Melanie Murphy #3 from aer lingus to finglas, ads gone static, living it up in the in-laws attic

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monga said:
Yes that's right ,she said it was because she was exhausted they had to help deliver the baby.
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i texted my ob/gyne colleague and oop.. (she’s just come off a week of nights. Excuse the mania 😂)
 

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Surely in an exhausted mother/baby not coming out scenario the doctor is just going to do what is best? Medical malpractice can happen and I think labour is a vulnerable time for women for this to happen, but using forceps instead of the suction cup to get baby out faster is not wrong?

If it had been a c section she would probably complain of the same thing. Anything other than her perfect med free water birth was going to be a disappointment I think, and the medical team are easy to blame rather than nature.
 
Mystery07 said:
Surely in an exhausted mother/baby not coming out scenario the doctor is just going to do what is best? Medical malpractice can happen and I think labour is a vulnerable time for women for this to happen, but using forceps instead of the suction cup to get baby out faster is not wrong?

If it had been a c section she would probably complain of the same thing. Anything other than her perfect med free water birth was going to be a disappointment I think, and the medical team are easy to blame rather than nature.
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She said she can still barely walk and is getting physio so I'm sure the baby must have been in distress of some sort if she's still in that state and forceps had to be used ,they don't use them willy nilly it's more a step up from having to have a c section but I can't believe she's made up that bullshit of having them forced upon her after all the praise she heaped on the staff after the birth😐
 
Dearreader said:
She's flying off the handle at commenter who stated we should trust the medical experts. My god she's unbearable.
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She's just making up utter bollocks at this point. Sorry, more armchair diagnoses but it has to be something pathological because nobody would have thought any worse of her if she had been worn out by labour (in fact nobody would have thought anything!). Labour is a difficult time for a lot of women, and it's a lot stronger to accept that you needed a bit of help and were having a rough time yet STILL managed to pull through in the end, rather than "Oh naughty doctors tricked me into having a healthy baby and keeping me alive, rah my life is so hard!"

Kudos to any woman on here who has been through labour - medicated or unmedicated, forceps or no forceps, water birth or no water birth - all of that jazz. You're a warrior, irrespective of how you managed it.
 
Dearreader said:
She's flying off the handle at commenter who stated we should trust the medical experts. My god she's unbearable.
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Excuse me, but what an annoying witch she is!
the baby came out healthy, be grateful.

i compared Melanies birth to mine a few times, because we both had big babies and both had third degree tears. My baby was delivered without forceps, but I still had 3 tears and it was inevitable with a baby that size. The way she’s saying it sounds like the midwives ripped her vagina with forceps.
 
I avoided this thread for a long time cause this woman is not well and honestly just reading about her seriously affects me. I’ve come back and it’s genuinely only taken a few days for it to happen again. I can’t deal with it. Melanie is damaged and needs help and needs to get off social media.
 
RosaGirl200 said:
We're never going to stop hearing about those tears are we.....
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I feel sorry for the baby, he’s going to be blamed for those tears in a few years

monga said:
She's saying the hospital only permitted her an hour and a half to give birth :oops: jesus she's demented ,it's a pity the hospital couldn't be made aware of these posts and take action against her she's tarnishing their name all over SM to thousands .
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I’ve done my own research (see Melanie you’re not the only one who’s able to google) and you can push for two hours before the hospital considers helping you out. Would she have preferred for the medical staff to leave her there pushing away and for the baby’s heart rate to drop? That happened to my mother when she was giving birth to me and I was born not breathing cause they left it too long without helping her with a suction. Would Melanie have really preferred to risk her baby’s life instead of having a healthy baby and a few tears that will heal before long?
 
Dearreader said:
She's flying off the handle at commenter who stated we should trust the medical experts. My god she's unbearable.
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"Going for a home birth next time"?!
sheeeeesh...Mel, think.
she'd probably have ended up in hospital anyways with this specific labour, and the outcome might not have been half as good had they had to whisk her off to hospital when baby was already in distress.

(more power to women who do go and have home births though! I think when it is safe, that's a fantastic option!)
 
Oh dear lord. Of course she's allowed to share her experience of pregnancy, birth, etc., I'm sure her followers want to hear about it. But accusing medical professionals on a very public platform of using forceps negligently because they wanted to free up beds.. what the actual fk?! She really does think she knows everything doesn't she?
 
I've just seen another comment saying that her care changed "when her time was up" wtf?? No hospital has time limits on labour? There are limits on how long they will let you push etc FOR YOUR OWN AND BABIES SAFETY but she seems to be implying they wanted to kick her out for just being there too long! Going to have to stop looking at her insta as it is just making me angry 😂.
 
Mystery07 said:
I've just seen another comment saying that her care changed "when her time was up" wtf?? No hospital has time limits on labour? There are limits on how long they will let you push etc FOR YOUR OWN AND BABIES SAFETY but she seems to be implying they wanted to kick her out for just being there too long! Going to have to stop looking at her insta as it is just making me angry 😂.
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Hahahaha just little egg timers on the end of the hospital beds.
"I'm sorry Mrs Jones, but your allocated two hours is up, so ram that baby back up your birth canal and book an appointment for next Tuesday!"
 
Anyways after she proudly announced that her son will be offline, I just expected to see the usual fabletics crap, her boobs and other parts content. Like some bloggers don’t want to be focusing on having children, so they just carry on like they did before after having babies. While all we hear about from Melanie now is baby related. I don’t understand why she just doesn’t admit she wants to be a saccone jolly, catholic wife, mother of many children
 
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