Kat reminds me of a family member.
Buys flat in London, gets bored, buys house in country, too suburban, has an affair, buys bigger house in country keeps some chickens. Craves for the city. Has an affair, gets divorced, moves to a city flat, remarried moves to suburbs, hates it. Gets divorced, move to a country house with chickens, gets remarried, hates it craves city life. 4 kids, alcoholic. Never happy, grass is always greener. It’s never his fault his life is like this. Always blames his current partner for forcing a life on him he hates. Sees kids when he’s lonely, but if he’s ok doesn’t see them at all. Although at least 2 chose to not see him anymore.
Constantly up or down.
Highly manipulative.
There are definitely parallels!