This is a tricky one. Firstly to lose a baby is heartbreaking. I can relate and have suffered ectopic loss (twice). But because of that her post didn't sit right with me. The headline of baby loss and health anxiety - is baby loss not enough? Also the phrase 'one thing after another' - again the first two (infections) surely pale into insignificance for the purposes of online sharing anyway with losing a baby.
Why the need to include 'which could cause cancer' - I cannot imagine ANY doctor saying that and it screams of her catastrophising everything and trying to get maximum sympathy. To throw in cancer for that reason is horrendously crass and offensive. Interestingly she amended chemo drugs to ectopic drugs. Thats a BIG thing to get wrong which makes me wonder of the exact truth of everything else in the post.
Also if doctors suspect ectopic pregnancy, they move like lightning. She was warned it could be life threatening (which ectopic pregnancies can be) but again doctors were baffled. Why? So was it ectopic or not? A scan would have instantly revealed that and the doctors would then have taken action. Was this a truly unique case that stumped all medical professionals in the hospital and they simply sent her home. In which case its medical neglect (which I do not believe for one second was the case).
Odd as well she didn't use the word miscarriage but did use the word ectopic. It feels like she has thrown the whole kitchen sink into the mix and has been deliberately vague. And she didn't see friends when ill with infections but felt she had to go out and see people having just lost a baby (when she has a husband around 24/7 and hands on grandparents on both sides). None of it makes ANY sense.
This 10000%. In my previous post I said about things not quite ringing true, I didn't mean I thought she'd lied about a miscarriage because quite frankly who does that? But just the general vagueness of it all.
I don't think she had an ectopic pregnancy, maybe just some general symptoms of it which she then googled like crazy and Dr Benpecked probably diagnosed her with it. Then she had a miscarriage which I am very sorry for.
She's said 'drs were a bit baffled' quite a few times both in that post but also in the past- I think she uses that term whenever the Dr diagnoses or suggests something that contradicts what her/Ben/her frantic googling says. And I just know she probably gets her 'facts' from those crunchy alt health websites that preach about 'big pharma' and fluoride in toothpaste being toxic
Also if I were to hazard a guess about her unsatisfactory bloods, I'd say they probably show evidence of multiple deficiencies, characteristic of an eating disorder. But she'll refuse to believe that so once again the Drs will be 'a bit baffled'.