Niomi Smart #86 The woman is having a never ending existential crisis

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Also it's "Stuck in Stone Age" not ages.. she should have asked her life coach expert about it, cause he certainly is...

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I have a theory… Lordon changed his video filming style at the end of October. Previously it looked like he was talking to somebody, and you can hear Niomi’s laugh in one video. So I think it was Niomi at the other end helping him film.

Now, however, he just talks straight to the camera, sooo idk, maybe things are so rocky between them that she refuses to help him anymore? 🤡🤡🤡 Also she hasn’t liked any of his videos in a while now.
 
I think they are fine, they probably ran out of terrible content to share. Lordon is embarrassing and Niomi is well aware how he's received by the viewers, she's been limiting his exposure on her own accounts since the "re-engagement". I wouldn't even be too surprised if she ends up getting pregnant, their collective delusion has reached danger territory long ago.
 
I think they’re as fine as they can be, but I don’t think that goes as far as things being “good” between them. They might be getting on well with each other but they’re still living this nomadic lifestyle, which we all know Niomi hates, and there’s no sign of them setting up a real home together actually getting legally married anytime soon. And therein lies the problem… she’s lasted 6 months this way, can she manage another 6 months? A year? Indefinitely?
Roll on Christmas, I would be VERY surprised if she spends time with her family this year 🍿
 
curiouscat106 said:
I think they’re as fine as they can be, but I don’t think that goes as far as things being “good” between them. They might be getting on well with each other but they’re still living this nomadic lifestyle, which we all know Niomi hates, and there’s no sign of them setting up a real home together actually getting legally married anytime soon. And therein lies the problem… she’s lasted 6 months this way, can she manage another 6 months? A year? Indefinitely?
Roll on Christmas, I would be VERY surprised if she spends time with her family this year 🍿
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I think it's a good thing if they never get legally married. It will make their separation a lot less complicated when it finally happens.
 
Lionsden said:
I think it's a good thing if they never get legally married. It will make their separation a lot less complicated when it finally happens.
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He’s probably convinced her they’re already “spiritually married” and so won’t legally marry her anytime in the near future. Before their January breakup wasn’t she calling him her “husband” anyway?? It’s so cringey if I cared about her at all I’d say girl get UP no man is worth abandoning your family/friends/career/lifestyle. A man should complement you, not complete you. But she thinks being complete means having a ring on your finger even if the man who put it there is despicable. I honestly think her social media decline is due to embarrassment/ denial about how sad her life has become.
 
kittenseer said:
Almost a year and they haven’t mentioned each other once since Niomi’s reconciliation story.
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I think someone mentioned this before, but I also think that they convinced themselves (or rather, Lordon convinced Niomi) that the reasons for their breakup were her family and her negative followers/comments about him. So she’s stopped seeing her family and won’t mention him on social media. Problems solved.
 
londongirl2001 said:
I think someone mentioned this before, but I also think that they convinced themselves (or rather, Lordon convinced Niomi) that the reasons for their breakup were her family and her negative followers/comments about him. So she’s stopped seeing her family and won’t mention him on social media. Problems solved.
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Yet she will still spend the rest of her life with him. Smart.
 
Callan said:
He says the most basic stuff with this oOooosooOOooooooooooooooooOOOO face omg... how can she stand being around this clown?

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He does realize that if you work a normal job and have an average commute (20-40 minutes) that’s already about 10 hours of your day gone. If you have kids, the rest of the time is spent running around with their pick ups/drop offs/ making dinner, taking care of life. This is such a privileged take on life, to just be able to suddenly cut down the amount of things you need to do. I don’t think anyone who lives a normal person life could actually do anything useful with his “advice”.
 
As someone previously said, she’s come to the conclusion that her life is not one to be envied or bragged about so she’s stopped posting.

What’s interesting is she’s no longer appearing *anywhere*. She used to pop up in other places on IG, like forming ✨fRiEnDsHiPs✨ with other expats, collabs with ✨lOcAl BuSiNeSsEs✨, “photoshoots” for content, with her friend Sophie, yoga classes, meditation classes, not to mention the Awakened Dreamers and sex parties/retreats… Either she is being VERY careful not to be filmed anywhere or she’s just not leaving their villa or going out anymore. She initially tried very hard to show what a full and fulfilled life she has in Barley, now it’s crickets. Has she come to accept that her life is empty and not worth showing?! It certainly seems like she’s given up.
 
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