Niomi Smart #86 The woman is having a never ending existential crisis

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Constant introspection has been on my mind a lot lately. Sometimes not looking inward and getting on with things is a good move for your mental health. You can sit there analysing your thoughts and feelings and so on, until you almost go crazy. Jamie suggesting to IGNORE everyone around you to listen to your own voice isn’t good advice by any means.
 
CallItAsItIs said:
Was she actually stupid enough to buy a home with him? What fuckery is this?
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Lmao 🤣 If that’s true, then Niomi is really dumb.

Buying property with a man she’s not married to is dumb enough. But in a foreign country? Where neither of them have work visas/citizenship? Such a bad decision.

It also means she learned absolutely nothing from her negative experience of rushing her purchase of The Shed in London.

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I would usually favour rising above the relationship mess once the break up happens but Jamie is such a nasty piece of work that if they are actually done, I hope Niomi drags his name through a heap of tit and ruins his reputation. He doesn't deserve an audience/more victims.
 
What the f is he on about? Dear god my head hurts just trying to decipher that drivel. He would get more spiritual enlightenment working in a real job and dealing with everyday real occurrences. Hiding in a Bali retreat isn’t spiritually advancing in life it’s avoidance.

At least with forky you knew what he was saying as crass as it may have been lol
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SarahN said:
I’ve been unblocked. All of a sudden, NS stories are back on my IG. Strangest thing.
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Wow that is a Christmas miracle! Maybe we are no longer shadows but her bright tribe because we were right all along ✨
 
meowmeowmeow3030!! said:
What the f is he on about? Dear god my head hurts just trying to decipher that drivel. He would get more spiritual enlightenment working in a real job and dealing with everyday real occurrences. Hiding in a Bali retreat isn’t spiritually advancing in life it’s avoidance.

At least with forky you knew what he was saying as crass as it may have been lol
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That guy is such a joke. All this mumbo jumbo just serves him to avoid finding a proper job and as a justification for still being financially dependent on daddy (and Dim, until recently so it seems). He's a work shy creep, who thinks too highly of himself to lower himself to find a "real" job, and who manages to impress himself (not us) with his stupid pseudo enlightenment (which are really just brain farts). It would be funny if he wasn't such a deviant creep.
 
I have never seen someone so utterly dumb with such massive ego. That creep really freaks me out. Karma will get him sooner or later because It is impossible he can generate so much tit and people would believe him. Enlightenment and write path my ass. Hey Jamie shut thr f up .get a real job . You are nothing special , quite the opposite. With a dose of unbelievable creepiness.
 
frooshh said:
I get what you mean because ultimately I think everyone on this forum wants the best for her and that INCLUDES having self-accountability. Everyone wants her to be happy, have her friends, her career, etc but to truly be content she needs to face all the decisions she’s made and understand why she made them. She’ll continue to make the same mistakes and fall for another manipulative man if she doesn’t.

we should all continue to hold her accountable in places like this forum but hopefully no one send her any hate or snarky remarks because I can imagine she’s in quite a vulnerable place right now even if she doesn’t act like it.
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The people on this thread have a fine moral compass so no worries there.
Also- being banned means no dms anyway 😅😅
 
Coldfeet said:
The people on this thread have a fine moral compass so no worries there.
Also- being banned means no dms anyway 😅😅
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Absolutely ! Also ... she reads here. So no need for us to DM.
I think all in all, we are all happy that/ if she is no longer with the creep. I think most, if not all, of us come from a place where we have watched in disbelief more than hate the unfolding of her life in recent years. She's annoying, yes, privileged, yes, dumb, also, sanctimonious and smug, oh yes. But she is a human being, with her flaws and her scars and I like to think that we are a nice enough bunch to see through the privilege and dumbness and smugness and actually wish her well in her new creep less life.
He ensnared her at her most vulnerable, manipulated her and isolated her from friends and family. She went willingly but it was also abuse of her state of weakness. Yes, all she wanted was a relationship, a ring on her finger, and a wedding and kids in the horizon, that was actually part of the manipulation by the creep. He is despicable through and through, and for all her faults, Niomi is the victim and we are not about to undermine the fact that she was strong enough to get out of that hell hole relationship.
Let's be clear though: I am not a fan of Niomi :)
 
The guy is a snake oil salesman - I wouldn’t believe a word he says. That story about putting the house on Air BnB could just be bullshit to make himself appear more successful than he is. Like when he said he earns €1000 an hour 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Also, the bit about “distractions” - the first one being gossip… HI JAMIE 🙋🏻‍♀️ hope we’re not keeping you from your oh so successful coaching business, these threads move so fast don’t they?
 
getawaywithit said:
I’m not trying to dictate anything, but could we all try to maybe recognize what’s going on and not try to poke at obvious vulnerabilities in DMs and comments for the sake of entertainment?
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Agree 💯

The rule is Keep It On Tattle.

We all had to read and agree to these rules when we created our accounts.

It means no messaging the people we talk about, no provocative comments, no goading, no reposting of any Tattle comments elsewhere, no directing people to Tattle.

Anyone who IS interacting with Niomi’s accounts (or accounts of anyone else they follow on here) needs to give it up immediately or close their tattle account because they’re breaking one of the (very few) fundamental rules of Tattle.
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CallItAsItIs said:
Was she actually stupid enough to buy a home with him? What fuckery is this?
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Also, December 13th is the date to watch for. Apparently, that’s when he’s leaving.
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He’s probably just lying.
 
Ugh! I tried to watch his stories about the house and cannot do it. It's that softly spoken voice of his - with added slurping- it gives me the serious ick!!

If he does own property in Bali, then perhaps he convinced his father to invest in property there. I really don't think he's in a position to buy. He has three properties on Airbnb in Dublin that I'm sure are owned by his father because of where they are located. I also can't see how Lordon would get mortgage approval in Ireland.

I really hope Niomi was not dumb enough to buy a place with him. They'd only been back together 2/3 months when they went to Bali, so surely she didn't do that. Surely!

Then again, she was speaking about Bali as a long-term thing not so long ago and calling it home. Something happened to make that change.

I'd like to think she finally saw him for the manipulative seedy creep that he is and left him because of that, but I don't think that's the case. She's always known who he is and didn't care. She deleted comments when this was pointed out to her time and time again. I think he did something specific to make her call things off - you can tell she's angry at him.

I hope we've seen the last of him, but time will tell.
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SarahN said:
I’ve been unblocked. All of a sudden, NS stories are back on my IG. Strangest thing.
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Perhaps she's unblocking the 'Shadows' as she realised we were right all along...

The more likely explanation is that she wants to get her SM numbers up to get the maximum amount of freebies on her return to London and influencer life
 
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SarahN said:
I’ve been unblocked. All of a sudden, NS stories are back on my IG. Strangest thing.
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She needs to increase her engagement in order to bag the freebies.
She must be engaged one way or another. 😂
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Shutterbug99 said:
The more likely explanation is that she wants to get her SM numbers up to get the maximum amount of freebies on her return to London and influencer life
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Oh sorry, you wrote the same.
 
Any woman leaving an abusive relationship is a success in my eyes.

With that said, she should absolutely be held accountable by her audience for getting with that misogynistic creep in the first place and promoting dangerous pseudo-science cults during these years like Human Garbage. There is no way she didn't know about his Knickers for Liquor past.
 
CallItAsItIs said:
Was she actually stupid enough to buy a home with him? What fuckery is this?
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Also, December 13th is the date to watch for. Apparently, that’s when he’s leaving.
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[Sorry to quote you twice, I just had another thought on this]

I have a theory (with no actual proof) lol…

I wonder if he got super insecure that Niomi was bringing a pre-marital asset to the relationship (The Shed)? Maybe his ego couldn’t handle that he couldn’t buy property in Dublin/London, so he panic bought a cheap property in Bali to feel “manly” or whatever? 🤔

I also wouldn’t put it past him to make Niomi sell her property, and then conveniently change his mind when it comes to his own assets to one-up her.
 
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