Mia Jeal #4 co-sleeping&weaning she has no clue,even needs mum’s permission for baby No.2

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Her video sounds like she’s come into the real world of motherhood to me. My baby (Same age as Mabel) is fussy at food times, he needs an hour of rocking before bed. She had it so easier with Mabel the ‘perfect’ baby now she’s struggling. Motherhood is lonely, isolation is lonely, she’s not the only one who has these problems in fact she’s blessed to not have extra on top such as money worries, being actually alone etc.
 
I’m a longtime reader of the thread and I’ve been very conflicted because I loved Mia last year but since December/January I’ve not really watched any of her videos unless they’ve been mentioned on the thread. I have spoken up on twitter about how Mia definitely needs a break away from social media and in the past after her comment on “liking darker types” but I’m nervous about the response because I don’t want the 11 year olds as you call them to come after me when I was just giving advice

I don’t know if I should unfollow and unsubscribe and leave that area of YouTube for a few months even a year or stick around to see if anything else happens or can be rectified with Mia’s recent behaviour
 
Abcqtyr1 said:
I’m a longtime reader of the thread and I’ve been very conflicted because I loved Mia last year but since December/January I’ve not really watched any of her videos unless they’ve been mentioned on the thread. I have spoken up on twitter about how Mia definitely needs a break away from social media and in the past after her comment on “liking darker types” but I’m nervous about the response because I don’t want the 11 year olds as you call them to come after me when I was just giving advice

I don’t know if I should unfollow and unsubscribe and leave that area of YouTube for a few months even a year or stick around to see if anything else happens or can be rectified with Mia’s recent behaviour
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I honestly believe is mia seeks some help for her mental health and has a break from social media she really could turn herself around and have good content
Like you, I only really watch what’s mentioned on here, I unsubbed and unfollowed because I honestly don’t think I want to encourage her behaviour with my ‘support’
It’s something only time can show
 
It’s nice to see she’s using reusable nappys. Hopefully she inspires other young mums into making the leap as they’re brilliant. In terms of her content, it’s terrible but it’s down to her - I feel like she needs to get some other focus like get a job or study (is she already at college?) and keep the content creating as a side hustle. She seems like she could do with a break and focus more on Mabel than editing
 
Malamula said:
It’s nice to see she’s using reusable nappys. Hopefully she inspires other young mums into making the leap as they’re brilliant. In terms of her content, it’s terrible but it’s down to her - I feel like she needs to get some other focus like get a job or study (is she already at college?) and keep the content creating as a side hustle. She seems like she could do with a break and focus more on Mabel than editing
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She doesn’t use the cloth nappies correctly though and has spread incorrect info about them, she only uses them to get the 12 year old followers talking about how she’s saving the planet one piss at a time 🤦🏽‍♀️

She was doing an online business course and is due to start full time college in September (COVID dependant)

100% she needs to get her priorities sorted out and focus on Mabel instead of continuing to produce the same boring vlogs where all she does is tell us she forgot to film she’s tidied her room and Mabels just gone down for a nap
 
hanhan said:
her spouting on twitter about how shane can grow and mature as if he’s not already a 30 year old man who should know better? really hoping mia is over the idea of having a mixed donor baby if this is how she responds to racism
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That video where she talked about wanting a “dark type” for her donor was the last straw. I put a clip of what she said on my Snapchat to prove to all those Mia stans (friend of a friend and even some uni course mates) that told me she never said that. People were disgusted at what she said and a few people unsubscribed after seeing it
 
Mias snapchat talking about how her and her friend are going to have heir next kids at the same time so they can be friends too... blah blah blah...

Does Mia not appreciate that not everybody goes “I want a baby” and poof they get pregnant the next month! After miscarrying and trying to conceive for almost 2 years It really bugs me that she thinks pregnancy is a given right.

Even if you conceive you have a 1 in 4 likelihood of the pregnancy ending in miscarriage, it’s horrible but it’s a fact.
 
jellytots322 said:
My sister is a year old and just weighs over 9kg, average weight of a 8 month old baby is 7.5kg. Even if Mia is using the swing to make her life easier, you don’t know what she’s doing, how Mabel is feeling. Sometimes you have to literally do anything to make a baby happy when they’re teething/grizzly. Mabel was strapped in and she was content. I feel like you all find things to pick on Mia about. Pick on the misinformed videos, pick on how she contradicts herself. But you literally are only seeing a small snippet in that video
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Mabel's head wasn't even cradled in the seat from what I remember.

My small had outgrown her Joie swing by 5.5 months so whilst she's a big baby in length and weight, I thought an 8 month old would be been too big weight wise. My bad. 🤷‍♀️
 
Marymoo13 said:
Mias snapchat talking about how her and her friend are going to have heir next kids at the same time so they can be friends too... blah blah blah...

Does Mia not appreciate that not everybody goes “I want a baby” and poof they get pregnant the next month! After miscarrying and trying to conceive for almost 2 years It really bugs me that she thinks pregnancy is a given right.

Even if you conceive you have a 1 in 4 likelihood of the pregnancy ending in miscarriage, it’s horrible but it’s a fact.
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just seen the Snapchat! It’s literally like sitting in on a conversation between two 11 year olds. Ones that get overexcited about wearing the same outfit for non uniform day, saying they can’t wait to get big and have kids together, joint marriage and live next door to each other 🤦‍♀️ grow up OMG
 
Jessicaab said:
Maybe I’m lucky but my baby slept through since about 4 months, she has always napped very well. I moved house when she was 5 1/2 months and she went straight into her own room and has slept 11/12 hours a night ever since. BUT, I understand and accept that having a little one takes sacrifices, routine is so important and if you stick to it and work at it, it works! My ‘me’ time is about 30 mins a day when she naps, after I have done what I need to do around the house but that’s fine, that’s being a mum! I put her needs before all of mine. If you still want to do your own thing and watch crap telly, play on your switch or bloody fake tan (Priorities) whilst your baby is awake you have to accept that a routine isn’t necessarily going to work, unless you have the most docile baby on the planet! Sorry for the rant but this is something I feel very strongly about! I hate seeing babies left to their own devices to suit the parent/s.
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My daughter was 8 weeks old when she started sleeping throughout the night
 
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