Niomi Smart #85 Looks like she manifested a lot of sh..
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Mr.Mistoffelees
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Not her diagnosing herself with impostor syndrome, I'm dying 
Does she know impostor syndrome typically happens in people who are actually competent? The only thing she's competent at is finding the worst men in the world to date. I can't stand another video of her whining and yapping about her performative love for nature, grow up and find a real job.
Does she know impostor syndrome typically happens in people who are actually competent? The only thing she's competent at is finding the worst men in the world to date. I can't stand another video of her whining and yapping about her performative love for nature, grow up and find a real job.
Coldfeet
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And right at the end she achually says it makes a change to post something 'non performative'- just going along with her day. RightShe has become SO fake and performative is actually funny to watch. The video opening with a monologue voiceover about fears, with images of her opening the curtains, making the bed and drinking water.
lurkerxx
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Again with the speech of "not keeping up with others". She's so obsessed with this and desperately tries to convince herself she's okay with it. She's the ONE who brings it up. What a chaotic mind this woman has, imagine the struggle of being unhappy but keep repeating to yourself "it's okay, accept it, ACCEPT IT." She's depressed af.
"I love Barleyyy, I'm so happy here, I love evenings here, you can hear dogs, birds, you see rainbows, it's so colourful, there's so much life here".
Her face:
"I love Barleyyy, I'm so happy here, I love evenings here, you can hear dogs, birds, you see rainbows, it's so colourful, there's so much life here".
Her face:
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earlgrey
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So she doesn’t have imposter syndrome, she’s just correctNot her diagnosing herself with impostor syndrome, I'm dying
Does she know impostor syndrome typically happens in people who are actually competent? The only thing she's competent at is finding the worst men in the world to date. I can't stand another video of her whining and yapping about her performative love for nature, grow up and find a real job.
curiouscat106
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Is she still pretending Lordon doesn’t exist in this latest video..?
formerly_sitkx
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This girl is her own worst enemy…She is so hung up on the whole “societally imposed timeline” , it’s obviously something that is deeply distressing to her. She talks about it in every video and on Instagram too. Trying to convince herself that she is okay with how her life is going, yet she refuses to help herself in any way.
Acceptance is not always the right choice, she is accepting something that makes her extremely depressed.. She’s only 33 years old, for Christ’s sake. She has a chance to build a whole new happy life for herself, but is hanging on to this deadbeat man who will never give her what she wants — stability, a family, a permanent home, a good relationship with her own family.
Her fears are holding her back so much. She is so afraid of dumping his ass and being alone and starting over. It’s literally the best thing she can do for herself. Get on hinge, get on raya, whatever. Date people! Meet guys who are on the same page as her and want the same things. Call me an optimist, but there are sooooo many fish in the sea. Why hang on to this person who brings her nothing but loneliness and alienation?
I think this is all because she never processed her trauma and her grief of the broken engagement, It impedes her life to this day. She built all these walls around herself to protect herself from being reminded of it, because she never let herself process the hurt (for example with a skilled therapist). After a few month of the breakup, she was posting videos about being “so so happy”, “on the right path”, basically saying she’s over it, which just meant she suppressed everything and numbed herself, and tried to move on without letting the grief run its course.
Sorry for the essay, I just hate seeing her ruin her own life by making all the wrong choices
I seriously believe this is all completely fixable, but she is just so deeply in denial and is consistently shooting herself in the foot.
Lionsden
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She's still not ready to teach. One online course and one month in India... She should be an assistant to an experienced teacher in an in-person class for about a year to observe, learn about alignment, and improve her own form (which is often poor). I actually think it's a problem that she creates the sequences for her classes "intuitively." She should be constructing them with knowledge and intent.
When did she become such a bullshitter? Her protracted rambling is unbearable.
And it's so ironic, making a show of making the bed when there is a cleaner busy in the background. Performative as hell!
Oh, and since I was asked:
When did she become such a bullshitter? Her protracted rambling is unbearable.
And it's so ironic, making a show of making the bed when there is a cleaner busy in the background. Performative as hell!
Oh, and since I was asked:
Callan
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Wait, she really said she's not ready to teach after setting up the 2nd class for tomorrow? She's ALREADY struggling?? Girl gezus push through, I don't have her freedom and resources but she makes me feel like fricken Wonder woman in comparison when I look what I accomplish on the daily, and I'm just a regular person and nobody special.
It's like the less she does the less she can do...
It's like the less she does the less she can do...
formerly_sitkx
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This is 100% true in my experience. She needs to gain some momentum and start doing more stuff, then she’ll stop feeling so sorry for herself
Lionsden
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She said she didn't feel ready to teach after the online teacher training she did during the pandemic, that's why she "welcomed" the teacher she had in India "into her life" and now she is ready. Plus, she had impostor syndrome and it was only her head telling her she wasn't ready while her heart knew she truly was...
lurkerxx
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Agree with every word. It's what we've been talking about in here, these "inspiring lessons" she thinks she's giving everywhere - Instagram, Substack, YouTube, even TikTok - are, at the end of the day, just her talking to herself. The fact she's probably seeing lots of women her age getting married, having kids, having a stable home and life, is distressing her deeply. She often makes it look like people tell others this or that, but in reality, she's the one troubled by it or else she wouldn't give it so much attention. I do not understand this "acceptance" ramble she goes on about. We accept what we cannot change. A tragedy we have no control over. NOT THIS. Not HER LIFE. Sure, her life got upside down when her fiancé left her - that is something she has to accept, she cannot do anything about it, for example. But being away from her family and perhaps a few friends, staying with a guy like Jamie, not having a proper home/base, not being a good professional - she doesn't have to accept this. She talks as if she has no choices in her life, but then says empty things like "we have choice". So what then? She was thriving in London when she left him. You could see, by the way she spoke, she was tired of Bali. You could SEE it. But then, by the latest video she posted there - before she went running to South Africa on a bleeping booty call - you could see depression started to kick in because she does not know how to be by herself. And this is where THERAPY should enter. I know we sit here and dissert about her life as if it's easy, but in the end, we always end up being right.This girl is her own worst enemy…She is so hung up on the whole “societally imposed timeline” , it’s obviously something that is deeply distressing to her. She talks about it in every video and on Instagram too. Trying to convince herself that she is okay with how her life is going, yet she refuses to help herself in any way.
Acceptance is not always the right choice, she is accepting something that makes her extremely depressed.. She’s only 33 years old, for Christ’s sake. She has a chance to build a whole new happy life for herself, but is hanging on to this deadbeat man who will never give her what she wants — stability, a family, a permanent home, a good relationship with her own family.
Her fears are holding her back so much. She is so afraid of dumping his ass and being alone and starting over. It’s literally the best thing she can do for herself. Get on hinge, get on raya, whatever. Date people! Meet guys who are on the same page as her and want the same things. Call me an optimist, but there are sooooo many fish in the sea. Why hang on to this person who brings her nothing but loneliness and alienation?
I think this is all because she never processed her trauma and her grief of the broken engagement, It impedes her life to this day. She built all these walls around herself to protect herself from being reminded of it, because she never let herself process the hurt (for example with a skilled therapist). After a few month of the breakup, she was posting videos about being “so so happy”, “on the right path”, basically saying she’s over it, which just meant she suppressed everything and numbed herself, and tried to move on without letting the grief run its course.
Sorry for the essay, I just hate seeing her ruin her own life by making all the wrong choices
Limey
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'and the note said 'here's your bus fare, love'
lurkerxx
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She's so stupid. And look at the passive-aggressiveness in her last answer. God, she has become insufferable.
Jibbles
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“ I wear it for all my normal bike journeys, just not the one I am posting to my followers I am ‘influencing’ who might copy me, because that would mess up my hair for the video.”
insectoverlords
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Armchair psych on a stranger incoming.
Women in their 30s who don't care about the societal timeline don't think about it this much. Honestly I'm all for people living in Bali bleeping about "finding themselves" if that's what they want but I can't even hate watch Niomi anymore anymore, does she really feel closer to herself now vs when she was in London? Like duck Joe I mean before Joe, I know people change and she was in her early 20s last time she was single in London but right now she looks actually depressed, i feel like this started as a way to prove she had more depth but instead it's achieved the opposite and she looks so lost in a way she never did before. Is she afraid to acknowledge that she did want the future with Joe so would rather pick any other reality if she can't have it with him? If she'd picked herself up and persevered rather than making her post break up behaviour her new identity she'd be over him and living a life she enjoys right now (her thoughts on indie films v Hollywood were enough to make a 16 year old boy cringe but felt very aimed at Joe) but it isn't too late just listen to your head rather than overthinking signs and overcomplicating "what your heart is saying". Has she lost everyone who might have talked some sense into her?
Women in their 30s who don't care about the societal timeline don't think about it this much. Honestly I'm all for people living in Bali bleeping about "finding themselves" if that's what they want but I can't even hate watch Niomi anymore anymore, does she really feel closer to herself now vs when she was in London? Like duck Joe I mean before Joe, I know people change and she was in her early 20s last time she was single in London but right now she looks actually depressed, i feel like this started as a way to prove she had more depth but instead it's achieved the opposite and she looks so lost in a way she never did before. Is she afraid to acknowledge that she did want the future with Joe so would rather pick any other reality if she can't have it with him? If she'd picked herself up and persevered rather than making her post break up behaviour her new identity she'd be over him and living a life she enjoys right now (her thoughts on indie films v Hollywood were enough to make a 16 year old boy cringe but felt very aimed at Joe) but it isn't too late just listen to your head rather than overthinking signs and overcomplicating "what your heart is saying". Has she lost everyone who might have talked some sense into her?
Callan
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She's driving her scooter wearing a baseball hat.. I can't..... I wear that when I go on a stroll with my kid, what is wrong with her?! I have a few relatives who fell of bikes and scooters and left pieces of their skull on the road because they weren't wearing proper protection, she's careless for no reason other than vanity? I don't get it.
oh ok I see people commenting, and yeah those who seem to give a damn are again being lectured by her idiot followers.
Sorry I posted this before refreshing the page and I see this has already been discussed
oh ok I see people commenting, and yeah those who seem to give a damn are again being lectured by her idiot followers.
Sorry I posted this before refreshing the page and I see this has already been discussed
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restinpieces
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"sHe DoEsNt NeEd A sCOlDiNg" like it's just her who'd suffer in a crash. how about the people who have to pick up her skin and brains when she crashes without safety gear? Or have to witness the gory site. Aren't they important? All her sycophants are well below the IQ curve and proud of it
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Also even with a helmet, without skin protective gear, you will be DEGLOVED. A friend of mine with full gear (helmet and suit) had a 50km/h accident on the road a year ago and his leg has still not recovered.
Dumb idiot niomi
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