Love Island 2022 #46 Gemma’s got 99 problems, but a Bish ain’t one!

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I know you're all Ekin fans, but does anyone else see her smirk, like she knows what she's saying will make the final edit? This week I've slowly gone off her

I don't really like seeing Ekin having argument and a fight with Davide every few days. She loves drama and plays up every dissatisfation with him.
If I were a guy that would give me a red flag. I like how Davide said he doesn't want such type of drama to happen in the outside, and think if she goes on this way they can't last for too long
 
Thousands upon Thousands of pro Luca comments on various TikToks of Luca and Gemmas arguement, they all think he’s in the right! 🥴 if him and Gemma win it’s that crowd responsible for co-signing an example of an abusive relationship dynamic to the nation.

It’s sad cos you know young girls buy into these couples and will think it’s normal.
 
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Reddit is just as bad as fb and ig now 🤮
 

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She doesn’t need to win because “her fame is secured” and she’s from a “mega rich family”? What does that even mean?

Her life could be destroyed by “fame” and her parents wealth is no indication of her fortune to come, do you know anyone whose parents fund their life after the age of 18?


With that line of logic maybe the itv should consider to screen out contestants whose annual income and personal wealth exceed a certain amount so that every one has the "legit reason" to win :LOL:
 
She’s probably staying with him because it’s easier for her, meaning she won’t get the vile abuse (from both luca and the public) she would if she was to end things.

I think that's the thing in real life to where women/men staying in a toxic relationship longer than they should be. There could be a lot of reasons behind their decision to put up with the situation. And no matter what the reason is it is disheartening to hear others telling them "to be shameful" of themselves or are "losing respect" when they are the victims in the first place.
 
To be quite honest I didn’t think I had to clarify in my original comment that Lucas behaviour is abysmal. I’ve made multiple remarks about that before and it generally goes without saying. What I obviously should have clarified is that I thought Gemma was well aware and doing it to win - which I since have. To be honest, I again thought everyone felt that way as everyone I’ve spoken to outside this thread does. Plus the fact you all know she’ll dump him the second she leaves suggests you do too. I mean she shows it herself by how much she calls him up on his behaviour.

19 isn’t a child, she’s an adult, she’s also extremely well coached and media trained by her family, that’s very apparent. And at the end of the day, if you are making money off being an influencer, literally influencing people, you are a role model wether you like it or not.

Quite obviously his behaviour isn’t her fault, but I do believe she is only putting up with it because it gives her an easier ride to the final, she knows she wouldn’t have a chance now otherwise. If she walked or even just dumped him, then obviously I’d eat my words. And it’s absolutely fine that other people think otherwise. It’s an opinion not a fact. Again, none of us really know.
 
People that call Luca a gaslighter have clearly never been with one. Lucas behaviour is nothing in comparison to a "narc" or "gaslighter". Just because this terminology has become mainstream and it's so cool to call everyone and their dog a gaslighter doesn't make it right.

Don't get me wrong Luca is a bleep but that's about it. Stop analysing people's mental health and definitely stop psychoanalysing people that play a role on TV. It's not good for anyone.

What he needs is Gemma to tell him to duck off without having this "winning" thought in her head. She's going to end it after the show if not earlier. It's not that big of a deal and she's handling it well. I'd understand if she was so affected that she was sad/mad/crying her eyes out all the time. But she is fine and doing great. Unfortunately women have to deal with lots of pricks in their life.

Dami is also a bleep - thought I'd reiterate because I saw someone say that they like Dami again. Errrr no. Indyah is a bit dumb to say "I love you" back. I hope they go home tomorrow.
 
I think Gemma should be ashamed of herself too tbh. She’s the most mature one in there so she has no excuse for accepting being treated like this 🤷🏻‍♀️
That's not how it works when you're being mentally and emotionally abused 🤦🏼‍♀️ She's 19yrs old and has probably never met anyone like him before in her life! Her family would have never tolerated someone speaking to and treating their daughter like that! I'm so shocked at the ignorance of your comment. I can only assume that you or anyone that that is close to you, has never encountered or been in this situation before. For that I'm pleased for you but please do look in to it and educate yourself on this subject before victim blaming
 
That's not how it works when you're being mentally and emotionally abused 🤦🏼‍♀️ She's 19yrs old and has probably never met anyone like him before in her life! Her family would have never tolerated someone speaking to and treating their daughter like that! I'm so shocked at the ignorance of your comment. I can only assume that you or anyone that that is close to you, has never encountered or been in this situation before. For that I'm pleased for you but please do look in to it and educate yourself on this subject before victim blaming

She dated Jacques, are you for real? Luca and Jacques are like clones. So yes, she very much has dated someone like this before. You have no idea about my life and making it personal isn’t needed. I’ve made my comments and been respectful about the fact people disagree. You are capable of doing the same.

You think she doesn’t know what she’s doing, I think she does. And that’s ok, like I say we won’t ever truly know.
 
People that call Luca a gaslighter have clearly never been with one. Lucas behaviour is nothing in comparison to a "narc" or "gaslighter". Just because this terminology has become mainstream and it's so cool to call everyone and their dog a gaslighter doesn't make it right.

Don't get me wrong Luca is a bleep but that's about it. Stop analysing people's mental health and definitely stop psychoanalysing people that play a role on TV. It's not good for anyone.

What he needs is Gemma to tell him to duck off without having this "winning" thought in her head. She's going to end it after the show if not earlier. It's not that big of a deal and she's handling it well. I'd understand if she was so affected that she was sad/mad/crying her eyes out all the time. But she is fine and doing great. Unfortunately women have to deal with lots of pricks in their life.

Dami is also a bleep - thought I'd reiterate because I saw someone say that they like Dami again. Errrr no. Indyah is a bit dumb to say "I love you" back. I hope they go home tomorrow.

Luca quite literally was gaslighting Gemma though. He was distorting her reality of a situation (e.g. saying she gave it the most out of all the girls in the challenge) when she was obviously being awkward as duck 😂
 
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