Same, I’d hate to sleep in a separate bed to my OH. Even if I don’t want to cuddle or be touched, it’s just comforting having him next to me.
It’s an act of vulnerability, sleeping next to someone. Because obviously you’re vulnerable when you’re out like a log
that’s what makes it pretty intimate.
There was a time when I was dating someone and my head wasn’t in the right place, and I just never wanted him to stay over and sleep in my bed - I just wasn’t ready to be vulnerable and intimate with someone.
Nelly comes across as someone who really isn’t at peace with themselves at all and I don’t think her relationship with B is based on deep intimacy and connection, it seems to be based on codependency.
It’s troubling that she can’t seem to go to events without B, and she brands it as a “date night”.
Except date nights are doing something special or nice for
both people in the relationship. Going to a work event essentially (gymshark opening), where she is crabby and uninterested, isn’t quality time. It’s B acting as her emotional crutch.
the sad thing is, she says she suffers from anxiety and clearly has difficulty attending these events: being in a codependent relationship that she seems to have with B, can only make that worse for her. The more she relies on him, the more she will erode her sense of self and independence.
But I get the sense that the more with point it out on tattle, the more she digs her heels in and tell herself that they are fine and posts a picture of her cuddling him or something smh
Playing fast and loose with the word “career”
notice how a lot of her questions seem to end in hearts? Pure coincidence that people sending them in use emojis the exact same way as Her, right Helena?
desperately trying to convince everyone that she does work and she’s not a lazy baggage with her “4 hours of emails” and “2 meetings”.
yet she’s prancing around in her undies soooo