Niomi Smart #85 Looks like she manifested a lot of sh..

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Didn’t she just pack everything from her life with DJ into a storage unit and never go back to it? I vaguely remember she said she was selling everything in it not that long ago, and it came across as though she just wanted someone to take the whole thing off her hands. It didn’t sound as though she was going to go back to it and sort through things, like what to keep/sell/give to charity etc.

I was thinking that they probably will end up back in Ireland, but this time she might actually make a proper go of living there because London truly doesn’t serve her anymore.
When she returned at the start of the year she was so full of excitement and hope. But a couple of months in she realised that, after being absent for the best part of two years, everything had changed. Work wasn’t rolling in like it did when she was signed to Gleam, she couldn’t find a place to live, her network of friends had diminished to next to no one, and worst of all (in her mind) she hadn’t experienced a rom-com style meetcute and met her future husband. So when she made that hella depressed video about having absolutely no reason not to go to India, she really meant she had nothing, not just that she didn’t have a man. Not even a Fork. Or a bottle of antiseptic.
 
I've found this lack of, well, anything post second yoga class to be quite jarring. She really waxed lyrical after the first so it seems odd to let it pass without remark. Although it did also seem to have somewhat less marketing than the first too.

Another vote for a Dublin Christmas.... unless the unravelling has already begun. We can but hope!
 
No because thinking about her living situation stresses me out so much. They left stuff in their India apartment, did she ever get it back? What happens to her scooter and cacao mugs when she has to leave the Bali villa? Does she still have the old storage unit from when she lived with Joe? Is her London apartment stuff in there? Where does her effing nespresso machine live?
 
lirael14 said:
I've found this lack of, well, anything post second yoga class to be quite jarring. She really waxed lyrical after the first so it seems odd to let it pass without remark. Although it did also seem to have somewhat less marketing than the first too.

Another vote for a Dublin Christmas.... unless the unravelling has already begun. We can but hope!
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When was the class? Was it Sunday?
 
lurkerxx said:
You guys read my mind tonight. I was just thinking earlier how is it possible that she doesn’t have a proper home, a base, anything substantial. How she’s been far away from everything for so long now. For what?! Even if she traveled a lot, but having a proper home, a true place to come back to, with her possessions, her things. It’s true possessions aren’t everything but in the end they’re ours. They’re part of our life. They’re connected to memories. I can imagine after DJ left, she was traumatised and couldn’t even think about settling down somewhere. Then she stupidly bought a house she clearly didn’t like, in area that she didn’t even enjoy. She’s impulsive, she doesn’t think things through. But a few years have passed. She’s an adult. A relationship didn’t work. It’s time to overcome it.
And the thing is, there’s people who don’t really care about these things, they’re happy to live elsewhere, nowhere, always moving with their suitcase. But as much as she fakes it, this whole “spontaneous-adventurous persona” simply isn’t her. She says she’s so so so happy “living” in Bali but in every opportunity she lets escape “one day in my own home” lines. I distinctly remember when they were in a community in Ibiza, she posted on stories SO OBVIOUSLY DEPRESSED, saying they were “living” there, trying to sound cheerful and saying things like “life is so unpredictable, who knows where we’ll end up”, etc.
I seriously cannot believe she was back in London in the beginning of the year, with renewed energy to actually move on, and 5 months or so later she let him drag her to Bali again. Insanity. For THIS THING. I can’t even call him a man. 😭
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Yeah every time she forgets that she’s „moved to Barley“, and talks about inspiration she’s seen somewhere for her future home, it makes me a tiny bit sad for her. But that doesn’t last long, because she got it right already! Only a few months ago!! But as soon as things got difficult (finding somewhere permanent to live, working, etc), she ran back to the donkey and dancing around Barley.
 
If he is there alone, and the wording sort of suggests this, then I think they may have had a falling out. He's been posting non-stop, which is always a sign - and he's been mentioning his 'path forward' and his 'time to shine' which suggests change. Perhaps they've been discussing next steps and once again can't agree on where to live.

Bali was only ever meant to be for the summer. Nims mentioned this in a post/story in early July. It's October and they're still there. I think the plan was to come home in September but he convinced her to stay longer hence the visa renewal. Now she's asking questions about their future, so he's once again acting like Mr. successful life coach and has taken off to a treehouse for the weekend to show he doesn't need her and keep her in her place

It seems as though there could be something going on with her total silence and his non-stop posting this week. Or it might be nothing! 😄


Also, why exactly does this guy need to recharge? He does nothing.
 
Shutterbug99 said:
If he is there alone, and the wording sort of suggests this, then I think they may have had a falling out. He's been posting non-stop, which is always a sign - and he's been mentioning his 'path forward' and his 'time to shine' which suggests change. Perhaps they've been discussing next steps and once again can't agree on where to live.

Bali was only ever meant to be for the summer. Nims mentioned this in a post/story in early July. It's October and they're still there. I think the plan was to come home in September but he convinced her to stay longer hence the visa renewal. Now she's asking questions about their future, so he's once again acting like Mr. successful life coach and has taken off to a treehouse for the weekend to show he doesn't need her and keep her in her place

It seems as though there could be something going on with her total silence and his non-stop posting this week. Or it might be nothing! 😄


Also, why exactly does this guy need to recharge? He does nothing.
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From your lips and keyboard to God’s ears! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 I know she’s awful but honestly I’d rather have her being awful away from this guy.
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No because thinking about her living situation stresses me out so much. They left stuff in their India apartment, did she ever get it back? What happens to her scooter and cacao mugs when she has to leave the Bali villa? Does she still have the old storage unit from when she lived with Joe? Is her London apartment stuff in there? Where does her effing nespresso machine live?
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She told me in a DM she has two Nespresso machines: one in England, one in Dublin. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Here:
 

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Man there is just no way they’re having a happy and healthy relationship, they seem to have completely opposite wants and needs, no matter how much Niomi tries to convince herself otherwise.

and re: DJ storage unit, I vaguely remember her saying that she had to go to it finally and deal with it a while ago (but I couldn’t tell you what video that was in)
 
I’m assuming mayybeee 20-30 people showed up for the yoga class the second time, and even that feels generous. I’m sure there’s some sort of emotional turmoil/spiral going on because if she was just sick she would be posting about it and would never miss a chance to body check for the camera how skinny the illness has made her.

On one hand, I think they’re both at the treehouse thing and they’re playing up her silence for more engagement. At the same time, it’s definitely weird that she’s gone offline for so long now that she’s trying to make somewhat of a l career comeback (yoga classes, more regularyl YouTube, etc).
 
melfish said:
I reckon they've broken up again. She's gone quiet, he's posting madly, and now he's heading off to a treehouse for the weekend, alone by the sounds of it, to "reflect, recharge and refine my path" (lol)
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I wonder, are we going to get another Daily Mail article about the broken engagement? Sometimes you just have to follow your heart, your intuition, and the moon, and it feels so great to finally be on the right path?
 
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