Rebeccaloves_ #47 Grabby goes on holiday, packs the whole house, even takes the car mouse!

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I’m SURE she’s posted very recently about being done with 2 children so she was so glad to get one of each etc.. just very bad timing that this was round the corner or has she said all that while this is going on?
God she’s even odder than usual, totally agree that her now missing periods ‘due to fasting’ is clearly not the real reason- didn’t she write before about her periods stopping when she had her ED? Why is no one jumping in at this point
 
My periods stopped in my early 20s when I was in the depths of a horrific eating disorder - not when you just do the 16:9 fasting thing! She must be seriously unwell and not eating anything to not be having periods and feeling that’s ok… I’m sorry about the miscarriage, but her exaggeration of hpylori (I’ve had it, it’s grim but easily treated and cancer was never mentioned by a medical professional?!?) and the other viruses reads bizarrely. What’s even more baffling is the rushing around she’s been doing while being supposedly unwell alongside miscarrying. Have a bleeping day off!!! I just read here that she doubles her anti bloat tablets or whatever they are if she doesn’t get her steps in??? That screams disordered. I presume they work in a laxative fashion then- if she’s abusing them while taking antibiotics too, any contraceptive pill may not work. But knowing her she’s doing natural cycles
 
Mitzymooface said:
If her periods have stopped how can she get pregnant? Or am I missing something here…
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It was the first missed period but her first guess was it was from fasting not that she could be pregnant.
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Chattymamabear said:
My periods stopped in my early 20s when I was in the depths of a horrific eating disorder - not when you just do the 16:9 fasting thing! She must be seriously unwell and not eating anything to not be having periods and feeling that’s ok… I’m sorry about the miscarriage, but her exaggeration of hpylori (I’ve had it, it’s grim but easily treated and cancer was never mentioned by a medical professional?!?) and the other viruses reads bizarrely. What’s even more baffling is the rushing around she’s been doing while being supposedly unwell alongside miscarrying. Have a bleeping day off!!! I just read here that she doubles her anti bloat tablets or whatever they are if she doesn’t get her steps in??? That screams disordered. I presume they work in a laxative fashion then- if she’s abusing them while taking antibiotics too, any contraceptive pill may not work. But knowing her she’s doing natural cycles
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Sorry to hear about what you went through.

I agree though - the whole stream of stories and posts was bizarre. "Here's the kids at a party toasting marshmallows", "here's some colouring pencils ", "here's an echinacea ", "I thought I had cancer and an eptopic pregnancy and nearly died also I've been eating so little my periods stopped and the doctor said I'm very busy".
 
Not sticking up for her, but perhaps when she says “fasting” she means not eating much due to being so poorly? Rather than actively choosing not to eat? With all the slop she cooks I can’t see her starving herself? 🤷🏼‍♀️
 
The rushing around bit I can’t get my head around. I mean I did still go to work through one of my miscarriages, it was miserable and I just wanted to curl up in bed, but then I didn’t really have a choice. I most certainly wouldn’t be going camping or trekking round playgrounds. Each to their own but I do think ow more than ever is time she steps away from the gram and focuses on her health. Properly, not chia and laxatives, but actual medical intervention.
 
Surely when they got to the diagnosis of the first infection she would have had to provide samples so a test for pregnancy would have been done? If that’s the case did she fall pregnant before or after that ? On July 20th she was posting on her grid about a week of never having been so ill, by July 30th she was recapping being in the Shart Van in Norfolk after her antibiotics kicked in just in time. August 7th finally feeling so much better and the sun has come back out. Sometime between the 8th-12th a busy day trip out to Blenheim Palace which was scheduled for the previous weekend but rained off. 13th August reveals the details of her month of mystery illness rounded off with announcement that she was pregnant but now isn’t and had symptoms of an ectopic pregnancy.

So much of the last month already didn’t make sense given how sick she said she was but throw in the baby stuff and it is even more bizarre.
 
😳😳😳 What in the duck!!!

This has fried my brain and it's only Monday. After clicking on her reels and trying not to spew at those courgette muffins she posted about. She treated us, as per usual, with just how busy the non-working Sterlings have been. The birthday party in the woods looked fantastic, loved there was normal food and that birthday cake looked soo magical for a simple unpretentious design... and you can be certain, grabby had party bag envy 🤣🤣🤣 It surprised me that the Sterlings actually attend car boot sales, thought that would be beneath them.

Thankfully, grabby also wanted to remind us what her fake tanned tippex toes feet looked like #blessed 🙏 Of course she had to throw in a little AD in for good measure too, with the tiny tiniest writing ever. What's the betting Indiana Ratlas escapes from the corridor of doom cot on a regular basis 😁

Anyway, this is where I got confuddled. The 'very much hoping for a better 2nd half of the holidays' 😵‍💫followed by 'some reality' {what, finally getting a proper bonified job?!?} Trigger warning to not read if you need to protect yourself' <-- eh!?! now I'm really confused!!! Cappuccino Dahlias in the kitchen captioned with... 'Its always hard to know how much to share...' Erm hang on, have I just read that right? Grabby, you've shared soo much that we know more about you than some of our own relatives 😳

... Teeny Blip?!?!?
... Grateful?!?!? not a word I'd associate with Grabby

Then posting a screenshot of her NHS app she's downloaded and more vague witterings, finally thanking people for all their messages. I'm still utterly confused as to what the duck she's going on about, then I clicked her actual Instagram posting...

Trigger warning, baby loss and health anxiety. Oh bejesus. Read through what she put and I am literally rolling my bleeping eyes. So, she had an infection that could possibly maybe might cause cancer but obviously the percentage would be quite low and she did the thing of googling stuff and thought she was dying. Then she blamed her no periods/forgetting she hadn't had a period on the antibollox and/or fasting, forgetting that they had their yearly bunk up and Benpeeado had planted a seed in her tummy 🤦🏻 More long winded waffle about ectopic symptoms, doctors being baffled blah blah blah. I'm pretty sure the doctors weren't baffled, they would've been 100% on it if an ectopic pregnancy was likely. Maybe Dr Benpeeado was giving his 2 pennies worth of what the actual doctors should be doing.

Grabby also seems to forget that many women have miscarriages but of course hers was 10x worse/medical mystery. My 2nd {unplanned} pregnancy ended in miscarriage about a week before I was due the first scan. I even had the indignity of the midwife coming round to do a prenatal and the awkwardness of my husband telling her that I'd miscarried.

Anyway, I would hope that this 'first half of the holidays' and what's happened would've given her some humility but I doubt she even knows the meaning of the word.
 
Paxobeans said:
I assume she means methotrexate which has MANY uses, including for loads of autoimmune conditions and can also be used to induce an abortion if miscarriage hasn’t started naturally... I suspect she’s come out of a dr appt and googled everything they’ve said 😑
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I don’t think Grabby having access to her medical records/results via the NHS app is the best thing tbh. Also Dr Ben knows best 🙄
 
Paxobeans said:
I assume she means methotrexate which has MANY uses, including for loads of autoimmune conditions and can also be used to induce an abortion if miscarriage hasn’t started naturally... I suspect she’s come out of a dr appt and googled everything they’ve said 😑
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I don’t even think the doctor has mentioned it she’s just googled treatment for ectopic pregnancy
 
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