I mentioned earlier about using her Hermes as armor and weapons against her battle to the death of every woman that exists outside her house daring to take attention away from her. I have long had a pet theory on influencers and women in real life that carry Hermes bags with EVERYTHING. Like Lydia. That they are the most insecure women ever. I see you lugging that Birkin 30 in Black Togo with a pink sequin gown for an evening event ( yes I saw this, and yes the girl is broke hiding behind debt to appear wealthy)…stop right there. This is not btw like Mary Kate and her iconic beat up Birkin. It’s these influencers, d list celebs and the like that have a lizard brain and think Birkin = acceptance, rich and I’m better than you, must have more!
A Birkin or a Kelly or whatever quota Hermes bag you have doesn’t go with everything. This is coming from someone who loves and has Hermes. Dragging it out to be shown with EVERY outfit because you can’t not be seen with a bag that will let other people know you are so rich and important or whatever you think you are, is like a kid with a security blanket. If you can’t be comfortable with yourself without wearing your Hermes, it’s an issue. You should feel as comfortable with a bag that goes with your outfit, whether that is Hermes or from the outdoor market, because who cares if x, y and z person see’s you with something nondescript…it seems like a fate worse than death for some d listers, influencers and ladies I know. It’s sad. Also..please learn to find a proper evening bag. Stop pairing gowns with some big honking leather bag just because it is designer. Josie does this all the time and Leonora used to…gown with jumbo leather Chanel double flap…nooooo!
It’s why she has to add “boarding school” or insert whatever other unnecessary descriptive she uses when describing her family or herself. You have the ego the size of the tallest tower in the world but a gust of wind could knock it down. No sane person adds those descriptors when speaking. I know more people that legitimately have lives Lydia has made up in her head hide those descriptors than add them into polite conversation. It’s horribly embarrassing. Like I get second hand embarrassment when she says those things. I’m a grown woman and I don’t discuss what high school I went to because who cares, that was so long ago…let alone that my grandpa or whichever the duck famous relative went to boarding school. Dear god Lydia, you might impress a few brain dead minions but the people you want to talk to are going to never speak to you if you continue like this. It sure is something to watch. Her narcissistic mask slipping on occasion, her huge ego and fragile sense of self, her obsession with status. I think she spirals…A LOT…in a much worse way than we see behind closed doors.