Niomi Smart #85 Looks like she manifested a lot of sh..

[lurkerxx]

Those tests she had done - I have no idea about their accuracy, but still - said she was low on everything and she twisted into saying now she's better than when she was in London because now she loves her body. London sucks again now, 8 months ago she was "SO SO HAPPY TO BE BACK". This is how her mind works. She can't feel "bad" things. This comes from a person who actually is a bit of a hypochondriac (myself, lol) but those tests weren't alarming or anything, I believe. Just told her her levels were a bit low. And still, she had to find a way to twist it and "turn" into something good. But it's all BS, because she is not healthier OR happier now. This is a good quality when done it in healthy doses, actually finding the silver lining in things. Not in her case. Sadness and anger are part of life. Take the sad music, for example. She's a 32-year-old woman who apparently does not listen to sad music, only "happy, uplifting lyrics". Is this normal for an adult? Music is a powerful thing. Imagine how much repressed sadness she has for her not to be able to listen to sad songs. And of course she explains all this from a her high horse, actually thinking she's teaching people a lesson. The happiest people are not those who refuse to feel sadness. The happiest people are those who acknowledge that sadness is a part of life and sometimes it needs to be felt. She's isolated from EVERYONE, in a place she was done with a few months ago, with a guy she doesn't love and doesn't love her back. A guy she broke up with. Not only that, she automatically gets ENGAGED again when they're back together. And she keeps repeating "everyone has their own timeline" because she knows this isn't the timeline she wants for herself.

 

[curiouscat106]

Wow, I’ve never seen that video before - as if I needed any more convincing that they would’ve made a good couple I’m actually sad it didn’t work out for them now
But honestly, it’s so weird seeing her so bubbly and full of energy! I mean her eyes are actually sparkling here. Woman is now a thin, hollow shell.
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Fell down an old YT rabbit hole and then circled back the the latest one. Someone has left the nicest, kindest comment under it:

 

[lurkerxx]

Wow, I’ve never seen that video before - as if I needed any more convincing that they would’ve made a good couple I’m actually sad it didn’t work out for them now
But honestly, it’s so weird seeing her so bubbly and full of energy! I mean her eyes are actually sparkling here. Woman is now a thin, hollow shell.
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Fell down an old YT rabbit hole and then circled back the the latest one. Someone has left the nicest, kindest comment under it:
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Wow! So well said! But of course she reads this from a perspective of “you don’t know me, you don’t know anything about my life, what I post is only about 5% of it”. I would bet my life she would come across extremely passive-agressive with this person if they talked privately. To be a fly on the wall when LORDON reads comments like this!

 

[Callan]

Wow, I’ve never seen that video before - as if I needed any more convincing that they would’ve made a good couple I’m actually sad it didn’t work out for them now
But honestly, it’s so weird seeing her so bubbly and full of energy! I mean her eyes are actually sparkling here. Woman is now a thin, hollow shell.
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Fell down an old YT rabbit hole and then circled back the the latest one. Someone has left the nicest, kindest comment under it:
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Whoa she was bubbly, I only saw a little snippet of this video ages ago but now I got to watch more. She was dating Joey at this time right? Makes me rethink he stuff Marcus hinted about her in that podcast he did with Steph...

I don't think she will read this comment and take something to heart from it, even about our individual time being finite, which is a gentle reminder to all of us actually. She only surrounds herself with yes people, only listens to happy music, etc... a shield from reality so that she can deal with what she has now.

 

[Lionsden]

I wonder if Forky had a wandering eye, he seems to really like his fit females and maybe she caught wind of that. And I guess they did have a lot in common, mostly annoying stupid stuff lol.

Forky certainly didn't refrain from flirting with Niomi while she was in a relationship.

 

[formerly_sitkx]

I just watched a video of her running in Barcelona with Forky, and their chemistry was absolutely off the charts compared to when she was with JW2 (and she was still with Joe back then). I couldn’t believe it! It honestly felt like I’d stumbled into some kind of time glitch where they were together before they actually were. I really think they could’ve made a great match if she had been a little more patient with him.

WTF how did I miss this?? where the hell did you get this video

 

[formerly_sitkx]

Those tests she had done - I have no idea about their accuracy, but still - said she was low on everything and she twisted into saying now she's better than when she was in London because now she loves her body. London sucks again now, 8 months ago she was "SO SO HAPPY TO BE BACK". This is how her mind works. She can't feel "bad" things. This comes from a person who actually is a bit of a hypochondriac (myself, lol) but those tests weren't alarming or anything, I believe. Just told her her levels were a bit low. And still, she had to find a way to twist it and "turn" into something good. But it's all BS, because she is not healthier OR happier now. This is a good quality when done it in healthy doses, actually finding the silver lining in things. Not in her case. Sadness and anger are part of life. Take the sad music, for example. She's a 32-year-old woman who apparently does not listen to sad music, only "happy, uplifting lyrics". Is this normal for an adult? Music is a powerful thing. Imagine how much repressed sadness she has for her not to be able to listen to sad songs. And of course she explains all this from a her high horse, actually thinking she's teaching people a lesson. The happiest people are not those who refuse to feel sadness. The happiest people are those who acknowledge that sadness is a part of life and sometimes it needs to be felt. She's isolated from EVERYONE, in a place she was done with a few months ago, with a guy she doesn't love and doesn't love her back. A guy she broke up with. Not only that, she automatically gets ENGAGED again when they're back together. And she keeps repeating "everyone has their own timeline" because she knows this isn't the timeline she wants for herself.

I love this entire comment

 

[supercalifragilis]

Wow I'm so glad she saved the oceans that day. For a while there i was almost worried!

 

[lurkerxx]

I love this entire comment

Awwwww <3

 

[kittenseer]

She definitely seems depressed to me.

I wonder if Jamie is also realising that Niomi is not really this wild and free Bali Barbie that she has been pretending to be these last couple of years. Niomi is most at home at posh events in England, he at tantric cruises and shroom retreats. She just really doesn’t seem his type but I guess her money is too important to him…

 

[supercalifragilis]

I mean, if you're gonna go and meet a guy in Bali of all places, you deserve what you get. And I do mean just the type of sleazy m*****f***** who seem to hang out there a lot as digital nomads without a job.

 

[frooshh]

She definitely seems depressed to me.

I wonder if Jamie is also realising that Niomi is not really this wild and free Bali Barbie that she has been pretending to be these last couple of years. Niomi is most at home at posh events in England, he at tantric cruises and shroom retreats. She just really doesn’t seem his type but I guess her money is too important to him…

Yea, I honestly wonder if he’s seeing how long he can drag on this engagement because he has no intention of actually marrying her. I’m sure when they first started dating, she had the allure of being a relatively more successful influencer, was getting more brand deals/sponsorships, had more money flowing in, and was probably more willing to do whatever he wanted because she was so desperate for a relationship. Now she’s just BORING even if he is the one who caused the demise of her career and mental health. I’m inclined to say she’s definitely struggling with some kind of anxiety/depression (although we can never know for certain) and I can see him using her to buy a property in Bali and then being done with her. She’s desperate for the emotional relationship with him, while it seems like he only cares about the monetary/business relationship with her. Wouldn’t be surprised if he was the one who walked away once her income streams are dried up.

 

[pinkmug]

If Jamie dumps her, she'll double down on that crappy relationship like she has done with all her terrible choices. She's the poster child for sunken cost fallacy, she doesn't know how to look at something and call a spade a spade. You took a chance on a new guy after getting your heart broken, you thought your life was meant to take this path but it made you miserable. You are embarrassed by your fiance, you are cut off from your family and real friends, you are lying to yourself and others about how happy you are, you have done things you are ashamed of because you wanted to please the man who doesn't care about your wellbeing. tit happens. If it sucks, hit the bricks. I don't know why she's so fixed on ruining her life just to not admit that Jamie is and always has been an awful decision. Cutting her nose off to spite her face, she's sinking fast so a bunch of strangers on the internet can be proven wrong. Girl save your life, you don't have multiples of it. What even is this.

 

[curiouscat106]

I wonder how long Lordon can maintain their current lifestyle? He clearly loves it as an overgrown man-child (he even made a grid post saying being back in Bali and his favourite way of living ). I mean, how f*cking insensitive when he knows his own fiancé was saying she was “over” living in Bali just weeks prior, and a lack of base/agreement on where to live was most likely a cause of their breakup. It’s completely unreasonable to expect a woman in her 30s, who craves a home and a family, to keep living like a drifter/teenager on a gap year. Nim’s, NOBODY will judge you or say “told you so” if you leave this creep, go home to your family, and create a life on your own terms! Hell, everyone will be cheering you on like you wouldn’t believe.
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Correct me if I’m wrong or you see things differently but… It would be so easy for her to just book a flight and move back to Verity’s or Big Tezza’s house temporarily. Build up her yoga teaching to a few lessons a month (online if she’s too anxious to teach in person) and rebuild her life.

 

[Jelly Bean]

Their lifestyle just looks so boring.
You can be somewhere stunning (which they haven't even made Bali look) but if your life is aimless and you're with the wrong person it can still be miserable.
And Niomi's seems spectacularly aimless.
The last time she looked remotely happy was in India. She was still annoying af but she looked confident.

 

[Callan]

Vacations are nice when you have your home to come back to, she has nowhere to go even though she can very easily afford an apartment at a drop of a hat unlike most people in her situation.

 

[kittenseer]

If Jamie dumps her, she'll double down on that crappy relationship like she has done with all her terrible choices. She's the poster child for sunken cost fallacy, she doesn't know how to look at something and call a spade a spade. You took a chance on a new guy after getting your heart broken, you thought your life was meant to take this path but it made you miserable. You are embarrassed by your fiance, you are cut off from your family and real friends, you are lying to yourself and others about how happy you are, you have done things you are ashamed of because you wanted to please the man who doesn't care about your wellbeing. tit happens. If it sucks, hit the bricks. I don't know why she's so fixed on ruining her life just to not admit that Jamie is and always has been an awful decision. Cutting her nose off to spite her face, she's sinking fast so a bunch of strangers on the internet can be proven wrong. Girl save your life, you don't have multiples of it. What even is this.

Well said. She absolutely is wasting her life. She is not on her own timeline, she’s letting Jamie decide it for her.

 

[pinkmug]

Correct me if I’m wrong or you see things differently but… It would be so easy for her to just book a flight and move back to Verity’s or Big Tezza’s house temporarily. Build up her yoga teaching to a few lessons a month (online if she’s too anxious to teach in person) and rebuild her life.

Jamie is a freak and I don't put much past him, he has physically restrained her to keep her from leaving once after all. But you're right, if she chose to return, she could do so. She has money and a comfortable home with ample space to return to - an option not viable for a lot of women who are trapped in tit relationships everywhere. If she asked for help, I doubt her mother or grandmother would let her down. She's so desperate for a relationship and so scared of being by herself that she's staying with this heinous tit stain in a place where she has no home nor friends. Her entire support system has whittled down to a sleazy guy, disgusting inside and out. I don't know who said he resembles a tapeworm but they were spot on, Niomi is physically wasting away the more he stays around. Too bad she likes being skinny more than being healthy.

 

[londongirl2001]

She definitely seems depressed to me.

I wonder if Jamie is also realising that Niomi is not really this wild and free Bali Barbie that she has been pretending to be these last couple of years. Niomi is most at home at posh events in England, he at tantric cruises and shroom retreats. She just really doesn’t seem his type but I guess her money is too important to him…

Even in their first year together he always meant to isolate her from everyone. That’s when she started that nonsense about friends who don’t serve her anymore (after dumping Charlotte). Once their Kensington episode was over, he never left her side until the following summer (2023) when she was allowed to go to Wimbledon by herself.

One breakup and re-engagement later he will want to isolate her even more. She was done with Bali, but she knows she has to stay in order to keep Lordon happy and by her side.

 

[frooshh]

Even in their first year together he always meant to isolate her from everyone. That’s when she started that nonsense about friends who don’t serve her anymore (after dumping Charlotte). Once their Kensington episode was over, he never left her side until the following summer (2023) when she was allowed to go to Wimbledon by herself.

One breakup and re-engagement later he will want to isolate her even more. She was done with Bali, but she knows she has to stay in order to keep Lordon happy and by her side.

I think she has intense resentment over the fact that they moved back to Bali but she’s shoved it down so far that it’s almost manifested itself in different ways. Sort of like how even if you mentally block a trauma out, your body still keeps score. She seems like she’s always sick, is always in the throes of self-doubt and insecurity, pushed away her family and friends because she didn’t want to face what she’s doing, has no motivation to work/pursue any passion or career. Hell even her bone density and muscle mass are too low. Her own body and mind are screaming at her to run away but like every’s said, she just refuses to accept it.