Rebeccaloves__ #55 Workin' nine to skive, she's all taking and no giving

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That video of her discussing the colour monster book... she sounds like she's the child's teenage babysitter not his fully grown mother. She'd blatantly coached him to say 'loved' as he self-corrected...
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The way she writes about his conversations are clearly a big lie, he can't even pronounce 'scared' which is fine, the issue is his mother writing made up dialogues for him and making other mothers feel bad in the process. Intentionally I'd guess.
Final thought, ever since she's had her new and, definitely not improved, 'teef' her lips really seem to protrude. It's really obvious on that video!
 
I find it shocking that she wears her pre schooler and pushes her yr1 child. Mind boggling. I was trying to cast my mind back to when my kids were small, there was time that I had to wear my youngest and push my eldest in the buggy as he had a fever and I was taking them to the doctor. I didn't have a double buggy. He was too poorly to walk the 10 - 15 mins to the surgery (the same distance the Sterlings have from home to school). The difference, my eldest was 3 (probably nearly 4), my youngest very close to 1...and I remember thinking wow, they're too old and big for this.

I don't brag, my children are very middling, and I would say this was very ordinary for most families without additional needs.
 
Bhall said:
She'd blatantly coached him to say 'loved' as he self-corrected...
'hap-'
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Oh my gosh, I hadn’t watched with sound the first time, how did I miss this?!
He literally goes to say “happy” stops mid word and changes to loved and she’s says (in the most over the top, cringey voice ever) “LOVED? Ohhhhhhhh Raffy” and then fake laughs “oh ha ha ha ha ha ha” 🙈 So blatantly staged it’s embarrassing.
 
That video made me so incredibly sad. To control your child’s feelings like that and whatever they are to share it with the internet. Such an invasion of his privacy and a very private moment between a mother and her little one, that is for her ears only. Imagine having a camera in your face like that all the time so mama can add to her thousands of videos and prove to the internet her children love her !! What is behind that do you think ?
 
How would he know the word loved? That’s quite a complex emotion for a 3 year old. Not in the sense of feeling it obviously, but articulating what love is and what it means to feel loved. Happy, sad, shy, angry etc are much more basic feelings. Where has he got loved from, that’s not in the colour monster book they’re talking about, so she’s clearly coached him to say it 🙄
 
Gossipqueen30 said:
How would he know the word loved? That’s quite a complex emotion for a 3 year old. Not in the sense of feeling it obviously, but articulating what love is and what it means to feel loved. Happy, sad, shy, angry etc are much more basic feelings. Where has he got loved from, that’s not in the colour monster book they’re talking about, so she’s clearly coached him to say it 🙄
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It is, its the last page which is the pink monster.
 
Even in the unlikely event that this wasn’t coached, why can’t she just have a lovely, private conversation with her child and keep it to herself?! Be in the moment. He doesnt need a phone in his face at all times. She goes on about how she’s concerned about screens and children - she is the problem.
As for having a 3 1/2 year old in a front facing baby carrier - deranged.
 
I wonder when the kids will start rejecting the constant picture taking and filming. I only take pictures now and then for our photo albums and to WhatsApp to grandparents. You can see how kids act differently when the camera is out and sometimes they will say they’d rather not have their picture taken or sent to anyone. When that happens I always think of influencer kids and how sad their life is.
 
spenda penny said:
That video made me so incredibly sad. To control your child’s feelings like that and whatever they are to share it with the internet. Such an invasion of his privacy and a very private moment between a mother and her little one, that is for her ears only. Imagine having a camera in your face like that all the time so mama can add to her thousands of videos and prove to the internet her children love her !! What is behind that do you think ?
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She is DERANGED! And a dick
 
I also skipped the video originally because it made me dizzy (looks like a Halloween video of sorts). The child says 3 or 4 words, I wouldn’t know what he said if she hadn’t repeated it, and don’t get me started on the last part where he corrects himself. Either it’s all rehearsed or he knows what will get him praise (and he’s probably conditioned that way to perform for the camera).
 
That video of her carrying Raffy - she looks even more unattractive than her photos, if that's possible. Her mouth is really weird!

It might not be the best example of how he talks, but his speech doesn't seem at the stage you'd expect for a typical 3 year old. He's definitely not saying the sentences she's claiming he spontaneously says anyway.
 
Justcyrious said:
I wonder when the kids will start rejecting the constant picture taking and filming. I only take pictures now and then for our photo albums and to WhatsApp to grandparents. You can see how kids act differently when the camera is out and sometimes they will say they’d rather not have their picture taken or sent to anyone. When that happens I always think of influencer kids and how sad their life is.
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Same. I take more pictures of the dog and sunsets these days. I took thousands in her first few years, but once she started doing a fake 'on camera' smile I cut down massively. My child is not a performing seal.
 
I get an eye roll and the “gosh mum you’re so annoying” sigh from my youngest who is 8 if I try to take a pic these days. And I never went overboard before that, no phone on a cord around my neck and certainly not half a million pics in my camera roll…
Can’t wait for her to be in that phase. How is she going to cope? She’s not going to be ok.
 
Skewbedu said:
The coat looks all wrong on her. It's ballgown length. It will get filthy in no time and is so cheap looking and shapeless.

Not helped by the beige Dr Whoesque pointless scarf
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It's also wrinkled to hell. If she's too lazy to iron, hang it in the shower room, ffs.

She must look a right mess in person with the eating disorder cheeks, the donkey teeth, the scraggly hair and the non-stop leopard prints.
 
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