Niomi Smart #5 Onwards, upwards, but not Woodwards

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MarthaFarkus said:
I wonder who is the most dull out of the two of them 🤔 I mean, they’re well suited in that respect.
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From both of their previous social media posts/content, it seems like they both reeeeeeally brought out each other’s inner dullard. It looks like theyve both at least been capable of being more fun in the past but together, nope. They’ve both had a lucky escape in that regard, I think.

Bleurghgram said:
I’ve just got round to watching the bridesmaid video (I feel like they may not be up for much longer). He looks so done. I can’t believe she was completely blindsided. The most exciting thing about the video was her friends nip slips.
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Isn’t it weird what you notice when you’re looking with hindsight? I only watched this yesterday to see what was going on and I didn’t notice the nip slip at all 😂 when you watch the lockdown stuff back as well though I feel like it’s very clear something isn’t right between them
 
QueenBW said:
She's rented her own flat in an expensive part of London by herself before, I don't understand why she couldn't have done it again. Like, if Joe had told her about not wanting a big lease while he was unemployed, I would have thought she'd have offered to rent a place herself vs. piling into a flat with his brother. This is the real mystery hahaha not where did Joey goey.
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Not great for his self respect and pride. I would be shocked if he didn't insist on paying his own way, and i would be worried if he was prepared to sponge off niomi.

He owns a flat, if they moved in and Freddie was going to move out that would seem normal as would niomi paying rent and half the utilities. But the flat wasn't her style, the house they rented wasn't his, so we had two sets of resentment simmering away behind the scenes.

At least there wasn't an avocado bathroom suite and carpets in the bathroom and kitchen! It wasn't a girly place, but two men lived there..
 
eucalyptus said:
i truly feel like even if he had cheated, she was so set on marrying him that she would've wanted to work through it and just placed him on a way shorter lease. i can't actually see a situation where she would have called things off tbh.
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On top of this, if we take her insta comments into consideration, you can tell it most likely had to do with Niomi being blindsided by the break up and feeling like she sacrificed so much of her life for Joe and got squat in return.

If he had cheated, I think her friends' comments would be pretty snide and indicative of this and Niomi's comments would follow the vein of "I deserve someone better or more trustworthy", "Never trust a liar" and "They don't know what they've got until it's gone" rather than "Love yourself first" and "Never let someone dim your light".
 
She's met up with her friends in London again, though her brunch did not look very exciting.

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judgeydrudgey said:
I wonder how/if she’ll scrub her platforms of Dreamy Joey. IG is easy enough, but sooo much of her YouTube is mixed in with him, especially her India content and Vlogmas. Maybe she’ll just keep it all up, increase the ads on them, and let that Adsense $$$ roll in lol

Bets on how long she’s single? Will her next man pose for videos like this, then allow them to be posted to Instagram?

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@Pri222 it's on page 1 of the thread. Prepare to cringe...
 
milanolo said:
On top of this, if we take her insta comments into consideration, you can tell it most likely had to do with Niomi being blindsided by the break up and feeling like she sacrificed so much of her life for Joe and got squat in return.

If he had cheated, I think her friends' comments would be pretty snide and indicative of this and Niomi's comments would follow the vein of "I deserve someone better or more trustworthy", "Never trust a liar" and "They don't know what they've got until it's gone" rather than "Love yourself first" and "Never let someone dim your light".
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I wonder if rather than catching him cheating, she caught him slagging her off or making fun of her to his brother and it brought the whole thing to a head. They seem to be so nicey nicey fake with each other all the time I’m not sure she could even take him saying a bad word about her. This whole ‘don’t have your light dimed’ ‘be yourself’ etc, it sounds like he gave her some home truths and she couldn’t take it. She really paints herself as a saintly figure, determined to be perfect, perhaps connected to the rejection by her father.
 
lilamay said:
She's met up with her friends in London again, though her brunch did not look very exciting.

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Ooooh a green salad! I love ordering complicated meals when i brunch and whipping up rocket leaves and cherry tomatoes would be such a sad order. Guess she's lost her appetite, heartbeak weight loss ahoy! (Mind you she doesn't have any spare lbs to loose...)
 
Hally34 said:
I wonder if rather than catching him cheating, she caught him slagging her off or making fun of her to his brother and it brought the whole thing to a head. They seem to be so nicey nicey fake with each other all the time I’m not sure she could even take him saying a bad word about her. This whole ‘don’t have your light dimed’ ‘be yourself’ etc, it sounds like he gave her some home truths and she couldn’t take it. She really paints herself as a saintly figure, determined to be perfect, perhaps connected to the rejection by her father.
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I hope she is at peace with her bio Dad not being in her life, she has a close and loving family and her father was probably a teenager. Yes they are a very wealthy family, but more importantly they seem close and spend time together. She is clearly very loved.

I get irritated when people say plant based is sad and no one can expect a man to eat a yummy filling meal on it. There is an abundance of food out there from junk food to healthy. There are plenty of vegan body builders and athletes joe just ate niomis sad little meals smothered in nutritional yeast! When he made tacos they looked great, would have been better in the taco shells as opposed to the lettuce cups but that's niomi all over, until recently she used to eat bread, potatoes and rice. She made nut roasts etc

Is tattle playing up for anyone else? Keeps randomly taking me to advertisers and it's hard to type out a comment as the keyboard keeps dissappearing.

Leah91 said:
Did anyone hear her friend “no one has that *somethinr something* relationship” then her other friend said “my ex boyfriend...”
Niomi looks uncomfortable😶
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Yeah she looks unhappy. She can't put off grieving her relationship forever... but i can understand wanting to. That's why she's been so busy socialising she is distracting herself - or trying to.

Even replying to fans - just a distraction from being alone and wanting more than anything to be talking to joe.
 
Swipeupyouguys said:
I hope she is at peace with her bio Dad not being in her life, she has a close and loving family and her father was probably a teenager. Yes they are a very wealthy family, but more importantly they seem close and spend time together. She is clearly very loved.
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I have to say as someone who doesn’t know their bio father I do chuckle a bit when people say about the ‘rejection.’ I can see why to people who haven’t experienced it maybe it seems that way. To me I have never felt any rejection. I also have a close and wonderful family, and I feel no loss at all in not knowing someone who left my young mother in the lurch with a baby. Her neurotic nature and perfectionism could be linked to that, I guess, but it seems more like it’s just how she is to me. As others have said many times I do think she knows what she wants her brand to be and she really lives to that, so much so that maybe the line between Niomi the person and Niomi the brand is blurred or even has disappeared now.
 
I have finally watched last couple of videos of Niomi and Joe before they are deleted and realised Niomi completely forgot the word I exists... we like this, we did this, we bought this. I know she was in love and excited but it was too much for me even as a viewer. I can't imagine my partner becoming my conjoined twin, poor Joe if he's the kind of person who needs a bit of space.
 
judgejohndeed said:
I have to say as someone who doesn’t know their bio father I do chuckle a bit when people say about the ‘rejection.’ I can see why to people who haven’t experienced it maybe it seems that way. To me I have never felt any rejection. I also have a close and wonderful family, and I feel no loss at all in not knowing someone who left my young mother in the lurch with a baby. Her neurotic nature and perfectionism could be linked to that, I guess, but it seems more like it’s just how she is to me. As others have said many times I do think she knows what she wants her brand to be and she really lives to that, so much so that maybe the line between Niomi the person and Niomi the brand is blurred or even has disappeared now.
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Yeah that is what i was trying to get at, lots of posts saying she must feel no man will stay but her family are close, vlogmas, annual holiday in spain. Seems ideallic and she's clearly loved and adored by her extended family too. She's lucky!

romansalad said:
I have finally watched last couple of videos of Niomi and Joe before they are deleted and realised Niomi completely forgot the word I exists... we like this, we did this, we bought this. I know she was in love and excited but it was too much for me even as a viewer. I can't imagine my partner becoming my conjoined twin, poor Joe if he's the kind of person who needs a bit of space.
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Clingy.

 
Swipeupyouguys said:
Yeah that is what i was trying to get at, lots of posts saying she must feel no man will stay but her family are close, vlogmas, annual holiday in spain. Seems ideallic and she's clearly loved and adored by her extended family too. She's lucky!
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Exactly and she did have a very long relationship with Marcus that it seemed like she chose to end rather than the other way around. I think her reaction to this break up makes it seem like she’s not actually used to male rejection at all, personally - lots have said it seems like the first time she’s been ‘dumped’ by a man and I totally agree.
Also agree with what you said about putting off the grieving, I do worry for her that she is burying her hand in the sand now and focusing on enjoying herself while everyone’s rallying round. Which is fine and nice but after a while people won’t be doing this to the same level. And when that stops and she has time to think and start grieving the relationship, people might not be able to give her as much time as they’re giving her now etc. It all calms down after a while. And if that’s when she starts feeling it when she’s not as surrounded by people all the time it will hit a lot harder. I hope she is doing some reflecting and being sad about it still behind the scenes.
 
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