Sarah This Mama Life #34 Greetin Faced Ungrateful Cowbag

That bloody poem she’s just posted is the finish for me. Perhaps it resonates with other forces families but keep it for them and don’t share this pity post in the wider world. In the wider world where people are coping with bereavements. Sarah, your children still have a dad, can still be excited about seeing him and about future plans with him. Christmas will still be fun and exciting for them. For so many families this time is about endurance only. Be happy on your grid by all means but don’t be a victim for once. It’s so so so insensitive.

Try to be grateful that Pugwash’s boots aren’t by the door because they’re on his bloody feet because he is alive and kicking!
Try to imagine if they were sitting by the door because he’ll never be there to wear them again.

Her self absorption and self pity are truly next level.
 
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He’s been gone since October hasn’t he?

So how is she only just managing to get a “deployment wall” up? If that is the sort of thing that genuinely helps then why has she waited two months to do it?!?

She needs to get off her phone, pay attention and get her priorities straight, or else she is going to mess those kids up irreversibly

I can see it now, the kids asking for help, saying they miss their dad and she will be all “oh read a book from the deployment wall” so that they don’t bother her making reels on the gram
 
That bloody poem she’s just posted is the finish for me. Perhaps it resonates with other forces families but keep it for them and don’t share this pity post in the wider world. In the wider world where people are coping with bereavements. Sarah, your children still have a dad, can still be excited about seeing him and about future plans with him. Christmas will still be fun and exciting for them. For so many families this time is about endurance only. Be happy on your grid by all means but don’t be a victim for once. It’s so so so insensitive.

Try to be grateful that Pugwash’s boots aren’t by the door because they’re on his bloody feet because he is alive and kicking!
Try to imagine if they were sitting by the door because he’ll never be there to wear them again.

Her self absorption and self pity are truly next level.

Same for me. Her antics disgust me. She’s a performative martyr, making heavy weather out of every normal thing experienced by every family with young kids, but somehow she doesn’t make it fun or like a shared experience, she makes it clear that she believes she has it harder than everyone else.

She’s in a high income household, with money to shop and go on holidays and give her kids every experience and gift they could dream of. They are all healthy and well. You’d never believe any of this from the woe is me nonsense she throws out there.

Sickened by her attitude recently. The false equivalence of working away, with grief and loss is just too far.
 
I thought she posted the grief post about Robs Mum or did I read it wrong? Mind you, she's not that bothered about it as she never sees his Dad.
 
I thought she posted the grief post about Robs Mum or did I read it wrong? Mind you, she's not that bothered about it as she never sees his Dad.
This one? She posted this without even a smidgeon of irony. She’s awful
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I thought she posted the grief post about Robs Mum or did I read it wrong? Mind you, she's not that bothered about it as she never sees his Dad.

Oh yes, I think that was about his mum, so she could hop on the grief train, despite her never bothering with her in laws.

Her recent antics have all been about coping alone, boots not by the door, loved one not here etc etc, suggesting Rob not being there is like a loss.
 
When I saw that post last night I really had to stop myself from messaging her asking if she was for real. But she’d love an excuse to get on her pity pot and say she’s being trolled.

I’m beginning to think she genuinely believes her husband being at sea is akin to what recently bereaved people are going through. Selfish, strange woman
 
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