Sarahs Day #52 Thriving off the fact that her two week old is hospitalised because it boosts her engagement

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Lloret said:
The only one who knows more is @2xblended and we have to respect she doesn't want to share that info.
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Thank you for understanding. I am not Tanika, and I have no right to share her story. If she wants to share, she can join here and share. I will say that it is nothing scandalous.

It is also not important. Tanika was employed by Sarah and now is not. She has a new job. The reason people want to know what happened (I also was someone who wanted to know) was because we were led to believed that they are best friends when she was actually a staff member. It's that same blurred line between friend and employee, sissies and customers, personal insta and business page insta...
 
refresherpink said:
im a nurse and I won’t lie I think it’s utterly horrific practise that she wasn’t given a bed from the start. My patients are adults so we have less families staying overnight but when someone is EOL and wants their family overnight we will always make them up mattresses, I do think she’s justified in her complaint there. Like if you look at Chontel Duncan you will see she’s always wrapped up in blankets in bed looking after her babies while they were in hospital. I’d suspect that Sarah’s personality won’t be one the nurses like and she’ll rub them up the wrong way a bit, but they should still be looking out for her
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No offense but do you work at some influencer hospital by any chance? Every time I was in hospital overnight with my daughter, it was not even a thing to have a bed wheeled in for me. I slept on the chair every time. No amount of whining would have gotten me one, not that Im selfish enough to do that. Every parent slept on a chair. But they weren’t Sarah Stephenson though. There is no justification for demanding a bed when your not a patient and not sick.

pseudoscience said:
What the duck? “Your” room, highlight of “your” day, you’re sad there’s no sun, you’re sad that the (cheerful, child-friendly) wall is green.

I get that it is exhausting to be sitting with someone you love, around the clock, waiting for them to get better, but Jesus Christ. I’ve had a handful of relatives in the same situation of being on oxygen and hospitalised for extended stays, and not all of them recovered. It was awful to be helplessly watching them, while the only thing you can give them is the comfort of you physically being there. They are sick, they are suffering, they don’t know when or if they will be able to leave. Malachai’s life has almost entirely consisted of a hospital room and an oxygen connection. Yeah, hospitals are dreary for those of us visiting. Suck it up.

Your newborn baby is receiving full-time medical care and support, which he desperately needs as he can’t even be without oxygen for longer than half an hour. He has been given antibiotics to make sure that if he had an undiagnosed bacterial infection he wasn’t severely impacted by it while they waited for results. His being so sick is heartbreaking and terrifying. How is his health not your focus?

You are able to sleep (likely better than you would at home since Fox is still not independantly sleeping). You have a foldout chair. You are able to work from the hospital, and you have a partner and other family members who are providing care for your first child while you are there to support your tiny baby. I can’t believe you are sitting there complaining about not being able to sun yourself like a goddamn lizard. (PSA: none of us in NSW can anyway, it’s been raining for months.)

I know emotions are what they are, and it’s valid to be frustrated and depressed in this situation. But the focus is so much on you, Sarah, and it’s insane to watch. I’ve worked in a children’s cancer hospital, and some people go through this for years. I’ve come across a very small handful of parents who have behaved as self-centred as these videos have been.

(Sorry for the rant, tattle crew, but today’s videos really got to me.)
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Lets also not forget that its highly likely that it’s SARAHS doing that M is even there so sick from not caring for him and getting him help sooner. She deserves a bed of nails imo.
 
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“I’ve been venting to the nurses about being over this room….”

Sarah, the nurses are trying to save your sons life, they don’t have time/don’t want to listen to you vent about the lack of sunshine from the window and not liking the colour of the walls in your room while you refuse to acknowledge how lucky you are that you even have access to a private room with a private bed and that your son is receiving care from mutliple people on a healthcare team who are so swamped while continuing to deal with this pandemic.

I’m sure the nurses would love to hear you or see you show sympathy towards your ill newborn son, not the bleeping state of the hospital room.
 
I know nothing about babies, but I would freak out if my child couldn't be able to breathe by himself. Supposedly in children with suppressed immunity, the mortality rate is higher (about 60 percent). That's scary af. I'd like to know what exactly is in her head right know. She presented herself in such a bad light in the last years, that we find her capable of the worst. Maybe she regrets now not listening to that mean doctor who told her to "start over". Because this is not what she envisioned and it's an inconvenience to her busy bossbabe life. But then she realized she can actually benefit from the situation. And here we are, disgusted, hating her even more, feeling for that little baby, we're negatively affected by her content, but we can't stop watching. It's sad.
 
WhiteFox said:
@2xblended You are right with the 300k - It did originally say that. She must have realised the error (or realised it was obvious she lied) and changed the number to 30k
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Thank you! ❤
In the end, I requested the mods correct it to 30k (which they have kindly done) because I went with my last screenshot, which was 42k in the third quarter of 2021. So 30k back in 2017 was likely the correct figure.

Honestly, I distinctly remember 300k, too. But I also know she raised 360k in her donations from the fundraiser (so maybe I got those numbers mixed up?), and she has also sold 300k units of combined products which was on her media card a couple of years ago, so it could be that number I was thinking of originally.
Or as you say, it changed in her narrative somewhere along the way- she does love to change the story.

If nothing else, it is better to underestimate than overestimate. Using the Two Palms figure means we are fairly using her public disclosures. I don't want to undermine the whole point of the discussion by accidentally inflating the numbers or using information from outside sources that cannot be verified by others.

Thanks again though, because I was wondering how on earth I got it so wrong! I'm usually so careful. I'm glad I'm not the only one who remembers that number. :)
 
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refresherpink said:
im a nurse and I won’t lie I think it’s utterly horrific practise that she wasn’t given a bed from the start. My patients are adults so we have less families staying overnight but when someone is EOL and wants their family overnight we will always make them up mattresses, I do think she’s justified in her complaint there. Like if you look at Chontel Duncan you will see she’s always wrapped up in blankets in bed looking after her babies while they were in hospital. I’d suspect that Sarah’s personality won’t be one the nurses like and she’ll rub them up the wrong way a bit, but they should still be looking out for her
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End of life is very different. In paeds most beds will have either a lounge chair, pullout bed or foldaway mattress at the bedside in nsw. Iso beds which he was first in because they would have swabbed him and isolated him due to him being respiratory probably only had the couch because of covid and its easy to clean down compared to the pull down mattresses some kids wards get
She's on a patients bed, which means this ward probably only has couches. Even the kids hospital only has fold away futon couches from when it was first built. If she got a patients bed that would be because she kicked up a stink and when they had a discharge they gave it to her. ITs really difficult to nurse kids in bassinets when parents are in a full sized where the O2 and suction are. We get really limited space and cannot have this set up for every parent. We do our best but its a hospital. I once had to resus a baby and because there was a patient bed with the mum and our pull down mattress and all the stuff the parents bought with them I couldn't reach the emergency button and literally had to yell and scream for help.
Sorry about the rant but we get made to feel like we are absolute assholes sometimes for not accomodating families or having parents in beds together or not having comfy enough chairs when the lounges are really for our adolescent surgical kids.
 
Just catching up, but so wanted to send my heart out to those who have had babies in hospital, I hope things get better for you.

@2xblended thank you so much for sharing the behind the scenes. It helped put the last puzzle pieces in place of my theories of SD.
The main things that surprised me was Sarah’s friends not being very close to her and her sponsorship with gyms. I don’t know how I missed that, but everything else I had picked up on.

In times where I am struggling with my disordered eating I come back to that SarahDay is a business and she needs to be called out for her tit. I don’t know Sarah personally so I can’t comment on her treatment of others, but her toxic messages she posts made me join this tattle group.
Sorry if this doesn’t make any sense, I’ve been awake for hours and have been triggered by her hospital rant…
 
❤❤❤ Thank you @WTH @2xblended @kij1997 @usemycode and everybody for the encouragement and the love ❤❤❤

I don’t really know what else to say other than she has essentially devalued a traumatic experience for so many parents and children whose lives these are every single day for months … years even. NICU/PICU parents, cancer parents, complex surgical parents, chronic illness parents, auto-immune parents, terminal disease parents, disability parents, mental health parents and there’s probably many other parents who live this life that I haven’t even covered. And she’s just shat on them all with her peppermint tea and her bed for meeeeee. Yet there are still hundreds and hundreds of people buying into her poor me narrative.

Can people be that blind?! It’s right there, right in front of them staring them in the face - her language revolves around ‘me, mine, I, myself, I need, I want’, her body language and facial expressions revolve around body checking herself constantly or rolling her eyes disdainfully when something doesn’t go her way or smugly staring into a camera to promote an undisclosed product or show everyone a hospital skin care routine for crying out loud, her actions are detached, uncaring (unless it’s for herself), baiting, misleading, dishonest. There is another person in that room, but hardly anything she has done or said is about him or for him. How do these hundreds and hundreds of people not see that?! Are they not watching these same stories we are?!?

And this is if I’m only talking about parents of kids in hospitals. Let’s not forget the flood ravaged towns and people suffering from that natural disaster or who have lost their lives in Australia right now some of which are now copping it for a second time. And the millions of people suffering and fleeing for their lives or who have lost their lives in Ukraine.

I am aghast. I really am.

My heart breaks for the people she’s beaten down and trodden on with her insensitivity, privilege and sense of entitlement who might be feeling like tit from what they’ve watched the last few days. I hope at the very least that what I’ve written in my last couple of posts and what others have written have helped at least a few straying viewers of hers who might be questioning what they’re seeing right now see the light of her disordered and selfish behaviour compared to those who are really struggling.
 
2xblended said:
Thank you! ❤
In the end, I requested the mods correct it to 30k (which they have kindly done) because I went with my last screenshot, which was 42k in the third quarter of 2021. So 30k back in 2017 was likely the correct figure.
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I remember on the Two Palms media page they did have the number of 300k originally and then changed it. Pretty sure we’ve discussed this on here or back on GG and were outraged that they inflated this number. Two Palms was only a new company then I think.
Her following was already big in 2017 but in no way did she have over a quarter million stans buying her crappy ebook.
 
So hold on, why is she going on about "his poor gut, he is not even a month old?

Is she coming out with a body bloom NUUBORN edition or something?

It's probably already been mentioned here,but my mind goes straight to the time when she refused antibiotics for weeks when she had that staph infection on her leg. Then ended up in hospital on IV antibiotics and did a whole project comeback to heal her gut 🤦‍♀️

Unbelievable to see nothing has changed and she is inflicting her fucked up mentality onto her children.

Sarah, if they did not start your 3 week old on profolatic antibiotics when he arrived to the hospital,and it transpired that he had a severe bacterial infection, he could have died.

Can you imagine being a fly on a wall in that hospital.

Paediatrician: "We are going to start him on antibiotics, to treat a suspected bacterial infection due to his deteriorating conditon"
Sarah: "wHat aBoUt HiS LitTle gUt?!"
Paediatrician: "I'm sorry, what?"
 
emememily said:
So hold on, why is she going on about "his poor gut, he is not even a month old?

Is she coming out with a body bloom NUUBORN edition or something?

It's probably already been mentioned here,but my mind goes straight to the time when she refused antibiotics for weeks when she had that staph infection on her leg. Then ended up in hospital on IV antibiotics and did a whole project comeback to heal her gut 🤦‍♀️

Unbelievable to see nothing has changed and she is inflicting her fucked up mentality onto her children.

Sarah, if they did not start your 3 week old on profolatic antibiotics when he arrived to the hospital,and it transpired that he had a severe bacterial infection, he could have died.

Can you imagine being a fly on a wall in that hospital.

Paediatrician: "We are going to start him on antibiotics, to treat a suspected bacterial infection due to his deteriorating conditon"
Sarah: "wHat aBoUt HiS LitTle gUt?!"
Paediatrician: "I'm sorry, what?"
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Don't forget she already did this to Fox when he got a uti two years ago. IIRC they were on holiday when it flared up. She took him to a doctor but refused antibiotics in favour of trying to cure it holistically but it wouldn't go away. Poor Fox suffered for about two weeks of her trying different supplements in his milk. In the end she got the antibiotics but went on a rant about his poor gut. They are both despicable.
 
peridoe said:
Don't forget she already did this to Fox when he got a uti two years ago. IIRC they were on holiday when it flared up. She took him to a doctor but refused antibiotics in favour of trying to cure it holistically but it wouldn't go away. Poor Fox suffered for about two weeks of her trying different supplements in his milk. In the end she got the antibiotics but went on a rant about his poor gut. They are both despicable.
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Oh wow, I do remember that now! I must have repressed that in my brain as it is just so messed up 🤯

Thanks for the reminder! I feel so sorry for those kids, their mother is seriously deranged.
 
Dzai said:
She said he's getting antibiotics through IV but OH NO HIS POOR GUT lol woman is an idiot
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Not defending DJsezbot here but antibiotics kill bacteria whether they are administered IV or orally, including gut bacteria. At the end of the day his gut health should be the very LEAST of her concerns, but that doesn’t really fit with the holistic princess aesthetic she’s been milking since the beginning of time.
 
Let’s not forget when she put off giving Fox something to help his reflux but also refused to stop drinking coffee. She eventually tried to give him Mylanta but said she cried because it smelt so chemically and then she didn’t try it again and said that her and Kurt would just put up with the screaming. No thought as to the fact that he was crying and screaming because he was in pain, only that they were having to deal with it. She’s literally a joke.
 
Kind of off topic but I have previously seen other influencers name drop Sarah - whether that be out of genuine admiration or just trying to get noticed more. One that I had been following talked about enjoying the Health Code Daily (lolllll what) so I DMed them with a link to the wiki and this was their response. Tbh despite my muted messaging if they keep name dropping Scuzz I will unfollow but figured this could kind of be a template to call out that name dropping behaviour/ inadvertently ask if they want to be associated with that. Also I lolled at them saying other people have said the same thing so either a lot of tattle people are watching this influencer or a lot more people are clued in than just on tattle!
 

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peridoe said:
Don't forget she already did this to Fox when he got a uti two years ago. IIRC they were on holiday when it flared up. She took him to a doctor but refused antibiotics in favour of trying to cure it holistically but it wouldn't go away. Poor Fox suffered for about two weeks of her trying different supplements in his milk. In the end she got the antibiotics but went on a rant about his poor gut. They are both despicable.
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I can't beleive she refused antiobiotics for a UTI.. that tit in PAINFUL and nearly impossible to get rid of without antibiotics. I remember when I was young I got a UTI and I was too scared to tell my parents cause I had no idea what was happening and just suffered through it for weeks, it was literal hell.

Now, I'm getting an e-script from my Dr the SECOND I feel like one might be coming on.

To make a kid suffer through that is bleeping awful.

I'd take a possible gassy, upset stomach from antibiotics over a UTI every, single, time.
 
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