Love Island 2021 #23

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she looks like Chloe ferry here and for anyone who follows her- this is not a good sign 😔
 
Lalla said:
I'm on the fence on this.

Whilst seeing that clip of Teddy wouldn't necessarily have made me lose my rag as much as Faye did, I would still have been bloody annoyed with him, not so much for being attracted to someone else but for the fact he'd not said a single thing about it. The whole debacle with Jake would have quite possibly tipped me over the edge. I don't get why none of the other girls were annoyed by the gnome, are they all just such simps that they can't see how bad it was? Why was no one else calling Jake out?!

Jake's reaction to Faye was really unpleasant. Take it from someone who's been there, he's the sort of bloke who would react with his hands if a woman puts him down or calls him out on his behaviour. It's written all over his thick face.

I know that loads of you think Matt is great, but I found the bit with him and that utter bellend Liam sitting there and commenting (about how awful Faye's shouting and arguing was) so bloody misogynistic. Real overtones of how women should behave in a certain way etc. Can't bear either of them now.

But back to Faye.. thing is, she did say she didn't want to speak to Teddy. Shouldn't he have left it at that? Spoke to her tomorrow when she was sober and a calmer discussion could have ensued?

I'm no massive fan of Faye's at all and haven't ever wanted her to win (other than as a way to stop Jiberty) but from some posts on here tonight the level of horror at her behaviour is such that you'd think she'd killed someone. She got annoyed, at least part of which was justified, she lost her temper, shouted and swore. She said her bit. In some ways I think good for her. I'd rather do that than be totally passive like Millie who is allowing Liam to walk all over her and will do exactly the same the next time he cheats and the one after that.
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Yep agree with a lot of this. I know when I'm about to lose my rag and if I say walk away then you should.

I hate the way people are making judgements lately. Like if a group of my friends go out on a Saturday, inevitably at least one of us will be crying in the toilets, one of us will fall asleep, one of us will lose their phone. Someone will post it all to their story and we'll all get mad about it 😂

Women are held to much higher standards than men. Black men are held to a higher standard than white me . Black women are held to a higher standard than white women. I know that every situation is individual but I think this series alone highlights all of this
 
Tit.tat said:
I don’t tell my husband if I find another guy attractive and I’m not naive enough to think he doesn’t find other women attractive. I can tell if he does, but I don’t rage. I’ll either not say anything or pass a joke like yeah I saw that ass too. I wouldn’t be annoyed if he didn’t tell me- if anything I wouldn’t want to know as it’s just innocent attraction.
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You're not comparing like with like though.
Having spent time alone with another person, kissed them (albeit in a dare game), told them you were attracted to them and couldn't share a bed with them because it would be dangerous...and so on (and then not telling the person you're involved with about it) is hardly the same as walking past someone in the street and thinking they're fit but keeping that to yourself.

Faye and Teddy should have cleared the air when he came back and both been honest about what did and didn't happen. It's reality TV, both should have known that everything would be on camera and come out one way or another.
 
That was so bleeping uncomfortable to watch ive defended Faye but at this point all she's doing is projecting all her hurt and pain on to another person making him her verbal punching bag! Dehumanising him and his emotions and right to also have them, meanwhile Millie forgives Liam, Tyler and Kaz? And Chloe and Toby are giving great advice and dale hello !!!!!
 
judgejohndeed said:
Being kind sometimes means telling someone they’re wrong, that the way they’re behaving is not acceptable and that they need to seek help. Everyone placating her (while I COMPLETELY understand why nobody would want to get involved) does not help her. The kindest thing would be someone telling her to leave and seek counselling/MH support.
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I have a question.. @judgejohndeed where would we see the fallout (if any) from tonight?
Will it be reported ofcom complaints or will Love Island producers directly address the situation?

My first Love Island and in the ROI so don't really understand the magnitude of Ofcom complaints?
 
Marie1978 said:
I get your point but I think because she's so insecure and fiery why would he tell her that when it was nothing in the first place. I certainly wouldn't if I knew the other person was gonna hit the roof and I had done nothing wrong.
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Also, Clarisse was taken back to the villa by Tyler which would have made it even harder for Teddy to say anything!

It wouldn't have just been "there was one girl that I thought was really fit but I didn't act on it because I like you", it would have been "I think that girl who is now sleeping in the same room as us is fit". We all know that Faye would not have taken that well, so why would Teddy feed in to her insecurities and cause awkwardness between the two girls for the sake of explaining something that wasn't even that big a deal?

I don't think Teddy hid anything out of malice, I think he just didn't mention it because to him it was completely insignificant.
 
She was dead right here. Chloe didn't go about it right.

Having said that I'm team Chloby for the win. I think they've both matured a lot . Toby was actually dead on tonight. Chloe is gas, I'd like a friend like her


Glóbylydl said:
She's a witch to anyone who rubs her up the wrong way.

Remember when she was talking about Chloé behind her back because she didn't agree with her going after Toby.

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Babyboo75 said:
Maybe you should look up the definition if aggressive….
Faye was extremely aggressive…it jumped out of the tv screen
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I don't consider raising your voice aggressive per se. Getting annoyed and shouting is a normal human reaction. I never trust those people who claim never to shout or raise their voices. Or swear for that matter.

That said:
Did she go a bit too far? Yes, I'm not disagreeing with that (although some emotion other than passivity in the girls in there made a change).

However
Has there been far worse shown on TV all the time? Also yes. This was pretty mild compared to stuff like Geordie Shore tbh.
 
LittleMy said:
I don’t care how annoyed she was, she says she’s an adult but if she was then she would have removed herself from the situation to cool down. Not had a barney on national television, acting like Billy Big Balls.
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Thank you and I'm amazed this even needs to be pointed out to anybody.

"I'm angry so you should walk away"? What kind of bullshit is that? The onus is on the angry person to express it in an adult way and not like a raving dangerous lunatic someone else should *have to* walk away from to be safe. There's NO justifying Faye's behaviour tonight.

PLUS we all saw the girls were ALL cowering in fear of her. People in here asking why did none of the girls talk her down? Because her behaviour was frightening. Bear in mind we only saw the edited version. One must be so used to dysfunctional relationships to think this tit is okay.
 
Tippingpoint23 said:
I can see why they didn’t she must have been so intimidating blowing her lid like that. She was vile to Dale who seemed to just be trying to diffuse her a little bit. If a girl had stood up to her she’d have just turned around and laid into them. Plus I’m sure a lot of them didn’t want to get dragged into that drama as they have their own stuff to contend with.
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Acting intimidated around people like that is just giving them more power tbh.
 
She was though... which makes his "omission of truth" worse.

We all watched Faye question their relationship & go down and tell Teddy afterwards. I think doubts are normal & healthy. Its up to them if they work it out. Everyone deserves love
 
Chilli92 said:
One of the women should of said something tbh. It was only dale and matthew that stood up to her, the quietest guys in the villa. But maybe they were scared? Also why is faye only a witch to the men? Tbh its better to ignore people like her, she'll just keep going on and on. But at the same time she carries on cause she knows people are intimidated.
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This is where the women should be in the beach hut giving their testimonials and honest opinions of what they thought, so they can get it out to the public. Plus it would make for good viewing..JMO
 
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