Don't worry about your son, going abroad doesn't make you a good mum, all those things you are doing with him does! Has Skanky EVER been to one of her kids soccer games, or schools, or anything else for that matter? No. It's all about making them do what SHE wants, i.e. plastering themselves with make up and taking stupid selfies. I'm sure your son will turn out to be a fine young man. You are setting a good example for him by working hard for what you have! I never went on a plane until I was 12, my older brother took me to Paris for a long weekend. The next time I went was age 22 for my honeymoon. My holidays were always bucket and spade weeks at the seaside and I had great fun and now look back on them with very fond memories. Keep up the good work, YOU really are a GOOD MOTHER!