Niomi Smart #85 Looks like she manifested a lot of sh..

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MaddyP said:
She has completely lost herself in looking inwards. All her thoughts revolve around herself and so she will never come to a new realization but will continue to think forever about who she really is.
Just the fact that she still talks about how different everything is since she turned 30 🙄 Get over it
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Haha like she's been 30 for two whole years...just stfu at this point
 
curiouscat106 said:
I wonder how long Lordon can maintain their current lifestyle? He clearly loves it as an overgrown man-child (he even made a grid post saying being back in Bali and his favourite way of living 🤮). I mean, how f*cking insensitive when he knows his own fiancé was saying she was “over” living in Bali just weeks prior, and a lack of base/agreement on where to live was most likely a cause of their breakup. It’s completely unreasonable to expect a woman in her 30s, who craves a home and a family, to keep living like a drifter/teenager on a gap year. Nim’s, NOBODY will judge you or say “told you so” if you leave this creep, go home to your family, and create a life on your own terms! Hell, everyone will be cheering you on like you wouldn’t believe.
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Correct me if I’m wrong or you see things differently but… It would be so easy for her to just book a flight and move back to Verity’s or Big Tezza’s house temporarily. Build up her yoga teaching to a few lessons a month (online if she’s too anxious to teach in person) and rebuild her life.
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You're wrong 😅😅
She always has an agenda and loves having her money- tight wad. She has ALWAYS been pig headed and a complete bi**h on the side so they deserve each other. Both boring af.🤑
 
Agree with everyone! Let's face it: she doesn't go back because she doesn't want to be single or rather, does not know how to be single. Period. Yes, he's toxic af, yes, he's an arse, yes, I believe he influences her a LOT. Because she has a weak mind. It is what it is in this case. There's no other way of saying it. She's weak. She doesn't know how to be by herself, she's empty, she has no life goals. But, in her mind, at least she is not "alone". AT LEAST SHE IS A 32-YEAR-OLD ENGAGED WOMAN. So she'll settle to ANYTHING. His terms. His conditions.
 
Niomi, in case you’re reading this, please, DUMP HIM.

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kittenseer said:
Niomi, in case you’re reading this, please, DUMP HIM.

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He's absolutely disgusting. 🤢

I think Niomi may be in a situation where she feels like she can't go home.* I still say something happened to make her run away to Bali and stay there for so long. I think it's a falling out with her mum and her Human Garbage comments play into this. Even Tezza seems to have stopped commenting on her posts. All speculation, but maybe because of this now she feels like she can't go back home and has no options left - no London base, no friends; so she's stuck in Bali with this disgusting excuse for a man. She's not a happy person, that's easy to see. The change in her from the way she was in that video posted yesterday is actually shocking.

She's just wasting her life away doing nothing in Bali. And this has been going on for years now. She also increasingly sounds like she has completely lost her mind. She just seems to be getting worse in this respect.

She got unlucky that she went to Bali when she was at a very low point in her life and he was right there ready and waiting to take advantage of her.




*Not saying it's true (I think her mum will always be there for her) but maybe she feels that way.
 
pinkmug said:
If Jamie dumps her, she'll double down on that crappy relationship like she has done with all her terrible choices. She's the poster child for sunken cost fallacy, she doesn't know how to look at something and call a spade a spade. You took a chance on a new guy after getting your heart broken, you thought your life was meant to take this path but it made you miserable. You are embarrassed by your fiance, you are cut off from your family and real friends, you are lying to yourself and others about how happy you are, you have done things you are ashamed of because you wanted to please the man who doesn't care about your wellbeing. tit happens. If it sucks, hit the bricks. I don't know why she's so fixed on ruining her life just to not admit that Jamie is and always has been an awful decision. Cutting her nose off to spite her face, she's sinking fast so a bunch of strangers on the internet can be proven wrong. Girl save your life, you don't have multiples of it. What even is this.
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curiouscat106 said:
I wonder how long Lordon can maintain their current lifestyle? He clearly loves it as an overgrown man-child (he even made a grid post saying being back in Bali and his favourite way of living 🤮). I mean, how f*cking insensitive when he knows his own fiancé was saying she was “over” living in Bali just weeks prior, and a lack of base/agreement on where to live was most likely a cause of their breakup. It’s completely unreasonable to expect a woman in her 30s, who craves a home and a family, to keep living like a drifter/teenager on a gap year. Nim’s, NOBODY will judge you or say “told you so” if you leave this creep, go home to your family, and create a life on your own terms! Hell, everyone will be cheering you on like you wouldn’t believe.
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Correct me if I’m wrong or you see things differently but… It would be so easy for her to just book a flight and move back to Verity’s or Big Tezza’s house temporarily. Build up her yoga teaching to a few lessons a month (online if she’s too anxious to teach in person) and rebuild her life.
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Soz if this is stupid to ask but how do we know she WANTS a husband and kids asap?
where has she mentioned this/where have i missed it?

thanks!
 
kittymeowlondon said:
Soz if this is stupid to ask but how do we know she WANTS a husband and kids asap?
where has she mentioned this/where have i missed it?

thanks!
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She talked about wanting a conventional family life a few years ago, saying that this might be due to the fact she didn't have this herself while growing up. I'm sure someone will remember the exact occasion. Of course, this may no longer be her wish today, but I doubt it.
 
formerly_sitkx said:
“Trust your intuition. Surrender to change.” — she’s constantly repeating this like a robot. It really sounds like she’s trying to brainwash herself to be okay with not being okay
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Not to mention most of her views are from when she was dating Marcus or Joe. Abysmal views on her videos since she moved to Bali and her consistency leaves much to be desired. It’s not like she worked for that 100 million at all, she just got lucky.
 
I think she lives still in big trauma with that broken engagement, she already had an unhinged behavior around food and exercise to the point of being extremely toxic.Now she thinks another failed engagement will be even more traumatizing however staying with that psychopath jamie white is actually even deepening her toxic behaviors. Going away from that relationship would the biggest success ever additionally exposing his crappy nasty and pervert shenanigans. The guy looks like the number one subscriber of dark web! She should come back home and start professional and long therapy to fix all the damages she inflicted on herself...she is in self destruction mode because how the hell you explain she is still with that disgusting hole living a purposeless shady life.
 
kittymeowlondon said:
Soz if this is stupid to ask but how do we know she WANTS a husband and kids asap?
where has she mentioned this/where have i missed it?

thanks!
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There’s an old Q&A video on YT - something like where do you see yourself in 10 years and she said having a house in the country, 3 kids and 2 labradors… and publishing more cookbooks 😂
This was just before she met DJ, about 8 years ago.
Then there’s been other hints, like DJ pushing a pram and her gushing what amazing dad he’s going to be… after they split up there was a YT video where she went to a psychic/tarot reader who said she’d definitely have kids (her relief was palpable)… Earlier this year she was having fertility blood tests done… and she’s constantly bleating on about timelines and how it’s ok not to be where you/family/society expect you to be at a certain age, which sound like she self-soothing more than anything.
 
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