breastmilk so his gut is FINE.
 
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